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Lanabean
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by johnsae

Posted by LRusso

It's not a race issue...it's a disrespect issue. She hates people who don't just move out of her way.

It's her bad for making that comment....kids are punks.



I have to disagree and say it was racially motivated. If Holla was black it probably would have been a different story.



i see your point...but kids are just such punks, to boot.

Posted 12/11/06 1:44 PM
 
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SweetTooth
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by McSullivan

My ex-step-father used to say, "I hate kids."

As I get older, I understand what he meant.



I totally know what you mean by that!
I think this was a case of a teenager trying to look cool in front of her friends.

Posted 12/11/06 1:44 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by HollaGirl

I would like to say it was not a race issue, but I am afraid it was.



it was



I agree it was

She said I hate F'in White people *** is that ???

Posted 12/11/06 1:44 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by HollaGirl

I would like to say it was not a race issue, but I am afraid it was.



it was




I can not even begin to tell you how pi$$ed off I was. I did NOTHING to this girl, and she tried to get all sassy with me, with her ignorant remark. Now, if I would have walked out, and said, "I hate black people", I would be dead right now. She actually tried walking towards me, and I told her"Bad idea sweetie, REALLY bad".




if you had said "i hate black people" sharpton and his goons would be marching and singing faster than you can say "charles nelson reilly" Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/06 1:44 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by HollaGirl

I would like to say it was not a race issue, but I am afraid it was.



it was




I can not even begin to tell you how pi$$ed off I was. I did NOTHING to this girl, and she tried to get all sassy with me, with her ignorant remark. Now, if I would have walked out, and said, "I hate black people", I would be dead right now. She actually tried walking towards me, and I told her"Bad idea sweetie, REALLY bad".




if you had said "i hate black people" sharpton and his goons would be marching and singing faster than you can say "charles nelson reilly" Chat Icon



or suicide!

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Posted 12/11/06 1:45 PM
 

Jesaroo
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

double standard at its finest.

i know exactly what youre talking about Holla.Chat Icon

sorry she was a punk to you.

Posted 12/11/06 1:46 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

I wish there was something you could have done (with the school, anyway) like she'd need to go for mandatory counseling or something. And she would have to make a formal apology. I'd go there tomorrow and look for her a$$, go to the school and tell them of her actions. I'm wondering if there's something they could dol.

Posted 12/11/06 1:46 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by LaurenExp

I wish there was something you could have done (with the school, anyway) like she'd need to go for mandatory counseling or something. And she would have to make a formal apology. I'd go there tomorrow and look for her a$$, go to the school and tell them of her actions. I'm wondering if there's something they could dol.



If I go there tomorrow, chances are when I park my car, I will come out and have Honky Lips spray painted on the side of my car.

Posted 12/11/06 1:47 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

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Posted 12/11/06 1:48 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

WOW, I would of ran her over with my car....but thats just me Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/06 1:48 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by LaurenExp

I wish there was something you could have done (with the school, anyway) like she'd need to go for mandatory counseling or something. And she would have to make a formal apology. I'd go there tomorrow and look for her a$$, go to the school and tell them of her actions. I'm wondering if there's something they could dol.



If I go there tomorrow, chances are when I park my car, I will come out and have Honky Lips spray painted on the side of my car.



Honky LipsChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Now that would be quite the sightChat Icon

Posted 12/11/06 1:48 PM
 

lovelybride
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by HollaGirl

I would like to say it was not a race issue, but I am afraid it was.



it was




I can not even begin to tell you how pi$$ed off I was. I did NOTHING to this girl, and she tried to get all sassy with me, with her ignorant remark. Now, if I would have walked out, and said, "I hate black people", I would be dead right now. She actually tried walking towards me, and I told her"Bad idea sweetie, REALLY bad".



You should of said it, you had every right too, I bet nothing would have happen, because you came back at her. I hate kids sometimes too, and it's sad to say especially my race of kids, some of them could be soo ignorant at times. I swear my son is not going to be like that AT ALL!!!!

Posted 12/11/06 1:48 PM
 

HollaGirl
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by lovelybride

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by HollaGirl

I would like to say it was not a race issue, but I am afraid it was.



it was




I can not even begin to tell you how pi$$ed off I was. I did NOTHING to this girl, and she tried to get all sassy with me, with her ignorant remark. Now, if I would have walked out, and said, "I hate black people", I would be dead right now. She actually tried walking towards me, and I told her"Bad idea sweetie, REALLY bad".



You should of said it, you had every right too, I bet nothing would have happen, because you came back at her. I hate kids sometimes too, and it's sad to say especially my race of kids, some of them could be soo ignorant at times. I swear my son is not going to be like that AT ALL!!!!




But I dont feel that way, so I could never say it. Chat Icon

And it's every race sweetie, this was just my personal experience. I hate IGNORANT kids, no matter what color they are.

Posted 12/11/06 1:50 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by HollaGirl


If I go there tomorrow, chances are when I park my car, I will come out and have Honky Lips spray painted on the side of my car.



HONKY LIPS!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/06 1:51 PM
 

Jesaroo
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by HollaGirl




But I dont feel that way, so I could never say it. Chat Icon

And it's every race sweetie, this was just my personal experience. I hate IGNORANT kids, no matter what color they are.



word

Posted 12/11/06 1:52 PM
 

lovelybride
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by lovelybride

Posted by HollaGirl

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by HollaGirl

I would like to say it was not a race issue, but I am afraid it was.



it was




I can not even begin to tell you how pi$$ed off I was. I did NOTHING to this girl, and she tried to get all sassy with me, with her ignorant remark. Now, if I would have walked out, and said, "I hate black people", I would be dead right now. She actually tried walking towards me, and I told her"Bad idea sweetie, REALLY bad".



You should of said it, you had every right too, I bet nothing would have happen, because you came back at her. I hate kids sometimes too, and it's sad to say especially my race of kids, some of them could be soo ignorant at times. I swear my son is not going to be like that AT ALL!!!!




But I dont feel that way, so I could never say it. Chat Icon

And it's every race sweetie, this was just my personal experience. I hate IGNORANT kids, no matter what color they are.



True, but sometimes I think they are the worst. lol

Posted 12/11/06 1:53 PM
 

HollaGirl
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

And this is the car that FIRST had honky lips written on it.


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Posted 12/11/06 1:54 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

It is things like this that make me not want to have kids.....its sad but true. You can only hope that you raise your kids right and teach them respect, but when they are out there with other kids who aren't a good influence...thats what happens. They are all followers nowadays....no one is a leader anymore. I doubt she would have said that in front of her mother! Its the "bad seeds" they hang out with. Kids are such punks today!

Posted 12/11/06 1:54 PM
 

LisaW
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

I had something similar happen to me once years ago...

I was taking a shortcut home through Wyandanch/Wheatley Heights and my car broke down...

This was before I had a cell phone...

I was on a corner by a house with about 6 teenage AA girls hanging out.

They started screaming at me...HEY WHITE GIRL, car broke down??? Ha ha ha...HEY WHITE GIRL, wanna use the phone...NOT!!! LOOK AT THE WHITE GIRL SITTING ALL ALONE...etc, etc.

I seriously couldn't believe it. Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/06 1:55 PM
 

steph4777
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by LRusso

It's not a race issue...it's a disrespect issue. She hates people who don't just move out of her way.

It's her bad for making that comment....kids are punks.



I agree.... Her cussing at you has nothing to do with you being white (although I think it might have been icing on the cake). It's sad bc many kids just don't have respect for adults anymore.

DH is subbing at a predominantly black HS and he said most of this kids are like this and will curse at any adult - black or white.

Posted 12/11/06 1:56 PM
 

Kate07
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Black, white, orange, yellow, or green - I would have thrown the hot coffee right at her (of course safely from my car window). Chat Icon

Posted 12/11/06 2:01 PM
 

Jesaroo
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

i have to strongly disagree with all of you who say its not a race thing.


maybe it didnt start out as a race issue but once she spoke the words "I f*&^ing hate white people" it BECAME a race thing.


just like that Fat Nick thing (bad example, but im using it) he beat up a black guy and used RACIAL terms so it then BECAME a hate crime......

once you say something about someones race, religionl, sexual orientation, IT IS a race, creed, sexual orientation issue!!!!!!!!!!!!

plain and simple.


just like if Holla said to the girl first, "i f*&$ing hate black people" it would then be a racial thing!


if she didnt say anything about Hollas RACE then it would not be a racial comment, but she obviously DID and i cant understand how anyone would still say its not a racial thing.

is it a disrespectful issue, sure is. its both!

Message edited 12/11/2006 2:02:24 PM.

Posted 12/11/06 2:01 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by johnsae

Posted by LRusso

It's not a race issue...it's a disrespect issue. She hates people who don't just move out of her way.

It's her bad for making that comment....kids are punks.



I have to disagree and say it was racially motivated. If Holla was black it probably would have been a different story.

.

I agree, and say it was a race thing as well.

That's just redicoulous.

Posted 12/11/06 2:03 PM
 

Libragal07
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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

i have to strongly disagree with all of you who say its not a race thing.


maybe it didnt start out as a race issue but once she spoke the words "I f*&^ing hate white people" it BECAME a race thing.


just like that Fat Nick thing (bad example, but im using it) he beat up a black guy and used RACIAL terms so it then BECAME a hate crime......

once you say something about someones race, religionl, sexual orientation, IT IS a race, creed, sexual orientation issue!!!!!!!!!!!!

plain and simple.


just like if Holla said to the girl first, "i f*&$ing hate black people" it would then be a racial thing!


if she didnt say anything about Hollas RACE then it would not be a racial comment, but she obviously DID and i cant understand how anyone would still say its not a racial thing.

is it a disrespectful issue, sure is. its both!



100% accurate

Posted 12/11/06 2:03 PM
 

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Re: I have been holding this in all day

Sorry that you have to endure such nasty, direspectful, and pathetic behavior. That is so despicable and nasty of her. She deserves a smack across her mouth for her filthy words.

Posted 12/11/06 2:04 PM
 
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