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sydniesmom
LIF Adolescent
Member since 2/08 700 total posts
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susan
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
So sorry u r going through this. Your husband should never speak to u like that. I hope that you find a way to be happy again with or without him for ur own sake and the kids. You r way to young to be miserable!! Many  to u!! GL!
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SpiceGirl
Dream big
Member since 1/06 2486 total posts
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j
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
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Hotmamma408
LIF Adolescent
Member since 6/08 692 total posts
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
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Melissa77
Mommy of 3
Member since 8/08 2872 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
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dooodles
When you wish upon a star
Member since 5/05 11997 total posts
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Because 2 people fell in love
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
Diane - I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. Those are some harsh words going into your heart and soul 
Have you tried counseling? Is that something you both would consider?
I hope things get better
Message edited 3/21/2010 8:51:51 AM.
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| Posted 3/21/10 8:51 AM |
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Porrruss
Nya nya nya
Member since 5/05 11618 total posts
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Amy
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
I cannot imagine the pain you're in while making this kind of decision. I have no real words of advice. You WILL be OK doing this on your own if it needs to be that way. Your strength in dealing with your DS's disability while juggling the rest of life has always amazed me. 
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| Posted 3/21/10 8:56 AM |
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JandJ1224
Member since 6/06 5911 total posts
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Jannette
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
Just wanted to say don't feel stuck because of your kids. Its important for your kids to see you being respected!
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| Posted 3/21/10 8:58 AM |
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Little-J-Mommy
I'm a Big Brother
Member since 5/06 8041 total posts
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
Diane, I'm so sorry you're going through this. I know how hard and frustrating it can be to have a child with special needs and how it can put people on edge at times. The way he speaks to you has NO excuse though. If you ever need to talk, please don't hesitate to FM
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| Posted 3/21/10 9:10 AM |
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SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!
Member since 12/05 20105 total posts
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Lauren
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
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MrsS2005
Mom of 3
Member since 11/05 13118 total posts
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B
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
so sorry you are going through this!!!
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| Posted 3/21/10 9:26 AM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît
Member since 6/07 42079 total posts
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LB
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
I am so sorry, and I am so mad for you that your husband thinks it's okay to speak to you like that  You're a beautiful, strong woman who has done so much for her family and children, and you deserve to be happy. I hope you can find happiness in your life again.
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| Posted 3/21/10 9:31 AM |
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summerBaby10
let's be nice
Member since 9/07 10208 total posts
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Wifey
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
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Shelleybean11
Mommy of 2!
Member since 12/08 11013 total posts
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
I'm so sorry you are going through this.
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| Posted 3/21/10 9:41 AM |
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Kidsaplenty
Sister love
Member since 2/06 5971 total posts
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Stephanie
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
Member since 7/05 21138 total posts
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Genna
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
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JennyPenny
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
Member since 5/05 30683 total posts
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
Thank you so much for all the warm wishes. I will answer the FMs later. I am trying to answer all your questions. I dont even know if couseling will help now. He says words to me that is so hurtful. He has called me a B$tch down to the C word(which I DESPISE)
I cant even go to the grocery store without him saying I have to babysit, or wait till they take a nap, then go, or take 1 of the boys with you, so going for a mani/pedi is out of the question. I do all my errnads on my lucnh break so I dont have to hear it.
If $$$ was no issues, I would leave in a heartbeat, as sad as it sounds. My only problem is getting the boys to school, because I leave so early in the morning, I dont even see them before I leave.
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mrswask
Pookie Love
Member since 5/05 20229 total posts
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Michal
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
Do you have family around who can help out? Just the fact that you are saying you know you would leave if money wasn't an issue I almost feel like it would be easier to struggle financially that to be in a marriage you know you want to leave
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| Posted 3/21/10 10:47 AM |
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Goldi0218
My miracles!
Member since 12/05 23902 total posts
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Leslie
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
I'm so sorry you are going through this, but sharing with us the way you have already shows that you are stronger than you think. Do what you need to do to protect yourself and your kids. You have our support.
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| Posted 3/21/10 10:55 AM |
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imyself
Member since 10/06 2938 total posts
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me
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
I am giving you the same advice I gave my sister. Get counseling! You need to go together and individually to the same person. This way that one person knows both sides even what you are afraid to say in front of each other. If that does not work then leave. Take the boys and find some one that will treat you and your children right. You haven't said how he treats the kids but if he refuses to watch them so you can get an hour to yourself then obviously he is far from father of the year. How he treats you is teaching your boys how to act towards women. You are a good mother but you can only counteract so much. A happy mother with a man who treats her right will do the boys much more good then a sad, lonely mother in a verbally abusive relationship with their father
I know things look bad but remember they don't have to stay this way. Even if money is tight you will find a way
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mooshyboo
So Blessed!
Member since 11/07 6297 total posts
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Christine
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
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mikeswife06
Drama Momma
Member since 9/06 9947 total posts
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Anne
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
Unfortunately, I TOTALLY know hoe you feel and if you ever need to talk I'm here to listen Hope Christopher feels better soon!
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Aga
hello baby Albert
Member since 9/05 7750 total posts
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Aga
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Re: I am NOT happy anymore.....
Posted by Diane
Thank you so much for all the warm wishes. I will answer the FMs later. I am trying to answer all your questions. I dont even know if couseling will help now. He says words to me that is so hurtful. He has called me a B$tch down to the C word(which I DESPISE)
I cant even go to the grocery store without him saying I have to babysit, or wait till they take a nap, then go, or take 1 of the boys with you, so going for a mani/pedi is out of the question. I do all my errnads on my lucnh break so I dont have to hear it.
If $$$ was no issues, I would leave in a heartbeat, as sad as it sounds. My only problem is getting the boys to school, because I leave so early in the morning, I dont even see them before I leave.
I am so sorry you are going through this, I am just afraid if you stay in this relationship and you are not happy plus he is treating you like crap he is setting bad example for your kids down the road... I mean, you dont want your boys to treat you or other women like that (calling then names and have no respect)... it is tough, I hope you have the strength to the do right thing for YOU and the children!
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