if you could have a holiday wish granted, but it wasn't for yourself...

....what would it be?


and for fun, is there anything you could wish for a fellow LIFer?

I really hope that the girls on the infertility boards get positive lines. I read those boards and keep my fingers crossed for them all.

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That DH's grandfather is cancer free

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That everyone is exactly where they want to be and with who they want to be with for the holidays, in good health with good cheer.

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Two amazing friends of mine are dealing with IF, I would love to grant them both their wish to be mothers.

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i would want to put a enf to the ttc after mc board and the if board and everyone gets knocked up all at once...

i also would love to see my mother walk again and would love to see my autistic niece speak..even if it was just once..i know my sister would just love to hear mom from her

alli really wish is that whatever anyone's wish may be just that it coems true

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That my very best friend gets custody of her daughter back. After 11 years of fighting she totally deserves her back in her life full time.

For LIF, I wish that the IF girls didn't have to be on that board. I was on that board, I know how it hurts. I would give my last wish for them to never have to feel the pain on IF and instead the joy of motherhood.

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I would wish for my father to be alive again so that I could see my mom really smile and embrace life once again!

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I would wish for my dad to never have served in Vietnam and therefore he would not have to deal with the physical pain that has come from it.

And yes, there are some women on the IF and relationship board that I think about. I wish for happiness for the ladies who have walked some tough miles.

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Even if I had one wish for myself, it would be the same wish. More than anything, I would want my sister in law to get better.

For LIF, I wish for a cure for cancer for the posters that are suffering personally or suffering by seeing a loved one go through it.

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I would love for my sister to get pregnant.

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I wish kids never had to go through the bad things I hear happen to them on TV and the news

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For my father to be worry free and sit on his butt and do nothing, worry about no one, and just RELAX for one day.. just ONE day. NO arguments, no step mother nagging him, no children nit picking him, no community leaning on him, no midnight calls to the police department to translate for a drunk Mexican, no jumping when he hears a siren because he's on ambulance call.


I want my dad to sit on his fat butt, eat bad food, watch TV and listen to Beatle Music and I know it would make him most happy to do all that while my brother and I sang and he was playing guitar with my brother while my daughter spun and danced while giggling for grandpa.

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I wish that my clients and families have a happy and fulfilling holiday......I would also wish that my sister would get her head out of her azzz and stop tearing my family apart

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For my Dad to be able to eat properly again.
he was a total foodie and wine connoisseur before his throat cancer & while he is so lucky to be alive he cannot taste most things and he has major trouble swallowing

for LIF I wish EVERYONE could rise above pettiness and fighting and just kind to each other for the holiday season and beyond.

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I would want my Mom to be rid of cancer and for my grandparents to be alive again.

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For DH to find a job!!!

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I would want my dad to be sitting at the table for thanksgiving tomorrow and not laying in a coma in a hospital bed.

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to have my mom back and for the new thyroid meds to kick in already that will help her after 4 long years on misery... i miss her non depressed and free of anxiety and so does the rest of my family
I want her to start enjoying life again.

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I would wish that my aunt who lost her husband could talk to him just one more time.

As for a LIF wish, there is a poster on parenting board, can't remember her name but her DS has cancer, so I would wish for him to be cancer free.

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I wish my mom could be alive again. That she could spend thanksgiving one last time with her family and the granddaughter she never got to meet

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Reading all of these are making me tear up. My wish is that all your wishes would come true

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That my children always be healthy (as in no major diseases or disabilities) and happy. It worries me to death how things can change so quickly (thinking of Erica's son!).

And to see my mom truly happy and worry free.

I know that's two, but just wishful thinking.