LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

dh and i wanted to warn ya's

Posted By Message
Pages: [1] 2

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

Name:
To a brand new year to a healthier me

dh and i wanted to warn ya's

we used a real estate Weichert and ever since we bought our house we been having problems which must of you know about! now we get our first statement for our mortage which is due in aug and we saw that they took money out of escrow on us which they were NOT allowed too due to the damages in our basement! never use their mortage guy get one from the outside and dont use their lawyer either because he does not do anything he seems like he is not helping us and believe me he will get sued if we dont get our money back. just wanted to share & vent thanks!

Message edited 7/22/2006 2:05:48 PM.

Posted 7/22/06 11:39 AM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

Disneygirl
Disney cruise bound!

Member since 5/05

8126 total posts

Name:
D

Re: my Dh and I want to warn people I will also put this on the home board

Thanks for the warning. So sorry this is happening to you! Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 11:46 AM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

Name:
To a brand new year to a healthier me

Re: my Dh and I want to warn people I will also put this on the home board

your welcome I hope I dont get in trouble for doing this??? i mean I just had enough with the realestate I just dont want to see anyone on here go through what we did!!Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 11:55 AM
 

lvdolphins
My Loves!

Member since 5/05

46292 total posts

Name:

Re: my Dh and I want to warn people I will also put this on the home board

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
Just be careful on the negativity posts. They may be pulled.
I am sorry you are going through this.Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 11:59 AM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

Name:
To a brand new year to a healthier me

Re: my Dh and I want to warn people I will also put this on the home board

thanks

Posted 7/22/06 11:59 AM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

Name:
To a brand new year to a healthier me

Re: my Dh and I want to warn people I will also put this on the home board

i might pull it anyway i dont want to get in trouble

Posted 7/22/06 12:00 PM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

Member since 5/05

31871 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: deleted the post

Rosanne...i highly doubt your thread was going to get pulledChat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 12:03 PM
 

lvdolphins
My Loves!

Member since 5/05

46292 total posts

Name:

Re: deleted the post

Kinda my fault..I don't think you shouldve deleted it. Maybe its just on LIW that the "bashing businesses" gets pulled".
Sorry!Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 12:05 PM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

Name:
To a brand new year to a healthier me

Re: deleted the post

thats ok but to be on the safe side i did!

Posted 7/22/06 12:05 PM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

Member since 5/05

31871 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: deleted the post

Posted by lvdolphins

Kinda my fault..I don't think you shouldve deleted it. Maybe its just on LIW that the "bashing businesses" gets pulled".
Sorry!Chat Icon

true

but you can certainly give a review of a business

and that is all it was..

it wasn't bashing IMO

Posted 7/22/06 12:07 PM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

Name:
To a brand new year to a healthier me

Re: deleted the post

thanks jenn.

Posted 7/22/06 12:27 PM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

Name:
To a brand new year to a healthier me

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

I bought back the post.

Posted 7/22/06 2:06 PM
 

danielleandscott
My new 71 Super Beetle

Member since 5/05

13476 total posts

Name:
Scott

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

Our real estate tried to get us to use their mortage broker after telling them initially we had someone already. she even tried to "scare" us by saying we could lose the house to another bid. Well, I refused to give in to it and we still got the house.

Posted 7/22/06 2:09 PM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

Name:
To a brand new year to a healthier me

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

we are already in our house scott already going on week three alreadywoohoo! but the downfall is that they are doing squat to help us.Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 2:19 PM
 

janet
WITH LOVE MY ANGEL MISS YOU!!!

Member since 5/05

12823 total posts

Name:
janet

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

ro don't worry about it getting pulled!!! you are saving people who may be buying a house hasles to look out for weither this company or another oneChat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 2:23 PM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

Name:
To a brand new year to a healthier me

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

thanks janet!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 2:26 PM
 

danielleandscott
My new 71 Super Beetle

Member since 5/05

13476 total posts

Name:
Scott

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

Can you take them to small claims court?

Posted 7/22/06 2:53 PM
 

nov04libride
big brother <3

Member since 5/05

14672 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

In general I don't think I would use the lawyers recommended or used by the real estate company. It almost seems like a conflict of interest when it comes to situations like these.

Posted 7/22/06 3:01 PM
 

-DonnaMarie-
<3

Member since 5/05

6079 total posts

Name:

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

I think its majorly ethically wrong for them to recommend anyone that is on their "team" Chat Icon
If they do they should (have to?) offer 2 others for you to choose from as well, ie, 3 Lawyers and not 1 who may be in their pocket.

Our RE agent tried this too, suggesting her lawyer (her brother Chat Icon ), an engineer (are you kidding?) and a mortgage broker.
We got all our own people, she didn't seem happy but too bad,

Hope it works out for you! Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 3:34 PM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

Member since 5/05

31871 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

i don't think it is ethically wrong

LOTS of wedding halls have their "recommended" florist and photographer and what not...

Sorry but i think if you do not do your own research then y ou are bound to get screwed....

i can't really say it is unethical though

Posted 7/22/06 3:40 PM
 

Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!

Member since 10/05

29450 total posts

Name:
Diana

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

I don't think it's unethical. When I refer people to clients (as a real estate agent) I do so because I know that they are competent people. I don't do it to get a kickback or as a way to ensure that the deal happens. When I am referring people I do it to make the buyers lives easier and couldn't care less if they used who I recommended. I work with a lot of first time homeowners who really don't know much about what the next steps are...I just try and help out and guide them.

As a buyer though - I would always call a few different people - whether it be lawyers, or inspectors - to see who I feel most comfortable with.

In your circumstance it totally sux that you are going through this and it does sound like you were taken advantage of.Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 3:54 PM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

Member since 5/05

31871 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

Posted by Diana1215

I don't think it's unethical. When I refer people to clients (as a real estate agent) I do so because I know that they are competent people. I don't do it to get a kickback or as a way to ensure that the deal happens. When I am referring people I do it to make the buyers lives easier and couldn't care less if they used who I recommended. I work with a lot of first time homeowners who really don't know much about what the next steps are...I just try and help out and guide them.

As a buyer though - I would always call a few different people - whether it be lawyers, or inspectors - to see who I feel most comfortable with.

In your circumstance it totally sux that you are going through this and it does sound like you were taken advantage of.Chat Icon



well said DianaChat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 4:08 PM
 

-DonnaMarie-
<3

Member since 5/05

6079 total posts

Name:

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

Posted by Diana1215

I don't think it's unethical. When I refer people to clients (as a real estate agent) I do so because I know that they are competent people. I don't do it to get a kickback or as a way to ensure that the deal happens. When I am referring people I do it to make the buyers lives easier and couldn't care less if they used who I recommended. I work with a lot of first time homeowners who really don't know much about what the next steps are...I just try and help out and guide them.

As a buyer though - I would always call a few different people - whether it be lawyers, or inspectors - to see who I feel most comfortable with.




well then you sound like someone that I would want to do business with, completely different from our agent -I won't even go into the details here, but this post brought back some bad memories. Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 4:23 PM
 

-DonnaMarie-
<3

Member since 5/05

6079 total posts

Name:

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

Posted by Redhead


Sorry but i think if you do not do your own research then y ou are bound to get screwed....




this I agree with.... I think herein lies the problem Chat Icon

Posted 7/22/06 4:24 PM
 

Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!

Member since 10/05

29450 total posts

Name:
Diana

Re: dh and i wanted to warn ya's

Posted by -DonnaMarie-

Posted by Diana1215

I don't think it's unethical. When I refer people to clients (as a real estate agent) I do so because I know that they are competent people. I don't do it to get a kickback or as a way to ensure that the deal happens. When I am referring people I do it to make the buyers lives easier and couldn't care less if they used who I recommended. I work with a lot of first time homeowners who really don't know much about what the next steps are...I just try and help out and guide them.

As a buyer though - I would always call a few different people - whether it be lawyers, or inspectors - to see who I feel most comfortable with.




well then you sound like someone that I would want to do business with, completely different from our agent -I won't even go into the details here, but this post brought back some bad memories. Chat Icon



Honestly - this is the problem and reason why real estate agents get a bad name. I like to think that I treat everyone as if they were a friend of mine. I don't like the slimey backstabbing people. Buying (or selling) a home is probably one of the biggest things you will ever do in your life and it makes me very angry when people take advantage like this.

Posted 7/22/06 4:30 PM
 
Pages: [1] 2
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
dh and i wanted to warn ya's luvsbob4603 7/22/06 11 Home
Just wanted to warn you guys... CowgirlChick97 1/31/06 1 Pregnancy
Just wanted to check in and say hi Dani00518 3/23/06 16 Parenting
I just wanted to say.... CkGm 3/23/06 5 TTC
Just wanted to say Marcie 3/23/06 23 Families Helping Families ™
Wanted: Online running buddies julz33 9/2/05 260 Diet & Fitness
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 659887 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows