Re: I need some support here.

Rachel I know how you feel. We had to move home with my parents for only 2-3 months in between our apartment and our house. It was not an easy adjustment. I know you guys did it before but I know if Frankie had to do it again now having our daughter it would be even harder than it was the first time. He is a FATHER now and feels like he has to provide for his family. Men can be pig headed and stubborn when it comes to the obvious when it's right in front of them. We always joke that Frankie takes the slow long road for everything. You have until June hopefully between now and then JT will see the light. But try not to make yourself sick worrying about it until the time gets closer.

I can also tell you there was a time after our DD was born that my DH swore he would never want anymore kids. Today he talked about having baby #2. So there is hope.

Re: I need some support here.

All I can say is thank god my parents had a 2 family house and allowed us to live in the apt with very little rent. It enabled us to save for a house. It sounds like a good plan to me. Sometimes you have to put your pride aside and just do it. I wasn't crazy about living above my parents (even w/ a seperate entrance). Good Luck!