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Jessica
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Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
my wedding is in 15 days and we're all a mess
this is a copy and past from what I wrote in marissa's thread about mental illness in families a few days back
haven't been on LIF since my life is chaotic now bc of my dad
My dad was always "the perfect man" for me. He was outgoing, very popular, and could do ANYTHING from painting, electrcical, sewing, cleaning, you name it, he was superman. When i was 16 he was layed off from his job of 25 years. He got into a severe depression and nothing helped. He saw all types of doctors and nothing. One day many months later, he miracously snapped out of it.
Fast forward 2 years. I had to come home from college bc something, we dont know why triggered his depression. This time he attempted suicide. Again he saw a million doctors and nothing. What helped hime this and the first time was his faith. HE WANTED TO HELP HIMSELF THEREFORE HE GOT BETTER. both times he went to church many times a week. both times these "episodes" lasted for months...
Fast forward to this year. Mothers day he looked a little down. Monday he looked worse.By the time i came home tuesday evening he was back to his sick self. he can't sit. constantly walking the whole time. he stutters cant even complete sentences. he can't drive or be by himself. constantly crying. again, he was seeing all types of docs, medications dont agree with him, he was giving himself an ulcer. He made a noose bc he wanted to take his life 2 weeks ago, He was hospitalized and. but bc insurance sucks azz in this country, they let him go after 2 weeks this week. They put him on cymbalta. its not really working either.
Last resort was shock therapy. He had his first session last wednesday. my mother cried bc she thought after the first treatment it would work. nope. he had his second treatment friday. again nothing. some people it takes 6 sessions, others 12, others it just doesnt work......We're all just praying and hoping and crying and everything....
The difference is this time even the docs say, they think he's given up, They cant get through to him, we can't either. He just constantly says. im sorry, i just feel empty inside...he wasn't even going to church this time around. We are all telling him to put himself first. Hes been working since he was 8 years old taking care of the family. now he has to be a little selfish and worry about himself......
on top of that, my bro has also a chemical imbalance, and anger management problems.
My dad is bipolar....
today was my dad's 4th shock therapy treament. in many patients families start to notice a difference. nothing's happening
we feel my dad may have to miss the wedding.......
we're all so devastated, and tired and confused, and just
  
please say a little prayer for my family
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IM NOT ASHAMED AT ALL ABOUT MY DAD NOR DO I HIDE IT AS A SECRET or think im sairing out my family's dirty laundry.Many people have depression and i hope someone on this board that might have it realizes it and seeks medical treatment. I plan on learning more about it and becoming an advocate for mental health since it had affected me personally
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
honey i am so sorry 
many prayers go out to your family and especially your father. 
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Kissy331
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
I am so sorry you are going through this!!! My prayers & thoughts go out to your family  I hope that your dad will be able to attend your wedding!!!!!
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trnity44
I hope you stay beautiful baby
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Stefanie
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
Im so sorry Jess...
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| Posted 10/4/07 12:33 PM |
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Jesaroo
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Jes
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Phyl
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
Omg sweetie.I'm am saying a ton of prayers for you and your family
It's crazy here at work but if you want to FM me to talk I'll be here for you
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CathyB
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Marcie
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
OMG Jess - I can't even imagine the emotions you are all going through right now 
Many prayers for you all , escpecially your dad
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BunnyWife
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
I am so sorry Depression is such a terrible thing..I'll be thinking of you and him. Hopefully the treatments will start to work
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| Posted 10/4/07 12:38 PM |
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baghag
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oneday
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LBG30
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
I am so sorry you are going through this..Many prayers for you and your family!
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MsSissy
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
I am so sorry. Many to you and your family.
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| Posted 10/4/07 12:42 PM |
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
I'm so sorry to hear about your father, and your brother, and what this is all doing to the rest of your family.
I hope he's able to help himself and return to his faith that has helped him before. I hope he's able to attend your wedding.
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| Posted 10/4/07 12:43 PM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
Oh Jessica - I am SO SO sorry this is happening....
Many many prayers for your Dad - may he find something that works and SOON!
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| Posted 10/4/07 12:44 PM |
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Ambersmom
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
I'm so sorry I hope he can find some peace and propper treatment soon
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| Posted 10/4/07 12:44 PM |
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LisaW
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mommy2bella
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
Wow, what a difficult time for your family. I hope he sees all of your love and you can get through to him again. Bipolar disorder is so devastating, my cousin has it and it's just so all over the place, you never know what to expect.
Keep trying, you never know what can trigger him back...
Many hugs as you try to celebrate the joy of your union while in pain
Many prayers
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I am so very sorry you are going through this right now!
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| Posted 10/4/07 12:50 PM |
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I will say a prayer for your Dad and your family.
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| Posted 10/4/07 12:53 PM |
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pinkandblue
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
I am so sorry, I hope you dad gets help and is able to be at your wedding...I am sure he wants to be there
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| Posted 10/4/07 12:53 PM |
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lullabella
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
I hope he feels better soon. Please take care of yourself too.
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Tine73
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sunflowerjesss
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Re: Guys please say a prayer for me and my family
Wow, I am so sorry you have to go through such a hard, traumatic time at what is supposed to be the happiest time of your life.
I hope the shock therapy treatments start to work, and if they don't I certainly hope the doctors have some alternative treatments lined up.
I am keeping your dad, brother, and family in my prayers!
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