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BaroqueMama
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I have a real issue with...

people who post personal relationship issues as their facebook status.
This guy from high school friended me and we kind of knew each other back then, but weren't really friends per say, and every day, the guy has some nasty message about his wife as his status.
I mean, I know that they had a huge fight last night because he stayed out too late, and now I know that they made up, but after long talks and apologies.
I know that she thinks he plays too many video games.
I know all about this guy's relationship and it creeps me out.
I cannot even fathom why anyone would post that information as a status update?
I'm thinking I might unfriend him.Chat Icon

Posted 2/7/10 12:38 PM
 
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saraH
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Re: I have a real issue with...

completely agree. I think your status should be something funny, not something about your personal life.

Posted 2/7/10 12:48 PM
 

luvsbob4603
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Re: I have a real issue with...

I was going to say just unfriend him.

Posted 2/7/10 12:51 PM
 

MorningCuppaCoffee
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Re: I have a real issue with...

I agree.

I can't believe some of the things I see posted on FB.

I think a lot of people just have way too much time on their hands and forget in the heat of the moment that everyone can read their private business.

Posted 2/7/10 12:53 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: I have a real issue with...

I mean, I don't even know this guy's wife, but i feel terrible for her because it's so disrespectful of him to air his dirty laundry about her publicly.
I would die if my husband ever did that. He would die if I ever did that. Some people are just ridiculous. I think I'm going to go unfriend him.

Posted 2/7/10 12:57 PM
 

LI2VA
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Re: I have a real issue with...

who is it Rach???

Posted 2/7/10 1:10 PM
 

Salason

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Re: I have a real issue with...

People are ridiculous... I have a girl in my office who continuously posts about the ABORTION she had (3 wks ago!) and the guy she broke up with which triggered said abortion (side note: he was on parole, no job etc. but for the 1st 11 wks of PG she thought he'd be a dream partner Chat Icon). Talk about personal!!!

Posted 2/7/10 1:16 PM
 

CouponKT
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Re: I have a real issue with...

Posted by mrsv1015

who is it Rach???



yeah - do tell...inquiring minds want to know Chat Icon

Posted 2/7/10 1:17 PM
 

LoveyQ
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Re: I have a real issue with...

Posted by Salason

People are ridiculous... I have a girl in my office who continuously posts about the ABORTION she had (3 wks ago!) and the guy she broke up with which triggered said abortion (side note: he was on parole, no job etc. but for the 1st 11 wks of PG she thought he'd be a dream partner Chat Icon). Talk about personal!!!



Wow, I think this takes the cake for TMI status posts!

Posted 2/7/10 1:34 PM
 

LightUpOurLife
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Re: I have a real issue with...

Geez. I spoke to my niece for saying Sh!t in her status. Chat Icon

Posted 2/7/10 2:09 PM
 

MissJones
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Re: I have a real issue with...

I have a friend and I just hide his posts b/c they are nasty mean.

Posted 2/7/10 2:13 PM
 

LINewbie
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Re: I have a real issue with...

I post personal stuff. Not really dirty laundry though. DH is on my FB so If i did write something about him, he'd see it. I don't b*tch about him behind his back though. I mostly complain about work or the weather rather than him Chat Icon

Posted 2/7/10 2:56 PM
 

Celt
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Re: I have a real issue with...

I have a young, gorgeous, single friend whose posts are ALWAYS about finding love, losing love, hating love, loving love, being ready for love, not looking for love, letting love find you, blahblahblah. OMG every guy we know that reads her stuff is like RUNNING, not walking, the other way!!!!
I have to hide her now, with Valentine's Day approaching she'll be in rare form Chat Icon

Posted 2/7/10 3:01 PM
 

MarathonKnitter
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Re: I have a real issue with...

there are a few people like that, in my family. because they are family, i don't want to deal with unfriending them... so i just hide EVERYTHING they say

but the abortion status... yes, that takes the cake.

Posted 2/7/10 3:18 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: I have a real issue with...

Posted by mrsv1015

who is it Rach???



I fmed youChat Icon

Posted 2/7/10 4:47 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: I have a real issue with...

Posted by Salason

People are ridiculous... I have a girl in my office who continuously posts about the ABORTION she had (3 wks ago!) and the guy she broke up with which triggered said abortion (side note: he was on parole, no job etc. but for the 1st 11 wks of PG she thought he'd be a dream partner Chat Icon). Talk about personal!!!



Oh.My.God. That's a winner right there!

Posted 2/7/10 4:48 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: I have a real issue with...

Posted by LINewbie

I post personal stuff. Not really dirty laundry though. DH is on my FB so If i did write something about him, he'd see it. I don't b*tch about him behind his back though. I mostly complain about work or the weather rather than him Chat Icon



Oh, don't get me wrong, I post personal stuff about me, I complain, I do all that stuff. But it's as if you're sitting in this guy's livingroom in between him and his wife. It's SO awkward!

Posted 2/7/10 4:51 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: I have a real issue with...

Stupid things to write on FB:

Anything bad about your spouse
Anything bad about your in-laws (assuming you love and respect your spouse.
Anything negative about your children

Anything about WORK
Anything about work during work hours.

Seriously. I work with a person who writes really stupid things as her status about how miserable she is at work. She writes about her boss. She writes about the "heifer sitting behind her" and all of this is during work hours. Why not say "Fire me please?"

Posted 2/7/10 5:10 PM
 

DiamondGirl
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Re: I have a real issue with...

Posted by Goldi0218

Stupid things to write on FB:

Anything bad about your spouse
Anything bad about your in-laws (assuming you love and respect your spouse.
Anything negative about your children

Anything about WORK
Anything about work during work hours.

Seriously. I work with a person who writes really stupid things as her status about how miserable she is at work. She writes about her boss. She writes about the "heifer sitting behind her" and all of this is during work hours. Why not say "Fire me please?"



ITA with this!

Posted 2/7/10 5:19 PM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: I have a real issue with...

Posted by Goldi0218

Stupid things to write on FB:

Anything bad about your spouse
Anything bad about your in-laws (assuming you love and respect your spouse.
Anything negative about your children

Anything about WORK
Anything about work during work hours.

Seriously. I work with a person who writes really stupid things as her status about how miserable she is at work. She writes about her boss. She writes about the "heifer sitting behind her" and all of this is during work hours. Why not say "Fire me please?"



Facebook rules to live by!!! In fact, I think you should post them as your statusChat Icon

Posted 2/7/10 5:52 PM
 

Kerie-is-so-very
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Re: I have a real issue with...

Most of the time I would say to keep all of this off facebook but I do have a male facebook friend who looks to the same group of girls for marriage advice a lot. He's fairly recently married and he makes it clear that the adjustment is not easy. I see it as him trying to make it work and he relies on these girls to help him figure things out. He is never disrespectul about his wife but he does come out and say that it's been a rough first year of marriage. There is something about the way he does it that seems very innocent and not malicious.

Message edited 2/8/2010 1:14:49 AM.

Posted 2/8/10 1:14 AM
 

anonttcer
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Re: I have a real issue with...

People need to grow up with the FB crap.
It's gotten out of control the amount of personal Sh!t people think is ok to post about. Chat Icon

Posted 2/8/10 8:52 AM
 

headoverheels
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Re: I have a real issue with...

I agree... my sister does this a lot, but it's about her relationship with me and our family, not her boyfriend. It's embarrassing to have that all out there in public, and even worse to see her friends commenting on how they agree with her. They don't even know the whole story and it is upsetting.

I will occasionally post something about DH that I am "mad" about, but not really, like his snoring, but I'd never post details about our relationship. That's not what FB is for, and it's incredibly rude and demeaning.

Posted 2/8/10 9:21 AM
 

Cheeks24
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Re: I have a real issue with...

Posted by mzsocialworker1

I agree.

I can't believe some of the things I see posted on FB.

I think a lot of people just have way too much time on their hands and forget in the heat of the moment that everyone can read their private business.



Agreed!

Posted 2/8/10 11:13 AM
 

timanda
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Re: I have a real issue with...

I really don't understand what some people are thinking with the crap they write.

I have a fcbk friend who was making snide comments about DH and his family and then I finally accepted her friend request and saw it. And when her friends "Like" her status and agree with it when they have NO idea what its really about p!sses me off. I am having a hard time not saying anything, but it goes back to not airing our family's dirty laundry for practically stranger to see.

Posted 2/8/10 12:18 PM
 
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