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How do you feel?

Forum Opinion Poll
SAHM and LOVE it! 20 20.83%
SAHM, but wish I worked outside the home 9 9.38%
I work outside the home and LOVE it! 34 35.42%
I work ouside the home but wish I were a SAHM 33 34.38%
 

How do you feel about your working situation?

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hope07
LIF Adult

Member since 12/06

1050 total posts

Name:

How do you feel about your working situation?

Just wanted to see how everyone feels about working and/or being a stay at home mom.

Message edited 12/9/2007 8:41:18 PM.

Posted 12/9/07 8:40 PM
 

pmpkn087
Life is good...

Member since 9/05

18504 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I work FT outside the home and love it! I just wish I could do 4 days instead of 5.

Posted 12/9/07 8:41 PM
 

TiggerBounce
The Prince & Princess

Member since 7/05

4939 total posts

Name:
J

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I am a SAHM, but wish I worked outside of the home. Don't get me wrong I ABSOLUTELY love being home w/ DS, however we are financially JUST making it (some months are better than others) and we want a house. If I was working our debt would get paid off faster and we'd be able to get a house.

Posted 12/9/07 8:45 PM
 

BaroqueMama
Chase is one!

Member since 5/05

27530 total posts

Name:
me

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I work outside the home FT and I absolutely love it!

Posted 12/9/07 8:47 PM
 

MrsBlueSash
Love my sailor

Member since 6/05

5793 total posts

Name:
Christian

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

Posted by pmpkn087

I work FT outside the home and love it! I just wish I could do 4 days instead of 5.



I feel the same. Either 4 days a week, or 6 hour days..either would make the mom/work balance perfect for me.

Posted 12/9/07 8:48 PM
 

KateDevine
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Member since 6/06

24950 total posts

Name:

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I don't know if I LOVE working, but I definately know that I enjoy my work and I enjoy my time with DS. And I am doing what is finanacially right for my family.

Posted 12/9/07 8:51 PM
 

Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn

Member since 5/05

27567 total posts

Name:
Janice

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

SAHM who never wants to be employed ever again.(I love it)Chat Icon

Posted 12/9/07 8:51 PM
 

MrsG
LIF Adolescent

Member since 8/06

552 total posts

Name:
M

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

Posted by pmpkn087

I work FT outside the home and love it! I just wish I could do 4 days instead of 5.



I feel exactly the same way!

Posted 12/9/07 8:53 PM
 

CheeChee
HI THERE!!!!

Member since 5/05

3416 total posts

Name:

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I work outside the home 3 days a week. Love it, it is the perfect balance for me!Chat Icon

Posted 12/9/07 8:57 PM
 

pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

Member since 9/05

32436 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

Posted by pmpkn087

I work FT outside the home and love it! I just wish I could do 4 days instead of 5.



same here

Posted 12/9/07 9:06 PM
 

smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

Member since 5/06

32461 total posts

Name:
me

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I just did the "final" step and completely changed my career field. I had been working in a office for years. Went back to school and started developping my business. I now work 4 days per week instead of 5.

Posted 12/9/07 9:18 PM
 

InShock
life is good

Member since 10/06

9258 total posts

Name:

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I'm somewhere between the last two. While I'm very happy at work (I always say "Thank God I love what I do"), I do wish I could be home with DD. I'd love to be in two places at one time, but since that's impossible, I'm very happy with the situation considering I don't have the option to stay home.

Posted 12/9/07 9:21 PM
 

My3Shmoos
Me and my Monkey

Member since 7/06

2437 total posts

Name:
K

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I work outside the home and LOVE my job but I'd rather be home with my own kids.

Posted 12/9/07 10:26 PM
 

lbelle821
Arghhhhh

Member since 2/06

5285 total posts

Name:
Lisa

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I work outside the home FT. I've been very successful in my career. I have a great job, great pay, great benefits, and great responsibility (that's the not so great part). I have to work because of our financial situation. However, for my sanity I couldn't be a SAHM. After my 3 months leave I thought I would go nuts. That having been said, my ideal would be my same job, 4 days a week, 8-3 with same pay and all. Then I would really get the perfect balance.

Posted 12/9/07 11:37 PM
 

steph4777
**************

Member since 5/05

11726 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I work FT and truly enjoy what I do. Was a SAHM for a year and I was miserable. I'm much happier now, I feel complete.

Posted 12/9/07 11:49 PM
 

ddunne2
LIF Adult

Member since 7/05

4189 total posts

Name:
Doreen

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I am a SAHM who works from home 20 hours per week for my old corporate job. I'm not completely happy. Now that my kids are not babies anymore, I am excited that I am starting my own retail business (cooking school and boutique kitchen store!) that will open in May 2008. I feel alive again! I am so glad I was able to be home all the time for the last three years, but I need more in my life since I was very career minded and enjoy being challenged. SO....I'll have the best of both worlds...I'll be my own boss and get to work outside the home, yet still have plenty of time during the day with my children as they will only go to daycare from 9-1 4 days a week.

Being a SAHM is really hard and I know for sure that I will be a better mom with more patience if I worked outisde of the home.

Posted 12/10/07 7:28 AM
 

Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it

Member since 5/05

30683 total posts

Name:
D

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I work outside the home and LOVE it.
I am a teacher at a high school, so my hours are 7-2, so I get plenty of time to spend with my boys when I get homeChat Icon

Posted 12/10/07 7:34 AM
 

SweetCin
My green-eyed boy

Member since 5/05

13499 total posts

Name:
Cin

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I work outside the home as a teacher (Pre-K) but I'm home by 3:30 & get to spend lots of time w/ DD...also DH or MIL watches baby during the week so I know she's in good hands. If she were at daycare I'd do all I can to be a SAHM.

We couldn't do it right now on 1 salary

Posted 12/10/07 7:35 AM
 

johnsae
Sip.

Member since 3/06

18677 total posts

Name:

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

Posted by Janice

SAHM who never wants to be employed ever again.(I love it)Chat Icon


same. NEVER Chat Icon

Posted 12/10/07 7:47 AM
 

GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!

Member since 7/05

21138 total posts

Name:
Genna

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I work FT outside of the home but if I had the opportunity, I would rather work 3 days instead of 5 days

Posted 12/10/07 8:27 AM
 

Merf99
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05

3380 total posts

Name:

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I work full-time but work from home 2 days a week, so I'm only in the city 3 days a week. It's perfect for me. I get time to go to work and have adult time, and the other days I get to see my baby anytime I want, while working!

Posted 12/10/07 8:51 AM
 

sometimesmommy
Always in my heart.....

Member since 11/06

6686 total posts

Name:

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

Working 5 days a week wish it were 4 days or 6 hr days until DD is at least 2 years old.
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I did the SAHM route the first time and was biting at the bit at the 2 year mark. I looked for a job and jumpe dback in the work force- I liked the independence knowing that when I bought something for DH it was my own money and not his that I was respending on him if that makes sense. Plus it was nice to get dressed up and feel like a woman again instead of always being in sweats and drool lol

Posted 12/10/07 10:44 AM
 

nferrandi
too excited for words

Member since 10/05

18538 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I work part time and I love it. I feel like I get the best of both worlds. I only work a few hours a day, 4 days a week and I make good money.

Posted 12/10/07 11:06 AM
 

nylisa
My Children

Member since 5/05

7905 total posts

Name:
MaMa

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

Posted by MrsG

Posted by pmpkn087

I work FT outside the home and love it! I just wish I could do 4 days instead of 5.



I feel exactly the same way!

Me too

Posted 12/10/07 11:30 AM
 

LuvMyBoys
LIF Adult

Member since 4/07

927 total posts

Name:
MOMMY

Re: How do you feel about your working situation?

I did not vote cause I could not pick form those choices. See I Work FT and I really love my job but I wish I could work PT. To me that would be the best of both worlds.

Posted 12/10/07 11:37 AM
 
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