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MelissaMac
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Do you find that being a Mom of twins...

you are less hovering then Moms of just one?

For instance,
I let my girls go down the slide (at Gymboree) without assistance. But then I see other Mom's being so cautious with their child. Supporting them down the slide.... holding their hands. I feel bad :( Does anyone feel like this?

Posted 4/12/08 11:14 AM
 
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runlikethewind
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Re: Do you find that being a Mom of twins...

I can't answer this since I have not delivered yet, but I wanted to say that your babies are absolutely adorable! I was looking at the photo in your profile.

Posted 4/12/08 3:19 PM
 

IrishTracy
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Re: Do you find that being a Mom of twins...

I think so.

Posted 4/12/08 4:26 PM
 

pinky
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Re: Do you find that being a Mom of twins...

I find myself to be the opposite, I think I am more hovering and over protective than other moms. Sometimes I feel bad that I never let them walk into a store or out to the car but I'm always afraid one of them will 'get away' from me. They only get some freedom on the weekends when daddy is around.

Posted 4/12/08 5:57 PM
 

Diane
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Re: Do you find that being a Mom of twins...

Posted by pinky

I find myself to be the opposite, I think I am more hovering and over protective than other moms. Sometimes I feel bad that I never let them walk into a store or out to the car but I'm always afraid one of them will 'get away' from me. They only get some freedom on the weekends when daddy is around.




I dont think that os hovering too much. Dont feel bad, i dodnt even feel comforatbale yet to let them walk by themselvs in a store.
I do find myslef more laid back than many moms.

Posted 4/12/08 6:29 PM
 

MelissaMac
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Re: Do you find that being a Mom of twins...

Posted by pinky

I find myself to be the opposite, I think I am more hovering and over protective than other moms. Sometimes I feel bad that I never let them walk into a store or out to the car but I'm always afraid one of them will 'get away' from me. They only get some freedom on the weekends when daddy is around.




Your right. I find myself being like this at times.

Posted 4/12/08 7:15 PM
 

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Re: Do you find that being a Mom of twins...

Posted by MelissaMac

Posted by pinky

I find myself to be the opposite, I think I am more hovering and over protective than other moms. Sometimes I feel bad that I never let them walk into a store or out to the car but I'm always afraid one of them will 'get away' from me. They only get some freedom on the weekends when daddy is around.




Your right. I find myself being like this at times.




I am exactly like this!! Unless I have reinforcements (aka dh) they never get to walk into a store.

Posted 4/12/08 9:10 PM
 

FireIslandLove

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Re: Do you find that being a Mom of twins...

Posted by Tracey

Posted by MelissaMac

Posted by pinky

I find myself to be the opposite, I think I am more hovering and over protective than other moms. Sometimes I feel bad that I never let them walk into a store or out to the car but I'm always afraid one of them will 'get away' from me. They only get some freedom on the weekends when daddy is around.




Your right. I find myself being like this at times.




I am exactly like this!! Unless I have reinforcements (aka dh) they never get to walk into a store.



Yeah I feel bad about that too. On occasion I have taken them to the store individually, and that was fun! Chat Icon

As for a Gymboree class, yes its impossible to hover over so I guess I have to be more laid back than others.

Posted 4/12/08 9:14 PM
 

Ali1
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Re: Do you find that being a Mom of twins...

I totally feel this way, but I think it's my nature too to be a little hands off. My feeling is I will of course try my best to keep my kids out of trouble and to be careful when the time comes, but I also believe kids learn what not to do when they try things on their own. Having two makes it a lot more evident I think.

I will say I am less likely to judge any mother now that I have two.

Posted 4/13/08 8:08 PM
 

Michelle
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Re: Do you find that being a Mom of twins...

I hover, I am alwasy so scared that one will get away from me, that I find that I want them to be so close and right there.

I also found that I would never let them out of the stroller or the wagon.

Posted 4/13/08 9:15 PM
 
 

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