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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: How would you respond to this?
Posted by Strawberry2468
I would flat out ask them why they would ask a question like that. People have no bountries when it comes to pregnant people.
ita! i have gotten the omg twins..are these from treatments looks?
people r unreal
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evenedan
Need a little sunshine
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Re: How would you respond to this?
We waited a long time to have our first LO and for a time I was on the fence about even having one, so now that I'm pregnant, I've actually had a few people ask me if it was planned.
I'm very outspoken, but I just say yes, it was planned, because anything else would just come out way too nasty.
I'm floored by the stupidity and/or the nerve of people.
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| Posted 8/14/12 10:31 PM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
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Re: How would you respond to this?
I read everyone's responses...people are just so disgusting  Anyway, this pregnancy was planned...we did whatever happens, happens and it happened however when people ask me that question, I cant even bring myself to tell them yes because I don't want to give them the satisfaction of an answer  It just amazes me what information people think that they are entitled to
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| Posted 8/15/12 6:10 AM |
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Sparrow
LIF Adult
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Re: How would you respond to this?
We got pg with DD (INTENTIONALLY) 2 months after we got married. We both have good paying, stable jobs and owned a home. I was shocked when people were asking us if this was "planned"!
Now that DD is 16 months and I'm telling people that we've expecting #2 (again, intentionally) I've had some ask if it was planned. I think some people are just beyond nosey and have no clue as to what is an acceptable and polite question.
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| Posted 8/15/12 9:23 AM |
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butterfly20
Party of 5 - 2015
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Re: How would you respond to this?
i think alot of people expect people stop at 2 kids.......
but your evenly spaced so I don't know why you'd get that silly question.
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| Posted 8/15/12 8:24 PM |
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DiamondGirl
You are my I love you
Member since 7/09 18802 total posts
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Re: How would you respond to this?
Posted by TheDivineMrsM
My FIL asked me this (and this is only our second). I told him that it wasn't, but I've heard a lot of sad stories in the past few years, and I feel lucky to have one healthy DD and another one on the way. It shut him up pretty effectively.
I HATE this question... but have a couple of answers if you're in a b!tchy mood:
1) No. Are you going to take back your congratulations now?
2) Yes, it was... by G-d.
3) Yes. After a few more, we want our own reality show!
have I told you lately that I love you
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| Posted 8/15/12 8:29 PM |
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TheDivineMrsM
2 girls 4 me!
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Mama mama mama....
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Re: How would you respond to this?
I can't take credit for #2 and 3... other friends of ours came up with those. I totally admit to using #3 on a Target cashier recently though.
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| Posted 8/15/12 8:57 PM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
Member since 7/05 21138 total posts
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Re: How would you respond to this?
Posted by TheDivineMrsM
I can't take credit for #2 and 3... other friends of ours came up with those. I totally admit to using #3 on a Target cashier recently though.
I read DH your responses last night and he loves #3 I told him that I am using that one the next time someone asks that question
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| Posted 8/16/12 6:10 AM |
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saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...
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Re: How would you respond to this?
Not mr, but my dh's cousin got pg with #2. It was soon after their first, but I never said a word about her.
Her mil, dh's aunt, told everyone that it was an "oops baby.".  I thought that was the rudest thing. I would never ask anybody if they were having an "oops baby."
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| Posted 8/16/12 7:55 AM |
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