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Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

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janet
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Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

EVERYONE HAS A WILL, LIVING PROXY . Tonight My daughter said goodbye to a very close teacher she had when Keith past away.

Just a FYI I heard of the post about me but was not able to reply cause I was at work and it was pulled before I could see the thread. But being I am the person I am, my feelings are to protect those of the possibility of what I went through 6 years ago. UNTIL you have walked a MILE in my shoes DON'T JUDGE,
for the little that I did hear, I NEVER ASKED, I WAS OFFERED or GIVEN and NEVER NOT SAID THANK YOU FOR.
BOTTOM LINE IS YOU MUST HAVE A LIVING WILL AND PROXY ... NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE in your relationship.

A POST FROM 2 YEARS AGO... AN IMPORTANT READ

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Posted 3/22/12 12:20 AM
 
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

It is an important message/reminder. Maybe edit the part out about "i heard about the post that ..." - because it's stuff like that might make your real message get lost. JMO.

Posted 3/22/12 6:31 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by janet

EVERYONE HAS A WILL, LIVING PROXY . Tonight My daughter said goodbye to a very close teacher she had when Keith past away.

Just a FYI I heard of the post about me but was not able to reply cause I was at work and it was pulled before I could see the thread. But being I am the person I am, my feelings are to protect those of the possibility of what I went through 6 years ago. UNTIL you have walked a MILE in my shoes DON'T JUDGE,
for the little that I did hear, I NEVER ASKED, I WAS OFFERED or GIVEN and NEVER NOT SAID THANK YOU FOR.
BOTTOM LINE IS YOU MUST HAVE A LIVING WILL AND PROXY ... NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE in your relationship.

A POST FROM 2 YEARS AGO... AN IMPORTANT READ




Just looking for drama with this. Could have just posted your teacher story and called it a day, but in typical Janet form you go balls to the wall. Chat Icon

Posted 3/22/12 8:04 AM
 

Little-J-Mommy
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by JennZ

Posted by janet

EVERYONE HAS A WILL, LIVING PROXY . Tonight My daughter said goodbye to a very close teacher she had when Keith past away.

Just a FYI I heard of the post about me but was not able to reply cause I was at work and it was pulled before I could see the thread. But being I am the person I am, my feelings are to protect those of the possibility of what I went through 6 years ago. UNTIL you have walked a MILE in my shoes DON'T JUDGE,
for the little that I did hear, I NEVER ASKED, I WAS OFFERED or GIVEN and NEVER NOT SAID THANK YOU FOR.
BOTTOM LINE IS YOU MUST HAVE A LIVING WILL AND PROXY ... NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE in your relationship.

A POST FROM 2 YEARS AGO... AN IMPORTANT READ




Just looking for drama with this. Could have just posted your teacher story and called it a day, but in typical Janet form you go balls to the wall. Chat Icon



Exactly! Even after it was suggested she edit, she doesn't because then it wouldn't be dramatic. If I thought that TPTB wouldn't mind, I'd re-post the old thread for you Janet to see for yourself that *I* was calling you out for spitting in the faces of people who were nothing but nice and generous to you. And sorry, but I don't buy for a minute that you didn't see it Chat Icon

Posted 3/22/12 8:10 AM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Am I the only one who does't understand either the subject line of this thread or the point of the thread itself?? Chat Icon Chat Icon I think I am missing something. And FTR, I have no idea who Janet is, I was really just wondering what the point of this thread was.

Posted 3/22/12 8:42 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by Little-J-Mommy

Posted by JennZ

Posted by janet

EVERYONE HAS A WILL, LIVING PROXY . Tonight My daughter said goodbye to a very close teacher she had when Keith past away.

Just a FYI I heard of the post about me but was not able to reply cause I was at work and it was pulled before I could see the thread. But being I am the person I am, my feelings are to protect those of the possibility of what I went through 6 years ago. UNTIL you have walked a MILE in my shoes DON'T JUDGE,
for the little that I did hear, I NEVER ASKED, I WAS OFFERED or GIVEN and NEVER NOT SAID THANK YOU FOR.
BOTTOM LINE IS YOU MUST HAVE A LIVING WILL AND PROXY ... NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE in your relationship.

A POST FROM 2 YEARS AGO... AN IMPORTANT READ




Just looking for drama with this. Could have just posted your teacher story and called it a day, but in typical Janet form you go balls to the wall. Chat Icon



Exactly! Even after it was suggested she edit, she doesn't because then it wouldn't be dramatic. If I thought that TPTB wouldn't mind, I'd re-post the old thread for you Janet to see for yourself that *I* was calling you out for spitting in the faces of people who were nothing but nice and generous to you. And sorry, but I don't buy for a minute that you didn't see it Chat Icon



If she didn't see it how the hell would she know what it was about - which she mentions in her OP Chat Icon

Kristen I'm fairly sure that what Janet is trying to say is that her DD's old teacher died and so we all need a reminder to have a living will and proxy, although I can only assume that would be relevant if the teacher was on life support.

Janet maybe you should check out the Parenting board, this was recently discussed and I'm sure they would love your input! Chat Icon

Posted 3/22/12 8:46 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

A few months ago a post was made about janet, and how she takes advantage of people, fixes contest to win, made up FB of her deceased DH to vote on contest for her. Basically it was an all out shitstorm (which she claims she never saw) anyhoo, a lot was brought out for LIF to see.

So now instead of just mentioning the teacher passing and informing everyone (again) to get a will and health care proxy she brings old drama back with the new informative post.

Posted 3/22/12 8:46 AM
 

Little-J-Mommy
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by Hofstra26

Am I the only one who does't understand either the subject line of this thread or the point of the thread itself?? Chat Icon Chat Icon I think I am missing something. And FTR, I have no idea who Janet is, I was really just wondering what the point of this thread was.



The point of this thread is to remind everyone to feel bad for Janet, maybe stir up a little drama by referencing a thread that was posted and pulled OVER A YEAR AGO and oh yeah, that everyone should have a living will (although if that was *really* the goal, it would just be about that, not dripping with all the other crap)

Posted 3/22/12 8:48 AM
 

Hofstra26
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by JennZ

A few months ago a post was made about janet, and how she takes advantage of people, fixes contest to win, made up FB of her deceased DH to vote on contest for her. Basically it was an all out shitstorm (which she claims she never saw) anyhoo, a lot was brought out for LIF to see.

So now instead of just mentioning the teacher passing and informing everyone (again) to get a will and health care proxy she brings old drama back with the new informative post.



Oh, ok. I had no idea about any of that. I just couldn't figure out what she was talking about in the beginning of the thread before she linked to some old thread. Got it now, thanks! Chat Icon

Posted 3/22/12 8:49 AM
 

SRM12
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by JennZ

A few months ago a post was made about janet, and how she takes advantage of people, fixes contest to win, made up FB of her deceased DH to vote on contest for her. Basically it was an all out shitstorm (which she claims she never saw) anyhoo, a lot was brought out for LIF to see.

So now instead of just mentioning the teacher passing and informing everyone (again) to get a will and health care proxy she brings old drama back with the new informative post.



yikes. i wish these old threads wouldn't just disappear!!

Posted 3/22/12 8:51 AM
 

JennZ
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by SRM12

Posted by JennZ

A few months ago a post was made about janet, and how she takes advantage of people, fixes contest to win, made up FB of her deceased DH to vote on contest for her. Basically it was an all out shitstorm (which she claims she never saw) anyhoo, a lot was brought out for LIF to see.

So now instead of just mentioning the teacher passing and informing everyone (again) to get a will and health care proxy she brings old drama back with the new informative post.



yikes. i wish these old threads wouldn't just disappear!!



They dont, im sure there is a copy floating aroundChat Icon

Posted 3/22/12 8:52 AM
 

SRM12
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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by JennZ

Posted by SRM12

Posted by JennZ

A few months ago a post was made about janet, and how she takes advantage of people, fixes contest to win, made up FB of her deceased DH to vote on contest for her. Basically it was an all out shitstorm (which she claims she never saw) anyhoo, a lot was brought out for LIF to see.

So now instead of just mentioning the teacher passing and informing everyone (again) to get a will and health care proxy she brings old drama back with the new informative post.



yikes. i wish these old threads wouldn't just disappear!!



They dont, im sure there is a copy floating aroundChat Icon



haha. there should be a "graveyard" board so ppl who missed the craziness can go back and read for entertainment.

Posted 3/22/12 8:56 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

I formed my opinion based on my own observations but I'm glad you don't care about them.

We have living wills & yes, I agree that they are important to consider no matter what your end of life wishes are.

Posted 3/22/12 9:47 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

I want to say something but everything I want to say sounds evil so I will just say this: there are other ways to get your point across.

Posted 3/22/12 9:50 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by CrankyPants

I want to say something but everything I want to say sounds evil so I will just say this: there are other ways to get your point across.



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But we all know this is the history of the OP.

Oh and before the "omg you guys are such bullies" comments come, know that there is a looooong history of this person taking advantage of the kindness of others and DEMANDING stuff when it wasn't given to her the way she wanted and people were clearly fed up about this behavior.

But of course, there will be "but seriously why call her out you bully b*tches" no matter what is said.

In the end we all know that she posted this and will run away and pretend she didn't see the responses like always.

Posted 3/22/12 10:00 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Shame you couldn't just post your "goal" to spread the word on living will and proxy and such instead of stirring up shit that is old. Looks to me like your "goal" is to be a Chat IconChat Icon

Message edited 3/22/2012 10:05:37 AM.

Posted 3/22/12 10:04 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by MrsPJB2007

Posted by CrankyPants

I want to say something but everything I want to say sounds evil so I will just say this: there are other ways to get your point across.



Chat Icon


But we all know this is the history of the OP.

Oh and before the "omg you guys are such bullies" comments come, know that there is a looooong history of this person taking advantage of the kindness of others and DEMANDING stuff when it wasn't given to her the way she wanted and people were clearly fed up about this behavior.

But of course, there will be "but seriously why call her out you bully b*tches" no matter what is said.

In the end we all know that she posted this and will run away and pretend she didn't see the responses like always.




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Posted 3/22/12 10:06 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Posted by Hofstra26

Am I the only one who does't understand either the subject line of this thread or the point of the thread itself?? Chat Icon Chat Icon I think I am missing something. And FTR, I have no idea who Janet is, I was really just wondering what the point of this thread was.

this

Posted 3/22/12 10:10 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

NM i got it now

Posted 3/22/12 10:13 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Holy cow Janet.... I cn't believe you have the BALLS to come here and post again...

You must be oblivious...

Posted 3/22/12 10:13 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

I wasn't around for the drama that pre-dates this post so I will say this to the OP: I'm sorry but to someone (like me) who doesn't know the drama, your message - which may actually be a positive one - is lost amidst the rest of the stuff you posted that I don't understand or care to wade through to get at your actual message. If your only GOAL is to promote a message for the sake of others, post that message by itself so that it is clear and helpful, because now I'm really not sure what it is you're trying to say.

Posted 3/22/12 10:13 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

Never mind.. we can say WTF now!!Chat Icon Chat Icon I am just realizing we can also say SHIT! HAHA! ok sorry!Chat Icon

Message edited 3/22/2012 10:22:49 AM.

Posted 3/22/12 10:21 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

The point is have a living will.

Its too bad she comes on to Chat Icon. Its too bad her message gets lost.

Janet, It's too bad your approach to a VERY important subject gets lost because you have to get your "last word" so to speak. I suggest that people would give you a modicum of respect if you came on and said "please get a living will".

No one is looking at that message anymore, and THAT'S what the sadness here is.

I hope you can find some peace in your life and are getting help if you so need. I cant imagine loosing my DH, and I am very sorry for your loss.

If you want to remind people about this, do so. Don't loose your message in the junk that was included.

So very sad.

Posted 3/22/12 10:35 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure

This is a great reminder, Janet.

I always think of what you went through with Keith, but DH and I have not yet had the strength to go through this process and make a living will.

We really need to though Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/22/12 10:39 AM
 

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Re: Dont care what you think of me as a person you have formed from others opinions but my GOAL is to make sure



Your behavior has a bigger impact than just getting free things for yourself. But I guess that is the definition of selfishness.

Message edited 3/23/2012 11:20:32 PM.

Posted 3/22/12 10:57 AM
 
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