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dm24angel
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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by Beth1210






your right... for now. Just pray you never hurt anyone with the choices you make. I am really not starting to start more drama here.

But the purpose of a speed limit is for your safety as well as other people on the road even though it is "your license, your car, and your ticket". And if people (I do not mean just you) dont follow the speed limit because they dont get penalized, then it makes the roads unsafe for everyone.

Be grateful that you can get out of the financial penalty, but hopefully you will learn the lesson that is supposed to come with the ticket.



ok Ms. Perfect




why are you soooo defensive and rude?

She was trying to lighten things up before. If you dont want the drama, you sure have a funny way of letting it go.

Bottom line...not everyone agrees with you. Are you that childish you cannot accept that?

I dont agree with you, but I could care less what you do..ITs called maturity. Disagreeing, debating and moving on. Hence the MOVING ON.

Posted 2/23/07 7:46 PM
 
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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!






why are you soooo defensive and rude?

She was trying to lighten things up before. If you dont want the drama, you sure have a funny way of letting it go.

Bottom line...not everyone agrees with you. Are you that childish you cannot accept that?

I dont agree with you, but I could care less what you do..ITs called maturity. Disagreeing, debating and moving on. Hence the MOVING ON.




b/c after 9 pages- it's old

I get the point

speeding is bad- I said it my first post I was mad at myself about it

PBA cards are wrong

I get it- you don't agree with me

I'm glad

Posted 2/23/07 7:50 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

You know I had to go back to the first page again to see how this whole thing started!!

Beth, it irks me that you're getting chastised over this whole thing Chat Icon I mean, in your original post you say you didn't realize how fast you were going and you were mad at yourself.

How the thread gets from there to posters saying hopefully you learned your lesson, I just don't get it.

Anyway Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/07 7:55 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by Kate07

You know I had to go back to the first page again to see how this whole thing started!!

Beth, it irks me that you're getting chastised over this whole thing Chat Icon I mean, in your original post you say you didn't realize how fast you were going and you were mad at yourself.

How the thread gets from there to posters saying hopefully you learned your lesson, I just don't get it.

Anyway Chat Icon



exactly !!!!

Posted 2/23/07 7:56 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by Beth1210


speeding is bad- I said it my first post I was mad at myself about it





so if you get it why all the defensiveness???????

Not sure how you came to the conclusion that I am Ms. PerfectChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I certainly never said that, do I try and obey laws- yes. Perfect-I dont think so. Not saying you have to be either.

Posted 2/23/07 7:57 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by Kate07



How the thread gets from there to posters saying hopefully you learned your lesson, I just don't get it.

Anyway Chat Icon



because somewhere in the middle of this thread- she said that she was proud of getting out of this ticket. And when there are are only rewards for behaviors, the behaviors repeat..


*Insert Pavlov's dog here*

ETA: Found it:
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Message edited 2/23/2007 8:03:26 PM.

Posted 2/23/07 7:58 PM
 

Beth
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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by Kate07

You know I had to go back to the first page again to see how this whole thing started!!

Beth, it irks me that you're getting chastised over this whole thing Chat Icon I mean, in your original post you say you didn't realize how fast you were going and you were mad at yourself.

How the thread gets from there to posters saying hopefully you learned your lesson, I just don't get it.

Anyway Chat Icon



I know- it's amazing- suddenly I am this mence to society speeding all over NY reeking havoc on all who cross my path

I was going 74mph in 50mph on I-95- not 95mph in a school zone

if I wasn't in NYC and the speed limit was the normal 55- I would not have gotten pulled over- I forget it's only 50 there

and anyone who drives on I-95 for 30 miles every day like I do- knows that 74 is about average if not slow

people pass me now that I have been trying to keep it at 65mph like the cop suggested ( so even he suggested I break the speed limit)

Posted 2/23/07 7:59 PM
 

Beth
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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by rose825

Posted by Kate07



How the thread gets from there to posters saying hopefully you learned your lesson, I just don't get it.

Anyway Chat Icon



because somewhere in the middle of this thread- she said that she was proud of getting out of this ticket. And when there are are only rewards for behaviors, the behaviors repeat..


*Insert Pavlov's dog here*



no I didn't- I just went back and read every post

I never said I was "proud" of myself- and I never use the word "proud" b/c I am never 100% sure how to spell it for some reason

Posted 2/23/07 8:03 PM
 

rose825
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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by rose825

Posted by Kate07



How the thread gets from there to posters saying hopefully you learned your lesson, I just don't get it.

Anyway Chat Icon



because somewhere in the middle of this thread- she said that she was proud of getting out of this ticket. And when there are are only rewards for behaviors, the behaviors repeat..


*Insert Pavlov's dog here*



no I didn't- I just went back and read every post

I never said I was "proud" of myself- and I never use the word "proud" b/c I am never 100% sure how to spell it for some reason



your right, it was this statement that I inferred that from:

Posted by Beth1210


I don't care if you call me on it- I am happy to say that I have a PBA and I use it The Police give them out- so your problem should be with the police not with me for using it

and if that makes me a bad person- then so be it!



Posted 2/23/07 8:08 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

My dad was a nassau county cop for 30+ years...he missed my birthday's and holiday's and I always lived in fear that tonight was the night that maybe he wouldn't come home. He put his life on the line day in and day out, got hit, got shot at etc.
For that I get a smidge of special treatment and if you don't like it....well bite me Chat Icon


eta- I don't really speed anyway (my commute was only 2.5 miles) and I never got to use the benefit of my card, when I did get pulled over on the Meadowbrook I took my ticket because I was in the wrong. I just don't think the concept of professional courtesy is wrong.

Message edited 2/23/2007 8:12:24 PM.

Posted 2/23/07 8:09 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by DebG

My dad was a nassau county cop for 30+ years...he missed my birthday's and holiday's and I always lived in fear that tonight was the night that maybe he wouldn't come home. He put his life on the line day in and day out, got hit, got shot at etc.
For that I get a smidge of special treatment and if you don't like it....well bite me Chat Icon



Deb- you could do anything and I would never begrudge youChat Icon

And PS- Point well taken!

Posted 2/23/07 8:10 PM
 

Beth
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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by rose825

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by rose825

Posted by Kate07



How the thread gets from there to posters saying hopefully you learned your lesson, I just don't get it.

Anyway Chat Icon



because somewhere in the middle of this thread- she said that she was proud of getting out of this ticket. And when there are are only rewards for behaviors, the behaviors repeat..


*Insert Pavlov's dog here*



no I didn't- I just went back and read every post

I never said I was "proud" of myself- and I never use the word "proud" b/c I am never 100% sure how to spell it for some reason



your right, it was this statement that I inferred that from:

Posted by Beth1210


I don't care if you call me on it- I am happy to say that I have a PBA and I use it The Police give them out- so your problem should be with the police not with me for using it

and if that makes me a bad person- then so be it!






Chat Icon where does it say I am "proud" of myself ??????

I was defending myself

I have no problem using a PBA card as long as they are legal



Posted 2/23/07 8:10 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by DebG

My dad was a nassau county cop for 30+ years...he missed my birthday's and holiday's and I always lived in fear that tonight was the night that maybe he wouldn't come home. He put his life on the line day in and day out, got hit, got shot at etc.
For that I get a smidge of special treatment and if you don't like it....well bite me Chat Icon



Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/07 8:11 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by DebG

My dad was a nassau county cop for 30+ years...he missed my birthday's and holiday's and I always lived in fear that tonight was the night that maybe he wouldn't come home. He put his life on the line day in and day out, got hit, got shot at etc.
For that I get a smidge of special treatment and if you don't like it....well bite me Chat Icon



well said. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/07 8:12 PM
 

DebG
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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by rose825

Posted by DebG

My dad was a nassau county cop for 30+ years...he missed my birthday's and holiday's and I always lived in fear that tonight was the night that maybe he wouldn't come home. He put his life on the line day in and day out, got hit, got shot at etc.
For that I get a smidge of special treatment and if you don't like it....well bite me Chat Icon



Deb- you could do anything and I would never begrudge youChat Icon

And PS- Point well taken!



Chat Icon Chat Icon I just want to say though, that I 100% see the other side of the coin. People use this to abuse the system and feel that certain laws do not pertain to them. THAT is NOT cool.

Posted 2/23/07 8:13 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by DebG


Chat Icon Chat Icon I just want to say though, that I 100% see the other side of the coin. People use this to abuse the system and feel that certain laws do not pertain to them. THAT is NOT cool.



Bingo!!

And I believe that is the point that is trying to be made

did that make sense? Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/07 8:25 PM
 

rose825
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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by rose825

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by rose825

Posted by Kate07



How the thread gets from there to posters saying hopefully you learned your lesson, I just don't get it.

Anyway Chat Icon



because somewhere in the middle of this thread- she said that she was proud of getting out of this ticket. And when there are are only rewards for behaviors, the behaviors repeat..


*Insert Pavlov's dog here*



no I didn't- I just went back and read every post

I never said I was "proud" of myself- and I never use the word "proud" b/c I am never 100% sure how to spell it for some reason



your right, it was this statement that I inferred that from:

Posted by Beth1210


I don't care if you call me on it- I am happy to say that I have a PBA and I use it The Police give them out- so your problem should be with the police not with me for using it

and if that makes me a bad person- then so be it!






Chat Icon where does it say I am "proud" of myself ??????

I was defending myself

I have no problem using a PBA card as long as they are legal






sorry I obviously misinterpreted "happy to say" as "proud"Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/07 8:25 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by DebG
Chat Icon Chat Icon I just want to say though, that I 100% see the other side of the coin. People use this to abuse the system and feel that certain laws do not pertain to them. THAT is NOT cool.



well sad..... Hhhhhhagain! Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/07 8:27 PM
 

Beth
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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!


Posted by Beth1210


I don't care if you call me on it- I am happy to say that I have a PBA and I use it The Police give them out- so your problem should be with the police not with me for using it

and if that makes me a bad person- then so be it!






Chat Icon where does it say I am "proud" of myself ??????

I was defending myself

I have no problem using a PBA card as long as they are legal






sorry I obviously misinterpreted "happy to say" as "proud"Chat Icon


I didn't say I was happy to say I got out of the ticket- I said I was happy to say I have a PBA card and I use it

big difference- I am not proud that I was speeding- I made that clear in the first post

I techinally I didn't get out of anything yet- I still have to go to court

and considering this is the first time I have ever done this- I am not even sure how it works

I have never had to use my PBA card before- I usually give them to my DH

Message edited 2/23/2007 8:40:07 PM.

Posted 2/23/07 8:34 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

THis is sooo ridiculous!
She did it by accident. She is NOT a criminal. She has a pba card like most of America does and she used it..BIG DEAL!!!

FYI. I have a pba card and will most certianly use it if I have too..Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/07 10:51 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

But guys again... This isn't against Beth. This thread is a repeat. It's happend before. Don't take it so personal.

Posted 2/23/07 10:58 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by june262004

But guys again... This isn't against Beth. This thread is a repeat. It's happend before. Don't take it so personal.



I understand that- but it's gotten way out of control



Message edited 2/23/2007 11:06:15 PM.

Posted 2/23/07 11:04 PM
 

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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by june262004

But guys again... This isn't against Beth. This thread is a repeat. It's happend before. Don't take it so personal.



I understand that- but it's gotten way out of control







Im just saying don't take it to heart Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/07 11:08 PM
 

Beth
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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by june262004

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by june262004

But guys again... This isn't against Beth. This thread is a repeat. It's happend before. Don't take it so personal.



I understand that- but it's gotten way out of control







Im just saying don't take it to heart Chat Icon



I have a thick skin don't worry Chat Icon

I could really care less if people think I am

1- wrong for having a PBA card

2- Speeding on I-95

3- Doing what the officer told me and having my Uncle call him

gang up on me all you want- it's not going to change 1 thing

Posted 2/23/07 11:12 PM
 

june262004
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Re: I got a speeding ticket this morning!

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by june262004

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by june262004

But guys again... This isn't against Beth. This thread is a repeat. It's happend before. Don't take it so personal.



I understand that- but it's gotten way out of control







Im just saying don't take it to heart Chat Icon



I have a thick skin don't worry Chat Icon

I could really care less if people think I am

1- wrong for having a PBA card

2- Speeding on I-95

3- Doing what the officer told me and having my Uncle call him

gang up on me all you want- it's not going to change 1 thing




Ganging up


AHHH FORGET IT Chat Icon

Posted 2/23/07 11:15 PM
 
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