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Holiday card question for girls without kids!

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

I wouldn't do it before I had kids b/c foremost I would feel stupid having my pic up amongst a ton of pics of kids. I honestly don't want my photo hanging on aunt bessie's photo clothes line or whatever in between a baby in a basket of ornaments and some toddler leaning up against a prop sleigh.

Also, with kids it is a positive progression thing- aww look how big little jimmy got blah blah. With adults it would be more like- oh looks like jane never lost the baby weight or wow jack is getting SO grey. No thanks.



Posted 12/17/10 4:22 PM
 
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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

For those who think its strange/odd/weird, etc., did you send out photo save the dates for your wedding? or a photo thank you card? How is that different?

Im not trying to be mean or nasty, just trying to wrap my head around why people think a photo of a couple is strange/odd/weird...

Posted 12/17/10 4:33 PM
 

AngnShaun
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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

i dont... i put a picture of the dog and BIL... and this year i put an ornament i got in the swap on LIW, with our wedding date & names...

Posted 12/17/10 4:34 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

My very hot older friends(both are 65) send us a photo card every year from an exotic location, usually in their bathing suits. I love it!

But seriously, they are extremely hot for their ages. I don't think I would enjoy it if my parents did this.

Posted 12/17/10 5:02 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Posted by Christine

Posted by KevinNKristin8-15-08

We usually do this but with our dogs in it. I've never sent one of just us. But I don't think there's anything wrong with it. Whats the difference if it's an adult or child on the card?! I don't get it.



I don't get it either.

Over the years, I have read so many threads about how thank you cards are a waste, photo cards should only have kids or animals, holiday letters are akin to committing a crime, it makes me wonder why people bother at all. Maybe it's me, but I can't attach any negative feeling to anyone that takes time to send me a greeting.



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Posted 12/17/10 7:02 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Only year we did a picture before we had kids was when we moved. We had a picture of us infront of the house with a sold sign.

Posted 12/17/10 7:41 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Personally, I'd rather have pictures of a couple than their dogs.

It's like finding a way to show off without showing off, so it's kids or a dog? No, dude, I am awesome, look at a pic of meeeee! Chat Icon

Posted 12/18/10 10:35 AM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Posted by dfw343

Putting a pic of your kid is Narcissistic too if you think putting a picture of just yourself is so either way, it 's an extension of the couple.





I agree with this.

Posted 12/18/10 10:36 AM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

i get a card from my cousin and her husband. each year has a dif movie theme. they superimpose their faces into pics from movies.
do you have any pets?

Posted 12/18/10 11:03 AM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Posted by MrsSpring

i get a card from my cousin and her husband. each year has a dif movie theme. they superimpose their faces into pics from movies.
do you have any pets?



Me? 6 cats and 2 dogs.

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Posted 12/18/10 11:04 AM
 

MrsSpring
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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Posted by CkGm

My very hot older friends(both are 65) send us a photo card every year from an exotic location, usually in their bathing suits. I love it!

But seriously, they are extremely hot for their ages. I don't think I would enjoy it if my parents did this.


lol my parents have a couple friend who does the same thing. minus the bathing suits...well not totally minus. they have clothes on lol that would be weird.

Posted 12/18/10 11:04 AM
 

JenniferEver
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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Posted by MrsSpring

Posted by CkGm

My very hot older friends(both are 65) send us a photo card every year from an exotic location, usually in their bathing suits. I love it!

But seriously, they are extremely hot for their ages. I don't think I would enjoy it if my parents did this.


lol my parents have a couple friend who does the same thing. minus the bathing suits...well not totally minus. they have clothes on lol that would be weird.



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Posted 12/18/10 11:06 AM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Posted by JenniferEver

Posted by MrsSpring

i get a card from my cousin and her husband. each year has a dif movie theme. they superimpose their faces into pics from movies.
do you have any pets?



Me? 6 cats and 2 dogs.

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wow how do you do it? i only have 1 dog and i feel like Chat Icon with her . lol

Posted 12/18/10 11:06 AM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Posted by MrsSpring

Posted by JenniferEver

Posted by MrsSpring

i get a card from my cousin and her husband. each year has a dif movie theme. they superimpose their faces into pics from movies.
do you have any pets?



Me? 6 cats and 2 dogs.

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wow how do you do it? i only have 1 dog and i feel like Chat Icon with her . lol



Yeah so I'm not an animal hater or anything. I live with my mom, sis, and BIL in a 2 family, so it's a group effort..wait..including her cat it's 7 cats in the house

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FH and I have a no pets/max 1 pet rule.

I'm highly allergic to cats. Go figure.

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Posted 12/18/10 11:10 AM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Posted by Mrs007

For those who think its strange/odd/weird, etc., did you send out photo save the dates for your wedding? or a photo thank you card? How is that different?

Im not trying to be mean or nasty, just trying to wrap my head around why people think a photo of a couple is strange/odd/weird...



I honestly think it's kinda corny to send a christmas card with a pic of me and DH... and to me, it is much more narcisistic than sending a picture of your kid... it's less narcisistic to send a card that says my kid is so cute and look how adorable this picture of him and santa is than to say look how fabulous me and DH are

BUT i did send photo STDs and photo TY cards for our wedding and I think that's totally different... a wedding is supposed to be all about the couple so it makes sense that you would send pictures of yourself... christmas isn't specifically a time to say look at us or celebrate anything specific about the couple so thats what makes it different to me, IMO

Posted 12/18/10 11:43 AM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

I like couple cards. I just got a hilarious one yesterday, but they are a very creative and funny couple. They out do themselves every year.

A couple of years ago I got a different "couple card" and I thought it was so cute. I put my family on my card, not just my daughter. I say why not?!

Posted 12/18/10 12:14 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

We've gotten photo card from people and/or their pets. It's cute.

Posted 12/18/10 2:23 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Posted by Mrs007

For those who think its strange/odd/weird, etc., did you send out photo save the dates for your wedding? or a photo thank you card? How is that different?

Im not trying to be mean or nasty, just trying to wrap my head around why people think a photo of a couple is strange/odd/weird...



Because a wedding is all about you & DH! Even still, I only did a picture thank you-no STDs or any pictures of us as reception decorations. My friends that sent us the photo card of themselves like that kind of stuff & had their faces all over their wedding. Not my style, but not that odd, b/c it was a celebration of them.

Posted 12/18/10 3:21 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

Posted by Christine

I don't think it's stupid at all. I LOVE having pictures of my friends! Chat Icon


I agree....who says it should only be kids??

Posted 12/18/10 3:27 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

I think that it is silly to put these type of ridiculous restrictions on Christmas cards !! Imo, it is the gesture of taking the time to wish someone a happy holiday season that really matters.

Posted 12/18/10 4:40 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

I did a pic holiday card of my and drmatt before kids. I saved all each year. I wanted a picture history of how my family evolved from year to year.

But, the picture was always us on vacation.

Posted 12/18/10 4:46 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

DH and I do a card with picture.

Maybe we're lame but people always tell us they think its cute

Posted 12/18/10 5:07 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

I see nothing wrong with it. I would think it was cute to get a pic card of a couple (kids or not!).

Posted 12/18/10 5:36 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

we don't have kids yet, and we usually do picture cards.... the first year we were married, we did one with a couple pics of us on the beach ( think engagement type pics) that our friend took for us... the next year, it was the two of us in front of the Rock. center tree, last year it had 2 pics on it- one of our dog sitting under the christmas tree and another one of Dh and i on vacation. this year, we just did a super cute one of our dog with reindeer antlers on Chat Icon
maybe we're vain.... but we always get comments on how nice/cute the cards are- especially from DHs family, who we don't see that often. i like pictures, so i don't see the big deal either way Chat Icon

Posted 12/18/10 5:43 PM
 

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Re: Holiday card question for girls without kids!

I think of that picture that Jamie Pressly and Brad Favereau had hanging in their home from I love you man

Posted 12/18/10 5:49 PM
 
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