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Diana1215
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If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
I am thisclose to losing my mind. The anxiety is enough to drive me crazy on most days. I never wanted a drink so badly in my life. If only I smoked cigarettes I feel that everything would be alright in the world - lol. I imagine the relief on people's faces who smoke. Maybe I should start now LMAO!
I AM LOSING MY MIND! Even this post is making me sound like a crazy person LOL.
I know I am not alone - so please come in and tell me that! 
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chikita315
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
You are NOT alone
I'm on 2.5 hours sleep, commuted 1.5 hours this morning and have a work event tonight.
I may drink myselft to selep at my desk.
ETA: 2.5 hours sleep because my 2 yo woke up beckoning me at 230AM that he wanted to watch TV 
When I say beckoning, I mean screaming TOP of his lungs, MAMA - TV
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:11 PM |
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Peainapod
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
yeah..you're not alone. there are days im home with DS i have no idea how moms do it every day of the week. I dont know how I would manage two.
my neighbor has 4..all 9 and under...her 2nd youngest started pre-k, so now she has 2 kids inschool full time and a 8 mo old and 2 year old at home.
I do not want to be her.
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:15 PM |
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Rycois
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
What time does DH get home at night Diana? I think you deserve a childfree hour or two every night from the second he walks in the door 
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:16 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Posted by SweetCaroline
What time does DH get home at night Diana? I think you deserve a childfree hour or two every night from the second he walks in the door
He gets home around 6:30 - 7 and he's great about playing with the kids - but you know how it is, I have to clean the house, fold the laundry, last night I was at Stop and Shop until 10pm.
It's ironic that there aren't enough hours in the day - but yet some days I feel are neverending
I am lucky in that the tantrums haven't been as torturous lately, it's really just craziness surrounding Tyler. He puts everything in his mouth. He's a complete daredevil. He runs - but isn't 1000% steady on his feet yet. It's just a big old mess here somedays!
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:18 PM |
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nferrandi
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
I have days where I would like to bash my own head against a concrete wall, so you are NOT alone.
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:24 PM |
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Deedlebugs
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
OMG I'm losing. I really think I'm going to start smoking again just so I can hide somewhere and smoke LOL. I think that is the reason I originally started smoking, so I could get work breaks. I have to tell you, my boss back then had NOTHING on Nina.
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:32 PM |
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JenBenMen
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Diana
I was working from home yesterday and Carlo was there
complete lunatic!!
I went in my bedroom for 2 minutes and I came back to find him on top of the kitchen table!!!
i would go nutty with him all day
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:33 PM |
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Diana1215
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Diana
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Posted by Deedlebugs
OMG I'm losing. I really think I'm going to start smoking again just so I can hide somewhere and smoke LOL. I think that is the reason I originally started smoking, so I could get work breaks. I have to tell you, my boss back then had NOTHING on Nina.
MY GOD - I say the same thing about my abusive boss. Working for him was like a day in Disney, looking back now.
These kids are hard work. They are Nonstop. Into everything. Pee. Poop. Blood. Food. Falling. Yelling. Crying. Just a few things that take place here every hour or so. 
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:35 PM |
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Diana1215
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Posted by JenBenMen
Diana
I was working from home yesterday and Carlo was there
complete lunatic!!
I went in my bedroom for 2 minutes and I came back to find him on top of the kitchen table!!!
i would go nutty with him all day
Yes, this is how I feel all day long with Tyler. I can't turn my back for a second. If I do the kid is diving face first eating dog food. It has gotten to the point where James just lets him eat it now  Jack is obsessed with puzzles, and Tyler is obsessed with eating them. Can you only imagine my fun on a daily basis?
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:36 PM |
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Deedlebugs
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Posted by Diana1215
Posted by Deedlebugs
OMG I'm losing. I really think I'm going to start smoking again just so I can hide somewhere and smoke LOL. I think that is the reason I originally started smoking, so I could get work breaks. I have to tell you, my boss back then had NOTHING on Nina.
MY GOD - I say the same thing about my abusive boss. Working for him was like a day in Disney, looking back now.
These kids are hard work. They are Nonstop. Into everything. Pee. Poop. Blood. Food. Falling. Yelling. Crying. Just a few things that take place here every hour or so.
This is one of the reasons that DH is getting snipped next month. I give you so much credit for wanting #3 LOL
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:37 PM |
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JennZ
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
OMG you are so NOT alone. This week has been HELL. I actually smoke and have been a chimney these last few days. Ds is a lunatic dh has a major project rolling out tomorrow (thank god)and working way more hours than usual and my hot water heater blew yesterday two hours before i had my stupid jewlery party. So, my mind is mush. Its a wonder i dont drink more and more often. I went outside yesterday mid day for ten minutes just so I wouldn't go to jail and then have you all (lif) collectivly bash me saying "i knew she was nuts all along"
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:38 PM |
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Diana1215
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Diana
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Posted by Deedlebugs
Posted by Diana1215
Posted by Deedlebugs
OMG I'm losing. I really think I'm going to start smoking again just so I can hide somewhere and smoke LOL. I think that is the reason I originally started smoking, so I could get work breaks. I have to tell you, my boss back then had NOTHING on Nina.
MY GOD - I say the same thing about my abusive boss. Working for him was like a day in Disney, looking back now.
These kids are hard work. They are Nonstop. Into everything. Pee. Poop. Blood. Food. Falling. Yelling. Crying. Just a few things that take place here every hour or so.
This is one of the reasons that DH is getting snipped next month. I give you so much credit for wanting #3 LOL
Like I said, I truly think I am losing my mind. Going full on crazy!!!!
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CrankyPants
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
I'm there with you!
Kids aren't sleeping well at night anymore, DH and I are up every couple of hours-it's enough already.
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NervousNell
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Oh yes I felt like that every single day for the first 8 weeks of her life!
I kept thinking- what the heck did we do?
I really thought I was going to lose my mind or end up in mental hospital.
There were days I didn't shower, didn't get dressed. It was bad.
And that was with just one.
Can't imagine with two!
I'm embarrased to say that I look forward to coming to work some days.
Because it's quiet here... quiet compared to a screaming baby that is!
I need to add that I drink. Daily.
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:40 PM |
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Diana1215
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Diana
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
One of my bosses just woke up, break time is over  
So happy to know I'm not the only crazy out there
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| Posted 9/14/10 3:43 PM |
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4PsInaPod
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Zumba tonight?
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nferrandi
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
And just for the record, DH and I actually quit smoking as of yesterday. And thank God Luca started school yesterday, because if I had both of them to myself all day long and I couldn't smoke, I might hang myself off the deck.
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dajc23
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Ugh yes. DD has been such a handful the last 2 weeks. IDK what's going on.
She went from not sleeping, to the best sleeper, to sleeping worse than before. Her naps are non-existant AGAIN  and all she does is whine and whine all day.
Driving home earlier today she cried blood curdling screams for 20 mins. She was choking and gagging she was crying so hard. I brought her in he house to give her a bottle and put her down for a nap. she just cried, drank then was wide awake
I think she's napped a total of 1 hr in the last 3 days
So naturally i get no work done
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Annie91606
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Yes-I feel your pain.
My 2 year old was sick for several days, fever and miserable. I felt so bad that there was little I could do to make him feel better. He started preschool today and cried when we dropped him off. The teacher said he calmed down and did great- but it was draining to see him so upset.
My 4 month old cut a tooth and has another one on the way. When he is awake, he is miserable and crying no matter what we do.
DH smokes and I am jealous. I quit 5 years ago. I told him I should get smoke breaks even though I no longer smoke. I have anxiety a lot of days.
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Blissful
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Same here! My sweet little girl is now nicknamed the tazmanian devil. My stress level is so high its not funny!
The guys at the wine store know me VERY WELL 
People keep asking me when I'm having another one 
ARE THEY OUT OF THEIR FREAKIN MIND???
I'm soooooooo there!
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| Posted 9/14/10 4:28 PM |
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JoJo2010
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOO THERE!!!!!!
Between DS NOT STTN.
Just bought a house, trying to get all the people in there to do the work.
Have to be OUT of our place by Oct. 1st.
Still havent started packing and have a 5 month old, this is the last weekend we have to pack and I have nobody to watch DS!!! Thank god my sister can take him for 2 hours and my BFF is gonna come and help me out
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| Posted 9/14/10 4:31 PM |
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jmf423
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
Me! Me!
I haven't smoked in 10 yrs yet there are days I would give anything for a cigarette!!!!
Right now, my living room and kitchen look like they have been ransacked!!!!!!
And my DH is never home before the kids go to bed. The rare night he is home before 9pm I run out the second he gets home! I am a regular at Kohls and Target at 10pm b/c nowhere else is open! LOL
Just before I was going to crazy I put the babies in their cribs and told DS I was going in my room for a time out!!!
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| Posted 9/14/10 4:31 PM |
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Kissy331
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
You are so not alone! Today is my first day home with both boys all alone & so far it's been ok but I am exhausted. I was falling asleep on the floor while playing iwith JJ. To top things off, DH & I are fighting about stupid petty stuff & now i find out he is working until 9pm tonight
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| Posted 9/14/10 4:34 PM |
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Reese1106
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Re: If you have almost hit your breaking point come in
You're definitely not alone. Between Ben's 3 year old temper tantrums and Ethan thinking he can walk on air (climbs on the couch, stands up, walks to the edge and KEEPS GOING!), I really do think a nice padded room would do wonders for my state of mind sometimes.
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