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CindySN23
Stop, Think & Breathe...

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Cindy

Feeling anxious...

Need some support...so I got AF today and I told myself this next cycle I would start the FET but now I am just getting anxious...I am really scared that it wont work and to have to go through all those emotions sitting in the RE's office is really causing me to stress...I thought I was 100% ready but now I have this doubt in the back of my head...I did all these tests and to find out everything is normal with me and that I miscarried a normal baby boy at 15w really has taken its toll on me more than I let myself believe...I have always been the type to just jump right back in but for whatever reason its not the same now...

Posted 8/10/17 6:50 AM
 
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TTCKathy
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Re: Feeling anxious...

I know for myself too that each try gets harder, but at least you can tell yourself you did all the test and there is nothing else you can do to change the outcome. Even though is hard, try to stay positive.
Best of luck on your FET.

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Posted 8/10/17 9:12 AM
 

IUIGirl
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Re: Feeling anxious...

Posted by TTCKathy

I know for myself too that each try gets harder, but at least you can tell yourself you did all the test and there is nothing else you can do to change the outcome. Even though is hard, try to stay positive.
Best of luck on your FET.

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I agree with this, you've done everything you possible can. It's so tough though. Maybe taking one more month off would help you mentally? We took the summer off after receiving negative after negative and it has helped but as we get closer I'm feeling my anxiety build. Please take care of yourself, you are so strong! We are here for support!

Posted 8/10/17 9:30 AM
 

PennyCat
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Re: Feeling anxious...

Yup I hear ya.. of the babies we lost, I know that 4 were genetically normal and lost while controlling my issues. At this point I know it's a numbers game and go into cycles pretty numb, hoping for the best, but knowing that the odds are against me. I think that's the best anyone can do in this situation.

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Posted 8/10/17 11:58 AM
 

babydreams21
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Feeling anxious...

Its all so hard. I'm sorry you are feeling this way but its normal. All you can do is try again. Hoping this time around you get your take home baby.

Posted 8/10/17 4:53 PM
 

2BirdsofaFeather
Miracles can happen!

Member since 10/10

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Feeling anxious...

You're all amazing fighters. It's ok not to rush in to it. Sometimes you need to get your head around the loss first however long that takes is up to you!

Posted 8/10/17 8:48 PM
 
 

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