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Diane
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I am NOT happy anymore.....
I didnt know where to post this. DH and I have been on and off with getting along. I have taken so much, that I cant take it anymore and dont know what to do. We make up, things are good, and then we are fighting again. He puts me down a lot, making fun of my weight, how I am dressed, how my hair looks, and know wonder why I am not nice back. I tell him this is why I am nasty to him. Now, we were supposed to go to our friends for a surprise party with no kids, and Christopher is not feeling well, and yes, guess who alys has to stay home with the sick one. I tried aking my dad, but he had plans, and I know he would have broken them, but I didnt even ask him to babysit, so now he blames me for not trying hard, plus how do you leave a child who is throwing up, and has a fever with someone. It is not fair.
I am just scared to raise 2 kids and 1 with with a disability on my own. I dont know if I can handle it financially and mentally. I just dont think we can be happy againThanks for letting me vent.
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Baby #1 is here!
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Stacey1403
Where it all began....
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nicrae
He's here!
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LoveBeingMrsT
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So sorry you are going through this. He should NOT be saying those things to you!
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organichic
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Gatsbygirl
Please St. Therese....
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
I am sorry to hear this
FM if you ever want to talk because not a day goes by where I am not weighing single mom vs. unhappily married mom. There are no easy answers, hope things improve soon
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2PreciousBlessings
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nrthshgrl
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
Diane - I'm so sorry. I don't have any advice except to say take care of yourself. You absolutely deserve better treatment.
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bayla
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Lillykat
going along for the ride...
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pinky
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mrswask
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
Have you guys tried marriage counseling? Have you sat down with him and given an ultimatum? Does he realize how serious you are?
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julz33
i run for bacon
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ReiRei13
Life is Good!!
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nbc188
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MommyofG
just the girls
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
Was he always like this? was he like this before the kids came or did this start after? wonder if he is jealous over the amount of time given to the kids, some husbands get like that. I pray you guys find a happy medium b/c the boys will pick up on it. hopefully he will go to counseling, sounds like he needs someone to put him in his place and tell him like it is and how real men dont talk to women especially thier wife and mother of children like that! best of luck, hoping for the best!
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