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BabyAvocado
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Yep - he went to VA Beach with a few guys... my brother was one of them.
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
did anyone ask your SO what went on or you'd rather not know???
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:00 PM |
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krwm
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by LadyLainez
did anyone ask your SO what went on or you'd rather not know???
he told me and I told him...I spoke to him alot when he was there and when I was away too...
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:01 PM |
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Shelly
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Mine went to AC with a married friend.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:01 PM |
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Bebalina
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
my dh had 2
late april him and 10 guys went to new orleans for jazz fest
and the wknd b4 the weddng a nyc night out
i cant complain i had 2 as well
when he was in new orleans, i had my nyc night
and when he had his nyc night i was in south beach with my 3 of my best girlfriends.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:03 PM |
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SoinLove
Making big changes
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
nope, he didn't. Totally his own decision. I didn't have a bachelorette party either.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:09 PM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by LadyLainez
did anyone ask your SO what went on or you'd rather not know???
Oh I asked. Damn straight I wanted to know.
At first he came home and saw some of the "remnants" of my bachelorette party and said, lets just not talk about it and agree that we trust each other so it's not necessary. But then rumors and tidbits started leaking out among the bridal parties and we decided it was best to get everything out in the open. That's more our way anyway so I don't know why he even thought for a second we wouldn't talk about it.
There was no way I wasn't going to ask.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:12 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Oh I asked. Damn straight I wanted to know.
At first he came home and saw some of the "remnants" of my bachelorette party and said, lets just not talk about it and agree that we trust each other so it's not necessary. But then rumors and tidbits started leaking out among the bridal parties and we decided it was best to get everything out in the open. That's more our way anyway so I don't know why he even thought for a second we wouldn't talk about it.
There was no way I wasn't going to ask.
 sounds like me!!! I just MUST know! Well, the 1st time dh went to a strip club, he didn't tell me where he had gone. So the follwoing morning I see like 30 singles oon the dresser...so I thought Oh, so he went to a T!tty bar  I drilled him until he told me the truth. I was pi$$ed that he lied about where he had gone. Then again we were only 21! 
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:15 PM |
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Elbee
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by LadyLainez
did anyone ask your SO what went on or you'd rather not know???
yea we talked about them.. The funny part of these weekends is coming home and sharing all of the gossip we learn about our friends. My DH is a closet gossip queen, loves hearing it and loves sharing it, so we lay around and tell each other the funny stories.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:16 PM |
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Stefanie
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
DH went to AC for the night...he came back very early in the morning. I asked what happened and we also had a no stripper policy.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:21 PM |
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trnity44
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
mine did- they just went to a comedy club and then to a bar- and both my dad and his dad went!
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:22 PM |
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MrsS2005
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
DH had one in Atlantic City. I wanted my brother to go b/c I thought he'd have fun, but he said he had to study that weekend for his CPA exam. DH's sister went to my bachelorette party. DH told me about his BP. He told me about everything that happened at his friend's BP, and I felt he should be just as open about what happened at his own BP. DH didn't really care about knowing what happened at my BP.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:33 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
with mine, we had rules
i had stuff i was allowed to do and stuff i was not
as long as i followed the rules, which i did, it all worked out
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:35 PM |
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dengal
Dad of Twins
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
None for me - I'm not into that sort of stuff
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:35 PM |
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CowgirlChick97
Nike. Just do it.
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by Stefanie
DH went to AC for the night...he came back very early in the morning. I asked what happened and we also had a no stripper policy.
This is what my FH will prob do...
I agree w/the Policy
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:36 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
I would do the same policy!!I agree with a stripper free marriage.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:39 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
see, here's the thing
i agree with the "no stripper" policy, if it's a mutually reached decision, It's when one side FORBIDS the other to have them, without giving them a say, since it is their party. That's where I have a problem.
if Boosh had FORBIDDEN me to have them altogether, that would have been a major trust issue for me.
We talked and agreed on the boundaries.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:44 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
yeah, I don't think it has anything to do with trust. I think different couples just sent different boundaries for their marriage.
DH isn't into strippers, so it works out for us.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:45 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
see, here's the thing
i agree with the "no stripper" policy, if it's a mutually reached decision, It's when one side FORBIDS the other to have them, without giving them a say, since it is their party. That's where I have a problem.
if Boosh had FORBIDDEN me to have them altogether, that would have been a major trust issue for me.
We talked and agreed on the boundaries.
The voice of reason has spoken 
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
and might i add, the boundaries were generous
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:47 PM |
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CowgirlChick97
Nike. Just do it.
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by Janice
yeah, I don't think it has anything to do with trust. I think different couples just sent different boundaries for their marriage.
DH isn't into strippers, so it works out for us.
i agree. FH isnt into them either, hes never been to a strip club
i think it would embarrass him
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:48 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Sonia
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
and might i add, the boundaries were generous
you're a lucky guy! I'd like to say the same for Dh...he's lucky I'm generous
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:49 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by Syliblond81106
Posted by Janice
yeah, I don't think it has anything to do with trust. I think different couples just sent different boundaries for their marriage.
DH isn't into strippers, so it works out for us.
i agree. FH isnt into them either, hes never been to a strip club
i think it would embarrass him
DH has never been either. He skeeves everything in life, so I don't think that would be the place for him.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:50 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by LadyLainez
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
and might i add, the boundaries were generous
you're a lucky guy! I'd like to say the same for Dh...he's lucky I'm generous
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:51 PM |
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Elbee
Zanzibar
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Can I ask a silly question? Do people actually need to "set" boundaries? Don't most people know what acceptable behavior is already? I mean I don't have to tell my DH not to get a happy ending or a BJ or to touch someone's nipples ... his own belief system and morales are in place to prevent such acts from happening already.  DH doesn't need to tell me not to squeeze someone elses b@lls or have some stripper kiss on my neck, it's a given.
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