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4PsInaPod
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Re: Huge argument in my house tonight UPDATE PAGE 2
 I hope he apologized too.
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pickles16
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Jen
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Re: Huge argument in my house tonight UPDATE PAGE 2
Posted by mikeswife06
UPDATE: For the sake of peace in my home I took major responsibility last night for what happened. I went out there and said...
"I know you are really upset with me BUT my number 1 goal is to provide that baby with a safe happy environment. I know I have fear, anxiety, and control issues but while I look deep inside myself to work on them I could really use your support instead of you internalizing what I say and taking it personally. I want to work on being a better person for me and for her and I will do it with or without you."
In my head I was thinking "I would really like for us to return to counseling together" yet I don't think that's the message I sent 
I don't car as long as it's not a war zone or awkward tension in the house.
I thank you all for your support and keeping me sane 
DH and I have always been constant arguers, we are both stubborn, the arguing has gotten different since DD has been put in the mix, I have major control issues and he knows it...
I think voicing your concerns is a natural thing for a mother to do, and you're response was perfect, as a man, and as someone that was raised by parents he needs to understand that is what you're doing, and I've explained that to DH, I think your explanation was a good one, and I'm so sorry that you're going through this...I do think at the RIGHT time you should bring up counseling again, personally I think his reaction was uncalled for, and I think his reaction is stemming from the underlying issues
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| Posted 2/19/10 8:44 AM |
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DRMom
Two in Blue
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Melissa
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Re: Huge argument in my house tonight UPDATE PAGE 2
Annie-I guess I must have missed this yesterday. I can tell you that I have had this conversation with my DH as I am sure every other Mom in the world has. We all have a priority(and a biological and evolutionary need ) to protect our children. I did read your update and I have to say you are definitely being the bigger person
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| Posted 2/19/10 8:49 AM |
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randella
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Re: Huge argument in my house tonight UPDATE PAGE 2
Posted by Goobster
I would have said the same thing. And my DH also might have replied with similar sentiments...like, what am I stupid? But regardless I would say it.
same
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| Posted 2/19/10 8:50 AM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Donna
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Re: Huge argument in my house tonight UPDATE PAGE 2
No, your NOT Wrong at all...
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| Posted 2/19/10 3:08 PM |
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Little-J-Mommy
I'm a Big Brother
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Re: Huge argument in my house tonight UPDATE PAGE 2
Posted by maybesoon
sorry but NOONE would be taking my DC on a boat without me, unless they were much older, like 12! you are not wrong here
same here
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| Posted 2/19/10 4:08 PM |
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annoyedTTCer
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Re: Huge argument in my house tonight UPDATE PAGE 2
I did not raise my voice at ALL he just sat there yelling at me saying F every other word and when I asked him to stop he just said he didn't care. It was awful.
I would have told him to pack an over night bag and go to his mothers for a few days
Sorry but he sounds like an azz
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| Posted 2/19/10 4:16 PM |
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Bri
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Brianne
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Re: Huge argument in my house tonight UPDATE PAGE 2
I hope you are feeling better
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| Posted 2/19/10 4:19 PM |
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MrsGmomof3
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Re: Huge argument in my house tonight UPDATE PAGE 2
Posted by maybesoon
sorry but NOONE would be taking my DC on a boat without me, unless they were much older, like 12! you are not wrong here
I agree.
I trust DH... thats not the point at all.
I would not let him take DC on a boat without me though. Nope.
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| Posted 2/19/10 4:22 PM |
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MrsDrMatt
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MrsDrMatt
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Re: Huge argument in my house tonight UPDATE PAGE 2
I'm sorry I gave this another thought but based upon your other posts in sounds like he is just looking for reasons to place blame on you. He sounds desperate to start arguments.
stay strong..
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| Posted 2/19/10 4:27 PM |
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