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janet
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I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT* i called Longwood*update on pg 2*
dd has a hard time with her lockers now for 3 year and they help umm not. last year stuff was stollen from did they do anything NOPE not for 3 months this year her pocket book was stolen 2 times from her gym locker again because they refuse to help her NO. also this year a kid was not only drawing all over but hitting her and untill they actuall saw it the did something
now today her pocket book was YET again stolen with her cell , her house keys and her glasses(thank god NO MONEY) and it was a brand new pocketbook i flew up to the school and not only told them I WANT the money i had to foot out for a phone(thank god i had the insurance on it) and the money to get her a temp phone till her new on comes in. i also told the pricpal that i want every girl called down from her gym glas and told unless her pocket book shows up they will suffer iss.
I WANT HER OUT OF THIS SCHOOL AND IN LONGWOOD
ok vent over
Hopfully they will help me in getting her back to a school that will take care of her.
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Posted 5/28/08 5:17 PM |
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
So sorry this is happening!! Is someone bullying her or are they just randomly stealing from her?
Is she making sure her locker is LOCKED?
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Posted 5/28/08 5:20 PM |
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bicosi
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
I am so sorry. It seems like she is being bullied. I would fight to get her pulled and transferred. or at least see if you can homeschool her until you get her transferred. I would also threaten to report it to the news channels!
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Posted 5/28/08 5:23 PM |
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janet
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
she is always getting bullied what they do ummmmmm nothing
as for locking her lock that is the main problem she has for 3 years having problems opening it. i asked to have her use a locker with a key they said NO. they just DO NOT CARE ABOUT THEIR STUDENTS. yet all i hear from all her teacher they wish they had more student like her because of how well behaved she is. yet she get not help in return from the school
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Posted 5/28/08 5:25 PM |
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PreshusSmurf
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
i'm so sorry to hear everything she is going through!
is she leaving her locker unlocked because she is having trouble opening it when she does lock it?
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Posted 5/28/08 5:46 PM |
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
She sounds like she is being targeted by the other girls.
Can they give her another locker with a lock that actually works?
I'd be LIVID if I were you. Make yourself heard and go to that school EVERYDAY if need be. Go over the principal's head if you have to and pay a visit to your district's superintendant.
Good luck!
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Posted 5/28/08 5:48 PM |
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
Posted by janet
she is always getting bullied what they do ummmmmm nothing
as for locking her lock that is the main problem she has for 3 years having problems opening it. i asked to have her use a locker with a key they said NO.
Even if you provided the new lock? Is the issue that they would want to be able to have access if they needed to do a locker search? If so, would they allow it if they had a copy of the key?
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Posted 5/28/08 5:59 PM |
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janet
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
Posted by PreshusSmurf
i'm so sorry to hear everything she is going through!
is she leaving her locker unlocked because she is having trouble opening it when she does lock it?
yes.. plus she can not get from class to class witht he 3 min to carry less. so she carries every book to all her glasses everyday.
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Posted 5/28/08 6:04 PM |
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janet
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
Posted by joenick
She sounds like she is being targeted by the other girls.
Can they give her another locker with a lock that actually works?
I'd be LIVID if I were you. Make yourself heard and go to that school EVERYDAY if need be. Go over the principal's head if you have to and pay a visit to your district's superintendant.
Good luck!
i did go over the principals head and am waiting for a call back from him
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
Posted by joenick
She sounds like she is being targeted by the other girls.
Can they give her another locker with a lock that actually works?
I'd be LIVID if I were you. Make yourself heard and go to that school EVERYDAY if need be. Go over the principal's head if you have to and pay a visit to your district's superintendant.
Good luck!
I agree ! thats terrible
and I agree about calling the news also !
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janet
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Posted by tourist
Posted by janet
she is always getting bullied what they do ummmmmm nothing
as for locking her lock that is the main problem she has for 3 years having problems opening it. i asked to have her use a locker with a key they said NO.
Even if you provided the new lock? Is the issue that they would want to be able to have access if they needed to do a locker search? If so, would they allow it if they had a copy of the key?
that would not be a problem they do come with 2 keys... she showed me her regular locker today (she was able to open it because she was not under stress to open it and it was 100% empty... she has not used it all year
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
Posted by anna
Posted by joenick
She sounds like she is being targeted by the other girls.
Can they give her another locker with a lock that actually works?
I'd be LIVID if I were you. Make yourself heard and go to that school EVERYDAY if need be. Go over the principal's head if you have to and pay a visit to your district's superintendant.
Good luck!
I agree ! thats terrible
and I agree about calling the news also !
i think i just may call the news what an idea thanks for it
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
Janet - she's a special education student, correct? Does she have an IEP? You could get it put in her IEP that she needs a different lock - I've seen it done.
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Posted 5/28/08 6:13 PM |
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
Posted by mrswask
Janet - she's a special education student, correct? Does she have an IEP? You could get it put in her IEP that she needs a different lock - I've seen it done.
yes and i have it on monday the 9th. i have to do it by the phone becasue there is no way to get out of work for a little while that day. oh and trust me it will be brought up. and they say oh well we can't do that, thye say she does not need a shadow for the change of class time she need to deal with it can't they see after 3 years she still can't... i am not asking for all day just a few times throught out the day. between 3rd 6th and 9th period. for now she leaves all her stuff starting tomorrow in the principals office... but come time for the iep that will change.
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
Posted by janet
that would not be a problem they do come with 2 keys... she showed me her regular locker today (she was able to open it because she was not under stress to open it and it was 100% empty... she has not used it all year
I was awful at openning locks too. I'd was the worst at it when I was in a hurry or before a class with a teacher that made me nervous. I can imagine it is even harder for her if she has special needs. I hope you can work something out! Keep trying!
Maybe in the meantime--get a lock & practice with her at home. Maybe after she gets it a few times, time her, so she can get used to doing it under pressure? The #s will be differnt, but maybe it won't make her so nervous.
I'm not a teacher, & I don't know her learning situation, but it's just a thought.
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Posted by tourist
Posted by janet
that would not be a problem they do come with 2 keys... she showed me her regular locker today (she was able to open it because she was not under stress to open it and it was 100% empty... she has not used it all year
I was awful at openning locks too. I'd was the worst at it when I was in a hurry or before a class with a teacher that made me nervous. I can imagine it is even harder for her if she has special needs. I hope you can work something out! Keep trying!
Maybe in the meantime--get a lock & practice with her at home. Maybe after she gets it a few times, time her, so she can get used to doing it under pressure? The #s will be differnt, but maybe it won't make her so nervous.
I'm not a teacher, & I don't know her learning situation, but it's just a thought.
we did that for the past 2 years and still not help. if she is late to calss 3 times she will be put in iss and she is afraid of getting in trouble
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
I would be livid too Janet, If i was you i would call 7 on your side, Do you want to see how fast they will give her a locker with a key and put a end of the bullying and stealing. I'm sorry Kryssy has to deal with this BS.
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Posted by mrswask
Janet - she's a special education student, correct? Does she have an IEP? You could get it put in her IEP that she needs a different lock - I've seen it done.
you have fm
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Posted 5/28/08 6:41 PM |
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
That is just awful that they won't do something to help her What grade is she in? I'm so not looking forward to middle and high school with my son since he also is a special education student and I dread how it's going to go. I hope you get a resolution at your meeting. Push for that shadow, it's unfair that she has to deal with not being able to open the locker and they are doing nothing to accomodate her
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
Janet, as a special ed. teacher, you CAN FIGHT for these things at the CSE meeting. the accommodations you are asking for are so minimal, i don't see how they couldn't accommodate them. i would also make sure you have a parent advocate (the district shoudl provide one---they are fellow parents with a child in special ed. and they help you during the CSE and ask questions you may not have thought of).
i don't know anything about your daughter, but from what I can see, she needs a different lock for her locker AND she needs more time in between classes. no child should have to carry 20 kbs. of books around with them all day. it's not fair. also, not suer if you would find this too restrictive, but perhaps a classroom aide to help her navigate the hallways and/or her locker.
GOOD LUCK! please feel free to FM if you anything.
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
Posted by janet i also told the pricpal that i want every girl called down from her gym glas and told unless her pocket book shows up they will suffer iss.
It's horrible that she is going through this, but the principal can't really threaten the girls in the class. I'd have some of the teachers on here help you draft a memo of requests for the phone conversation, and then stick to your main points (hall time, special lock, etc). Asking for things they cannot legally do (threaten the students that they will suffer if the pocketbook is not returned) kind of weakens your argument.
Are you sure that she wouldn't lose the key if she had a lock with a key during gym class with nothing to carry it?
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Posted 5/28/08 9:21 PM |
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
its a total PITA but you've got to be a squeeky wheel when it comes to adding modifications to her IEP. Do you belong to SEPTA? Do you know who the advocate is? You've got to get together with other parents of Special Ed kids & talk to them about how they got results or who they dealt with in the school. When my DS was that age I was so in their faces, the teachers knew it was easier to do what I said than deal with me flipping. There are state advocates in Albany, the board of education/special ed. Start searching online for phone numbers, call Albany & tell them what nonsense you are going through. Everything contact you have with the school has to be written, sent certified & CC'd to the superintendent & NYS board of education. I know it takes a ton of time & effort but doing things this way lets the district know you'll blow whistles. I've heard of rare occaisionswhen special ed kids can be enrolled in a different district for better services, have you looked into this with Longwood?
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Posted 5/28/08 9:22 PM |
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Re: I HATE WILLIAM FLOYD SCHOOL DISTRICT
My DD has many issues from time to time. I have made good friends with the school social worker, school psychologist, and her guidence couselor. All have helped her with her locker and have handled any issues that she has had...As a Special Education Student they recognize that she needs help in some areas. Ive been fortunate that she has befriended a couple of students that are nice to her and help her from time to time...
I lawyered up when we first moved to this district and my DH is a special ed teacher in a middle school so I know what they can do for her...
I would have something added to her IEP and I would seek out an allie within the school..such as the school social worker.
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Posted by donegal419
Janet, as a special ed. teacher, you CAN FIGHT for these things at the CSE meeting. the accommodations you are asking for are so minimal, i don't see how they couldn't accommodate them. i would also make sure you have a parent advocate (the district shoudl provide one---they are fellow parents with a child in special ed. and they help you during the CSE and ask questions you may not have thought of).
i don't know anything about your daughter, but from what I can see, she needs a different lock for her locker AND she needs more time in between classes. no child should have to carry 20 kbs. of books around with them all day. it's not fair. also, not suer if you would find this too restrictive, but perhaps a classroom aide to help her navigate the hallways and/or her locker.
GOOD LUCK! please feel free to FM if you anything.
ITA.
Another addition might be that she has an extra set of books -- one for home, and one to keep in each of her classes so that she doesn't have to lug them around!
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Posted by Summerrluvv
That is just awful that they won't do something to help her What grade is she in? I'm so not looking forward to middle and high school with my son since he also is a special education student and I dread how it's going to go. I hope you get a resolution at your meeting. Push for that shadow, it's unfair that she has to deal with not being able to open the locker and they are doing nothing to accomodate her
she is in the 8th grade and the high school times i have a feeling will be alot worse... that is another reason i am pushing for to go to longwood
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