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Helping Lauren (Leighla) (updated 8/6 with different ways to help)

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

Posted by smdl

I am not Lauren but I would think deliveries in this hectic time would be best.

I am thinking premade meals (like super supper used to do), fruit/food baskets (DH and I ate out of a food basket for 2 days with FIL passed, we had no energy to go to the store or cook), grocery deliveries (like peapod type).



We checked and Peapod doesn't deliver to her area. And since she's in NJ, getting meals to her can be tricky from LI. I'm willing to make the trip to bring it to her, but I'm not sure how well the food would travel.

Posted 8/5/09 11:29 AM
 
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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

I would like to donate something as well. Please let me know if you find out something specific that is needed and where I can send. Thanks.

Posted 8/5/09 11:30 AM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

I know everyone would like to do something but I think that you should really find out what she really needs.

This is coming from someone who had to deal with 2 deaths in 7 months...

So many people sent food we ended up throwing away alot of it.

I am sure the family will be letting their friends and family know where you can send a donation on Scott's behalf.

Remember this just happened today, give the family a day or so to get everything in order....

Again,just my opinion....


Posted 8/5/09 11:37 AM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

Posted by HillandRon

I know everyone would like to do something but I think that you should really find out what she really needs.

This is coming from someone who had to deal with 2 deaths in 7 months...

So many people sent food we ended up throwing away alot of it.

I am sure the family will be letting their friends and family know where you can send a donation on Scott's behalf.

Remember this just happened today, give the family a day or so to get everything in order....

Again,just my opinion....





ITA. I know we all feel helpless and we want to do something, but right now Lauren has her family with her and she is trying to get through minute by minute. I know she would appreciate all the thoughts and gifts, but after the arrangements are made, I think a monetary donation would be the most helpful. She can use it to buy things for herself and Logan, pay for the cost of the funeral, whatever she needs it for.

Everyone's intentions are all good and well-meaning, and I'm sure she will appreciate them all if we give her a few days. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/5/09 11:42 AM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

I would like to help out.

Posted 8/5/09 11:45 AM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

Posted by luvsun27

Posted by HillandRon

I know everyone would like to do something but I think that you should really find out what she really needs.

This is coming from someone who had to deal with 2 deaths in 7 months...

So many people sent food we ended up throwing away alot of it.

I am sure the family will be letting their friends and family know where you can send a donation on Scott's behalf.

Remember this just happened today, give the family a day or so to get everything in order....

Again,just my opinion....





ITA. I know we all feel helpless and we want to do something, but right now Lauren has her family with her and she is trying to get through minute by minute. I know she would appreciate all the thoughts and gifts, but after the arrangements are made, I think a monetary donation would be the most helpful. She can use it to buy things for herself and Logan, pay for the cost of the funeral, whatever she needs it for.

Everyone's intentions are all good and well-meaning, and I'm sure she will appreciate them all if we give her a few days. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I agree. A monetary donation is the best option. It will allow her to get whatever it may be that they need. I am more than positive that her family and IRL friends will be providing tons of food. I wouldn't even ask her what it is that she needs, just send the collection to her home.

If someone is setting up a paypal account, please let me know. I would like to contribute $

Message edited 8/5/2009 11:53:51 AM.

Posted 8/5/09 11:48 AM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

A paypal acct sounds like the best way and I would like to donate.

Posted 8/5/09 12:50 PM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

Posted by HillandRon

I know everyone would like to do something but I think that you should really find out what she really needs.

This is coming from someone who had to deal with 2 deaths in 7 months...

So many people sent food we ended up throwing away alot of it.

I am sure the family will be letting their friends and family know where you can send a donation on Scott's behalf.

Remember this just happened today, give the family a day or so to get everything in order....

Again,just my opinion....





I totally agree. If anyone who knows her personally, knows where in Jersey she is, we can go from there with any local restaurants, etc, like we ahve done in the past.

Posted 8/5/09 1:06 PM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

Posted by luvsun27

Posted by HillandRon

I know everyone would like to do something but I think that you should really find out what she really needs.

This is coming from someone who had to deal with 2 deaths in 7 months...

So many people sent food we ended up throwing away alot of it.

I am sure the family will be letting their friends and family know where you can send a donation on Scott's behalf.

Remember this just happened today, give the family a day or so to get everything in order....

Again,just my opinion....





ITA. I know we all feel helpless and we want to do something, but right now Lauren has her family with her and she is trying to get through minute by minute. I know she would appreciate all the thoughts and gifts, but after the arrangements are made, I think a monetary donation would be the most helpful. She can use it to buy things for herself and Logan, pay for the cost of the funeral, whatever she needs it for.

Everyone's intentions are all good and well-meaning, and I'm sure she will appreciate them all if we give her a few days. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I agree Kim. While everyone has good intentions, I think we should give Lauren and her family a few days to absorb all that's happened.

Posted 8/5/09 1:13 PM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

Posted by Sweets13

Posted by luvsun27

Posted by HillandRon

I know everyone would like to do something but I think that you should really find out what she really needs.

This is coming from someone who had to deal with 2 deaths in 7 months...

So many people sent food we ended up throwing away alot of it.

I am sure the family will be letting their friends and family know where you can send a donation on Scott's behalf.

Remember this just happened today, give the family a day or so to get everything in order....

Again,just my opinion....





ITA. I know we all feel helpless and we want to do something, but right now Lauren has her family with her and she is trying to get through minute by minute. I know she would appreciate all the thoughts and gifts, but after the arrangements are made, I think a monetary donation would be the most helpful. She can use it to buy things for herself and Logan, pay for the cost of the funeral, whatever she needs it for.

Everyone's intentions are all good and well-meaning, and I'm sure she will appreciate them all if we give her a few days. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I agree. A monetary donation is the best option. It will allow her to get whatever it may be that they need. I am more than positive that her family and IRL friends will be providing tons of food. I wouldn't even ask her what it is that she needs, just send the collection to her home.

If someone is setting up a paypal account, please let me know. I would like to contribute $



another agreer...and you have my pledge when the time comes. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/5/09 1:24 PM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

I am not on here very often and just heard the news...I am devastated, and will do whatever is needed. Anything, at all

Posted 8/5/09 2:39 PM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

I just posted another thread with the details of the memorial service. I didn't want it to get lost in the shuffle since so many people have asked.

Posted 8/5/09 2:54 PM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

I just read the request for donations to standuptocancer.org on parenting.

I don't know Lauren and had no idea they were going through this until today.
Read her blog and I was really touched by her story, writing and strength. I was very emotional here at my desk.

I would like to make a donation but don't know their last name.
Can someone FM me so I can make it in his name?

Thank you

Posted 8/5/09 3:08 PM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

Posted by Smileyd17

A paypal acct sounds like the best way and I would like to donate.




I believe there is an active paypal account that is linked to Lauren. I think someone is getting information on it so maybe the information can be posted.

Posted 8/5/09 5:09 PM
 

lbelle821
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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

Posted by jerseypanda

Posted by Smileyd17

A paypal acct sounds like the best way and I would like to donate.




I believe there is an active paypal account that is linked to Lauren. I think someone is getting information on it so maybe the information can be posted.



The active paypal account is [email protected] has access to it directly.

Posted 8/5/09 8:36 PM
 

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Re: Lauren (Leighla) updated with specific gift cards ideas

Posted by fabrichick

I just read the request for donations to standuptocancer.org on parenting.

I don't know Lauren and had no idea they were going through this until today.
Read her blog and I was really touched by her story, writing and strength. I was very emotional here at my desk.

I would like to make a donation but don't know their last name.
Can someone FM me so I can make it in his name?

Thank you



I just sent you an FM

Posted 8/5/09 8:50 PM
 

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Re: Helping Lauren (Leighla) (updated 8/6 with different ways to help)

bump 8/6 with updated information in first post

Posted 8/6/09 8:37 AM
 

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Re: Helping Lauren (Leighla) (updated 8/6 with different ways to help)

Lori,

Thank you for doing this! I cannot imagine how hard a time this is for her! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/6/09 9:28 AM
 

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Re: Helping Lauren (Leighla) (updated 8/6 with different ways to help)

Bumping for Stefanie...

Posted 8/6/09 12:32 PM
 

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Re: Helping Lauren (Leighla) (updated 8/6 with different ways to help)

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Posted 8/6/09 12:41 PM
 

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Re: Helping Lauren (Leighla) (updated 8/6 with different ways to help)

I will donate $ through Paypal once a few days has passed.

Posted 8/6/09 12:47 PM
 

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Re: Helping Lauren (Leighla) (updated 8/6 with different ways to help)

Thank you for coordinating this and sending the info out.

I agree about the food not being the best option unless it's someone who knows her directly and has discussed it with her - no one else (I should say certainly not me) will know her schedule or what she feels like eating. I will use the Paypal so she can use that as she likes, either with a donation, food, money for her son, things she needs, etc.

Posted 8/6/09 12:48 PM
 

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Re: Helping Lauren (Leighla) (updated 8/6 with different ways to help)

I donated to standup2cancer...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for Lauren and her family Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/6/09 9:37 PM
 

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Re: Helping Lauren (Leighla) (updated 8/6 with different ways to help)

I decided to go with donating to the paypal account. I have a question though. Does paypal send her an email when she has incoming money? Or she just have to check it herself? There was an option to send a personal message, but I left it blank since I didn't know what to say...

Posted 8/7/09 6:51 AM
 

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Re: Helping Lauren (Leighla) (updated 8/6 with different ways to help)

Posted by glinda-goodwitch

I decided to go with donating to the paypal account. I have a question though. Does paypal send her an email when she has incoming money? Or she just have to check it herself? There was an option to send a personal message, but I left it blank since I didn't know what to say...




yes, she will get an e-mail letting her know.

Posted 8/7/09 7:13 AM
 
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