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!EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

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sumlynmad
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!EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

yes thats right, i said emerson and gyno......

heres the story now....

when she was a few weeks old and i was cleaning around the area, i had noticed no real vaginal opening- it wasnt distinct- i dismissed it, thinking maybe it was just too small for me to really see...

yesterday morning, while cleaning, i didnt dismiss it- there really was no vaginal opening- shes almost 5 months old, and i thought to myself, okay, i would def see something if it was there....so off to the pediat. we went....

lets start by saying after getting a hold of the ped at 830, stating i think emerson has been born with some kind of defect around the vaginal area, he said to bring her in at 1030!! 2 hours??? okay, i know what i just said sounded weird, and maybe stupid, but get me in right away...so i arrive there at 1020, only to be called in at 1115, only to wait in THERE for another 20 minutes...only to have him come in and rip around her area looking for it, to tell me "i think its there"....i said "you think??!!! dont tell me u think, tell me u know!!!" he said, well, i am just going to refer u- to who??? a gyno.....shes going to need a cat sscan, mri, ultrasound to see if she has any reproductive organs!!! at this point, im hysterical, but call my ob anyway...

so i call my gyno, who i love, only to find hes not in, but the other guy was there....good enough, he says hes not the one to see about this, that shes too young, i need a specialist etc etc....draawing it out, he ended up saying its okay to see her, but he wasnts a sonogram first to see if there is all the stuff.....sonogram at 215, my poor giel, the only non pregnant baby waiting for a sonorgram....

get into the sonogram room, shes naked waits down, gets the goo and everything (im looking down, wasnt that just ME 9 months ago with my sonogramer telling me shes a girl, and there she was....???!!!!) ugh, emotional...

so, all her parts are there (thanks God,a ll day, i was crying, my baby wont be able to have babies, shell never get a chance to hear, "your baby looks just like you". etc etc etc)...so i call my ob, tell him i know he doesnt have the report, but the radiologist said it seems all her parts are there, can we come over for u to see why her hole isnt there???!!! so im still a little bit a mess with the whole wheres the opening thing....

get there, emerson is the talk of the office, no emerson is lying on the same table EYE lie on, naked, waist down (no there are no baby stirrups- a joke from my SIL to lighten the air)...2 nurses are watching the dr give her an exam....alast, my answer...

her labia is fused/glued together....got a hormonal cream to put on the area, which should open her up- havent given her the cream yet (which is a high dose cream made from a pregnant horses urine-ugh....calling my real ob today to talk to him about all this...wont it open on its own- like, her wedding day??!! Chat Icon ) or at least, puberty, when she has her own surge of hormones thatll do the trick...

in either case, i share this story bc i wouldnt want any of u new moms to go thru what i went thru today....to say the least, i am changing obs, bc he handled this whole thing SO badly.....

thanks for letting me share.....

Posted 10/2/08 9:38 AM
 
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Eireann
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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

Aw, I'm so sorry you went though all of that--what a shock!! I'm glad she's well! And thanks for your story--after all that I'm going to double-check my girls!!!!!

Posted 10/2/08 9:42 AM
 

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What a roller coaster you were on!

Posted 10/2/08 9:43 AM
 

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Poor Emerson and well, as much as I read that, I laughed at you mini jokes.

Of course it had to be tough for you to see and deal with and TY for sharing because who knows if another mommy will deal with this.

so good and happy to hear that its going to be ok for Emerson.

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Posted 10/2/08 9:43 AM
 

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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

I'm sorry you had to go through that. Another mom on here posted about her dd having the same thing last week.

Posted 10/2/08 9:50 AM
 

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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

Poor Emerson. Chat Icon I'm so glad they gave you an answer but sorry she and you had to go through all that....what an emotional day! Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 9:52 AM
 

Michelle
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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

Oh man, what a day. Glad that all you need to do is apply the cream and she will be fine.

I am confused, you are changing OB's, or did you mean Ped?

Posted 10/2/08 9:56 AM
 

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Actually I not only had this as a baby, but DD now has this.

I was given Premarin as a baby (I'm assuming that is what you were given)

I had no side effects from it, but I do have a VERY large chest, and meanwhile my mom is flat chested. She always she thinks it was from the Premarin???

Anyway, glad everything is OK!

Posted 10/2/08 10:05 AM
 

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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

Wow....what a day! at least she is young enough not to remember any of this. I a sure she will be fine Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 10:05 AM
 

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Posted 10/2/08 10:09 AM
 

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Oh Summer.... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I'm soooooooooo glad to hear that Miss Emerson is A-OK!!!

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Posted 10/2/08 10:10 AM
 

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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

What a tough day! But I have heard of this before. Glad everything is okay!

Posted 10/2/08 10:11 AM
 

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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

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Actually I not only had this as a baby, but DD now has this.

I was given Premarin as a baby (I'm assuming that is what you were given)

I had no side effects from it, but I do have a VERY large chest, and meanwhile my mom is flat chested. She always she thinks it was from the Premarin???

Anyway, glad everything is OK!



I had this as a baby too. I wasn't given drugs, but I was 'opened' by my ped on a few occasions (I think 4 times)

Posted 10/2/08 10:15 AM
 

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Good for you for being on top of that - she'll be thanking you for that one day when you tell her (like after she's had her first child!)

Sorry you had to go thru that!!Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 10:20 AM
 

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Awww...poor Emerson. Glad she'll be ok!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 10:21 AM
 

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Wow Summer! What a freaking day! I was definitely thinking of you guys yesterday, I left a message. I wish I had known, although I probably wouldn't have been any help Chat Icon

I am glad to hear that things are fine with her! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 10:22 AM
 

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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

Talk about traumatic! I bet you've sprouted quite a few gray hairs!!

Poor EmersonChat Icon I'm sure everything will turn out okay.

Posted 10/2/08 10:34 AM
 

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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

She will be fine Chat Icon . DD had this and was also prescribed premian cream. It is estrogen based I believe and that is what helps open it up. I did as my OBGYN when I was their and she told me that was fine to use. DD was about 3 months old when the dr. discovered it. Her's wasn't fully closed though that is why I never paid attention to it.

Posted 10/2/08 11:13 AM
 

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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

Bothy my DD's and this. I am surprised they acted as though they have never seen it. Its pretty common. I am so sorry for your scare!

Posted 10/2/08 11:19 AM
 

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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

DD had a labial adhesion at her 4 month checkup. The PED knew what it was immediately. Because it wasn't a big adhesion, there was no need for the cream- the doctor opened her right there (poor baby cried like crazy Chat Icon ). I felt like a terrible mommy.

The estrogen cream is fairly normal to prescribe for complete or more complex adhesions. It's only used very temprorarily. You don't want to let it go too long as the adhesion could block the urethra and lead to UTIs.

Posted 10/2/08 11:45 AM
 

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Dont know much about it but poor Emerson. She is so lucky to have a mommy that caught itChat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 12:05 PM
 

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Glad you caught it!

Posted 10/2/08 12:38 PM
 

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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

We discovered a labial adhesion (I think the same thing your DD has) at about 8 months. At 13 months it's getting better but still there.

Our Dr. told us specifically not to use the cream for more than 3 weeks. We were also told to gob on vaseline to keep her labia moist and to gently nudge her apart once or twice a day.

We were told this condition occurs most commonly in girls ages 0-5 and women over 60. In the younger crowd it will generally resolve itself over time.

Good for you for being persistent with the Doc's. I'm so glad she will be ok.

Posted 10/2/08 12:55 PM
 

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Aawwww Im glad everything is OK and glad you noticed this.Chat Icon

Posted 10/2/08 1:00 PM
 

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Re: !EMERSON! had her first gyno appointment yesterday

oh my!! what an appt!!
i feel for you!! i am glad that all her "parts" are there and that everything should be ok!!
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Posted 10/2/08 1:01 PM
 
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