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I feel like a horrible friend
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marriedandttc
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/08 873 total posts
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lauren
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I feel like a horrible friend
My best friend, who I have known since I was 5 years had. Had her first child yesterday. We went to see her and the baby today and to be honest all I felt was jealous. I didn't even hold him because I just couldn't get over my feeling. I feel like a horrible friend cause the only thing I can think is why not me.
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Posted 7/11/10 11:56 PM  |
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our-secret
LIF Infant
Member since 12/06 371 total posts
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Re: I feel like a horrible friend
Don't beat yourself up over this. It is natural to feel that way. It does not make you a bad friend at all.
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| Posted 7/12/10 8:04 AM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Re: I feel like a horrible friend
You are not a terrible friend.... Quite the opposite. You a great friend for JUST GOING THERE, despite how much you have been through.
It is so normal to be jeaolous after your lossses, it's only natural ( and your human). There were so many times I felt like that, but that fact that you could still be there for her shows you are a great friend!!!
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| Posted 7/12/10 8:46 AM |
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BabyHopes15
Thank you St. G for my boy PJ!
Member since 5/10 1756 total posts
Name:
Aim
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Re: I feel like a horrible friend
You're a good friend for going and you're honest with yourself to recognize your feelings. I totally understand where you are coming from...we all do! Just keep thinking to yourself that it will be you one day!
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| Posted 7/12/10 12:04 PM |
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zoe282
We have our miracle!
Member since 8/08 3634 total posts
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Jen
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Re: I feel like a horrible friend
You aren't a horrible friend! not at all...there is nothing wrong with feeling sorry for yourself when you are happy for someone else.
The fact that you went means you are a good friend, and I think it's great you went! That will mean a lot to your friend. People remember those things.
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| Posted 7/13/10 8:56 AM |
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gina409
TWINS!
Member since 12/09 27635 total posts
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g
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Re: I feel like a horrible friend
dont beat yourself up!!!! its a hrad situation and u cannot help how you feel..in time you will feel better
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| Posted 7/13/10 12:25 PM |
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Exarina
My Two Girls
Member since 12/09 1249 total posts
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Lisa Marie
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Re: I feel like a horrible friend
Honestly its not you- the way you are feeling is taking over the person that you are...its not jealously its something that you have to get over- I know b/c I had the same feelings but honestly at one point it all went away Your a good friend
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| Posted 7/14/10 12:29 PM |
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