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I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE UPDATE 8/25/08:

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MrsRJP
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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

Posted by JRG71

I agree - I wouldn't pay 13K over the appraisal - no matter what the number looked liked stretched out over years. Or even if I had the 13k in the bank. It still comes down to the house not being worth what you'd be paying.

I hope the seller sucks it up and goes with the appraisal price.




ITA I would never pay over either. I am so sorry you are going through this. I know you really wanted this house and hopefully the seller will wake up and realize that this might happen again with another buyer that is interested. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/23/08 8:53 PM
 
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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

keep in mind, appraisals are simply opinions (and this is coming from an appraiser). Two appraisals rarely result in the exact same value.

It may be that the available comps weren't the greatest. That doesn't necessarily mean its not worth the additional $13K. And it doesn't mean that a new sale tomorrow wouldn't support your price. The appraised value must be bracketed by the prices of the recent comps, so even if your house is better than the comps, its somewhat "held down" by them.

You thought it was worth the agreed upon price, or you wouldn't have agreed to it. Hopefully the seller will come down, but my point is, just because the house didn't appraise for the contract price, doesn't necessarily mean its not worth it.

Message edited 8/24/2008 10:32:58 PM.

Posted 8/24/08 10:32 PM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

we had a flip in florida that appraised for 12k less than our agreed selling price in 2003. We agreed to lower the price to close the deal because we had a qualified buyer and we figured staring over with another buyer would mean more carrying costs & the possibilty that it would appraise low again.
Some people hedge their bets differently, you made your best offer which I think is PLENTY generous given today's market. Now its up to her if she wants fast closing or the possiblity of months back on the market.
Sorry about your rate...just another joy of home buyingChat Icon

Posted 8/24/08 10:51 PM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

I hope it works out for you! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/08 10:39 AM
 

ave1024
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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

Posted by -Lisa-

keep in mind, appraisals are simply opinions (and this is coming from an appraiser). Two appraisals rarely result in the exact same value.

It may be that the available comps weren't the greatest. That doesn't necessarily mean its not worth the additional $13K. And it doesn't mean that a new sale tomorrow wouldn't support your price. The appraised value must be bracketed by the prices of the recent comps, so even if your house is better than the comps, its somewhat "held down" by them.

You thought it was worth the agreed upon price, or you wouldn't have agreed to it. Hopefully the seller will come down, but my point is, just because the house didn't appraise for the contract price, doesn't necessarily mean its not worth it.




I have to agree with everything Lisa said.

Appraisers can say whatever they want and make whatever decisions they like to come up with their numbers.

Bottom line is: The house is worth what somebody will pay for it. That will always be the case.

There will be plenty of times where a house can appraise for 500k, yet a seller couldn't find a buyer for 450k. The reverse can be true as well.

Also don't forget if you do buy this house for the additional 13k, the next time somebody buy's a similar farmhouse, your sale price will be used in THEIR comps. Not a bad thing.

Posted 8/25/08 10:43 AM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

Posted by ave1024

Posted by -Lisa-

keep in mind, appraisals are simply opinions (and this is coming from an appraiser). Two appraisals rarely result in the exact same value.

It may be that the available comps weren't the greatest. That doesn't necessarily mean its not worth the additional $13K. And it doesn't mean that a new sale tomorrow wouldn't support your price. The appraised value must be bracketed by the prices of the recent comps, so even if your house is better than the comps, its somewhat "held down" by them.

You thought it was worth the agreed upon price, or you wouldn't have agreed to it. Hopefully the seller will come down, but my point is, just because the house didn't appraise for the contract price, doesn't necessarily mean its not worth it.




I have to agree with everything Lisa said.

Appraisers can say whatever they want and make whatever decisions they like to come up with their numbers.

Bottom line is: The house is worth what somebody will pay for it. That will always be the case.

There will be plenty of times where a house can appraise for 500k, yet a seller couldn't find a buyer for 450k. The reverse can be true as well.

Also don't forget if you do buy this house for the additional 13k, the next time somebody buy's a similar farmhouse, your sale price will be used in THEIR comps. Not a bad thing.



it's not that I don't agree with her.

I agree and understand.

but the other factors are also singing in my ear...the fact that it's been on the market with NO real offers for 9 months.

the fact that the other comps in the area over the last 3 years (they went back THAT far) are pretty consistent with the appraised value.

the fact that WE CANNOT put ourselves in a position financially to "give" this lady her price leaving us running on FUMES??? NO WAY.

not when the house STILL appraised for far more than what she paid. not when she is STILL making a profit.

I am not saying it's not possible for someone else to come along and be willing to pay the overage.

I am just saying WE are not.

Posted 8/25/08 10:58 AM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

So whats next? Whats the status so far? I'm so sad for youChat Icon but I hope it'll work out!

Posted 8/25/08 11:10 AM
 

ave1024
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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

Posted by Ophelia

I am just saying WE are not.




Hey nothing wrong with that. You never know she may come back groveling to you a month later. Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/08 11:12 AM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

My guess is she'll lower the price. By now she has mentally moved out of the house.

No one wants to go through the aggravation of showings again.

Posted 8/25/08 11:16 AM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

i hope she lowers the price for you Chat Icon good luck.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/08 11:17 AM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

Posted by Ophelia

Posted by ave1024

Posted by -Lisa-

keep in mind, appraisals are simply opinions (and this is coming from an appraiser). Two appraisals rarely result in the exact same value.

It may be that the available comps weren't the greatest. That doesn't necessarily mean its not worth the additional $13K. And it doesn't mean that a new sale tomorrow wouldn't support your price. The appraised value must be bracketed by the prices of the recent comps, so even if your house is better than the comps, its somewhat "held down" by them.

You thought it was worth the agreed upon price, or you wouldn't have agreed to it. Hopefully the seller will come down, but my point is, just because the house didn't appraise for the contract price, doesn't necessarily mean its not worth it.




I have to agree with everything Lisa said.

Appraisers can say whatever they want and make whatever decisions they like to come up with their numbers.

Bottom line is: The house is worth what somebody will pay for it. That will always be the case.

There will be plenty of times where a house can appraise for 500k, yet a seller couldn't find a buyer for 450k. The reverse can be true as well.

Also don't forget if you do buy this house for the additional 13k, the next time somebody buy's a similar farmhouse, your sale price will be used in THEIR comps. Not a bad thing.



it's not that I don't agree with her.

I agree and understand.

but the other factors are also singing in my ear...the fact that it's been on the market with NO real offers for 9 months.

the fact that the other comps in the area over the last 3 years (they went back THAT far) are pretty consistent with the appraised value.

the fact that WE CANNOT put ourselves in a position financially to "give" this lady her price leaving us running on FUMES??? NO WAY.

not when the house STILL appraised for far more than what she paid. not when she is STILL making a profit.

I am not saying it's not possible for someone else to come along and be willing to pay the overage.

I am just saying WE are not.



Although I agree/understand with most of what the pp's are saying, I think you are being fiscally responsible and I commend you on that. If more people made wiser choices in the past several years our housing market would not be in such crisis. Fact of the matter is, a bank won't approve a loan for more than the appraised value and there is a reason for that. You should not have to pick up the slack bc the owner "feels" its worth more-especially given the current state of things and that she would still be making a handsome profit. Best of luck to you and DH!

Posted 8/25/08 11:22 AM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

Posted by Katie111806



Although I agree/understand with most of what the pp's are saying, I think you are being fiscally responsible and I commend you on that. If more people made wiser choices in the past several years our housing market would not be in such crisis. Fact of the matter is, a bank won't approve a loan for more than the appraised value and there is a reason for that. You should not have to pick up the slack bc the owner "feels" its worth more-especially given the current state of things and that she would still be making a handsome profit. Best of luck to you and DH!



agreed 110%!!!!!

you are doing the smart thing-

my Dad always said you have to be willing to walk away

it's a business transaction first and foremost

Posted 8/25/08 11:24 AM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by Katie111806



Although I agree/understand with most of what the pp's are saying, I think you are being fiscally responsible and I commend you on that. If more people made wiser choices in the past several years our housing market would not be in such crisis. Fact of the matter is, a bank won't approve a loan for more than the appraised value and there is a reason for that. You should not have to pick up the slack bc the owner "feels" its worth more-especially given the current state of things and that she would still be making a handsome profit. Best of luck to you and DH!



agreed 110%!!!!!

you are doing the smart thing-

my Dad always said you have to be willing to walk away

it's a business transaction first and foremost



ITA.

Of course, it's your choice to pay the $13K

I would not. I would never pay more than it appraises. It makes no sense financially speaking.

Posted 8/25/08 12:07 PM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

Any progress Jess?

I really commend both of you for being financially responsible. I know what it's like to find a house you love but know that no matter what, it's not a good finanical decision.

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Posted 8/25/08 1:38 PM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

Posted by Kara

If the house appraised for less, I have a feeling the seller will feel motivated to lower the price that $13,000 -- or run the risk of having the same problems with the next buyer.

Good luck!! Chat Icon



ita. hope it works out for you!!

Posted 8/25/08 1:55 PM
 

babyfaith
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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

If a house is being appraised for less than what you are paying that is a big problem IMO! I don't know about you but I wouldn't want to overpay for a house. If the seller ever wants to sell, they are going to have to come down at least to the appraised price. If not, keep looking.

Posted 8/25/08 1:58 PM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE

Posted by MrsPornStar

Any progress Jess?

I really commend both of you for being financially responsible. I know what it's like to find a house you love but know that no matter what, it's not a good finanical decision.

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No news yet and I am about to LOSE MY ****! Chat Icon

thanks ladies Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/08 2:01 PM
 

Ophelia
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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE UPDATE 8/25/08:

UPDATE:

We are back in business. the seller accepted our offer of $3k over the appraised value still with an extremely ambitious close of next week Chat Icon

I am just waiting for the addendum to come in from her lawyer to get through the banks.

I ripped more new aholes today than "newbie" day at the county jail Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon , but we are back on track.

thank you all for your support, advice, and well wishes.

Posted 8/25/08 5:25 PM
 

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Great news!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/08 5:27 PM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE UPDATE 8/25/08:

Posted by Ophelia

UPDATE:


I ripped more new aholes today than "newbie" day at the county jail Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon , but we are back on track.

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Jess, you crack me up! Chat Icon

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Posted 8/25/08 5:27 PM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE UPDATE 8/25/08:

Posted by dandr10199

Posted by Ophelia

UPDATE:


I ripped more new aholes today than "newbie" day at the county jail Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon , but we are back on track.

.



Jess, you crack me up! Chat Icon

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Dina...I friggin LOVE you.

I got your vm and your email.

if you lay out ANY expenses (even donuts and coffee) you BETTER let me know! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/08 5:29 PM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE UPDATE 8/25/08:

Good news!

Hope everything goes smooth after that!

You need to start worried about what color paint to buy and not whether you find a house or not.

Posted 8/25/08 5:30 PM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE UPDATE 8/25/08:

Just read the 8/25 update. Congratulations!! Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/08 5:31 PM
 

MrsRJP
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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE UPDATE 8/25/08:

That is good to hear that the ball is rolling again. Chat Icon Chat Icon that everything goes smooth. Good Luck!!!

Posted 8/25/08 5:45 PM
 

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Re: I am crushed. so crushed. Partial UPDATE UPDATE 8/25/08:

Great news!!

Posted 8/25/08 7:24 PM
 
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