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maybebaby
LIF Adult
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Maureen
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If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
...and then you sent your child to daycare instead b/c your mom was complaining...
and they wrote "my granddaughter started daycare today. I cried for a second but then did the happy dance when she left. Now enjoying my bagel and coffee!!"
Wouldn't you be so hurt?
My poor cousin. It's her daughter...her mom (my aunt) is just odd to begin with. she always makes people feel like they are burdening her. It just stinks that she wrote that. My cousins baby is so stinkin sweet too...
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Posted 3/14/11 9:27 AM  |
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BethanyLynn
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Bethany
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
Definintely! Not cool
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:29 AM |
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justpeachy
LIF Adolescent
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Joanne
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
Thats rude and very hurtful! 
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:30 AM |
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Momma2Be
Mommy of an angel
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Dina
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
I would definitely be a little annoyed. I know she probably didn't mean it maliciously but it's still hurtful.
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:31 AM |
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maybebaby
LIF Adult
Member since 11/05 6870 total posts
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Maureen
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
Posted by BethanyLynn
Definintely! Not cool
It just stinks especially since my cousin was having her mom help because they really really needed the extra money and the mom said she'd help twice a week. Which was great. (my cousin is a nurse who WAS doing all night shifts so this enabled her to get a bit of a break).
I know her daughter is in better hands anyway at daycare and will thrive there PT. But for her own grandma to write that to EVERYONE on facebook..i just thought that was hurtful.
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:32 AM |
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Ian&EmmesMommy23
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Diana
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
thats messed up. if my mom wrote that i would have said something like...sorry my daughter is such a burden to you...enjoy your bagel. but thats just me 
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:32 AM |
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Tine73
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
O
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So uncalled for....That's something you keep to yourself. I hope someone calls her out on that.
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:33 AM |
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maybebaby
LIF Adult
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Maureen
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
Posted by Momma2Be
I would definitely be a little annoyed. I know she probably didn't mean it maliciously but it's still hurtful.
You're right, i don't think it was malicious. Just not worded very nicely or well thought out.
And I just think of myself..I am pretty sensitive. If my mom wrote that she was doing the happy dance that her time was done watching my child i'd just feel sad.
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:33 AM |
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TreAnt427
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
I can understand people enjoying the peace and quiet when a baby isn't around, but to say you did the happy dance b/c you're granddaughter left is a bit odd and rude since she posted it where her daughter would see it. 
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:33 AM |
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BethanyLynn
Love these munchkins
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Bethany
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
Posted by maybebaby
Posted by BethanyLynn
Definintely! Not cool
It just stinks especially since my cousin was having her mom help because they really really needed the extra money and the mom said she'd help twice a week. Which was great. (my cousin is a nurse who WAS doing all night shifts so this enabled her to get a bit of a break).
I know her daughter is in better hands anyway at daycare and will thrive there PT. But for her own grandma to write that to EVERYONE on facebook..i just thought that was hurtful.
It is..your poor cousin. You are right, the baby is probably better of in daycare since her grandma obvioulsy though it was too much for her.
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:33 AM |
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NervousNell
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..being a mommy and being a wife!
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
People need to grow up with the Facebook shyt.
Really- how old is this woman?
She needs to post every thought in her head on FB?
Grow up.
You don't have to put every thought that crosses your mind on Facebook- especially hurtful things like that.
Message edited 3/14/2011 9:43:13 AM.
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:39 AM |
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bicosi
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
That is just plain HORRIBLE!!!! I am so sorry! Tell your cousin to print out that facebook status and let it serve as a reminder that her daughter is in much better hands and that having her at daycare will be better all around! 
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:40 AM |
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Dani77
It's FUN to be ONE
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Danicia
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
Wow! That's unreal!
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:41 AM |
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ali120206
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
I would be crushed if the person watching my child, relative or not, posted that.
It makes it worse that it's the kid's grandma - and they volunteered to do it!
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:45 AM |
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saraH
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
What?? I'm assuming there is more to this, but if my mom or mil said that I'd be pizzed. That sucks.
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:47 AM |
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jambalady
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Holly
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
I would be beyond hurt & pizzed. It would take a whole lot for me to get over that.
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:53 AM |
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Diane
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
yes
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:55 AM |
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maybebaby
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Member since 11/05 6870 total posts
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Maureen
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
Posted by saraH
What?? I'm assuming there is more to this, but if my mom or mil said that I'd be pizzed. That sucks.
No, honestly there is nothing more. She has three daughters and they all have different relationships i guess but nothing "bad" per se.
She had been laid off from her job. My cousin needed help so she took on watching this baby 2 times/week AND they paid her a little bit.
I am not close to this aunt (actually not close with my dads whole family) BUT i am close with my cousins if that makes sense. They are great girls from a weird family (which i'm part of too in a way although i don't speak to most of them)
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:58 AM |
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maybebaby
LIF Adult
Member since 11/05 6870 total posts
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Maureen
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
Posted by NervousNell
People need to grow up with the Facebook shyt.
Really- how old is this woman?
She needs to post every thought in her head on FB?
Grow up.
You don't have to put every thought that crosses your mind on Facebook- especially hurtful things like that.
She is 55.
And my mom JUST wrote me and goes "ugh, what is wrong with that woman??? Keep some thoughts in your head!!" lol
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| Posted 3/14/11 9:58 AM |
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
I'd write on my FB page today, "DC had the best day at school today. Lots of kids her age and has the best teachers. I think this was the best thing we ever did for her"
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| Posted 3/14/11 10:02 AM |
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Domino
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
that's just mean...and sounds exactly like what my mom would/will post when I put DS in daycare p/t as soon as I get my ducks in a row. Its nice that many are giving the benefit of the doubt, but I can assure you that my mom is just mean. She complains when she watches him but then would be annoyed and take it personally if I had someone else watch him and would post that to be vindictive.
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| Posted 3/14/11 10:05 AM |
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MarisaK
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
I am obviously the exception - but that wouldn't bother me at all -
I think it's STUPID to post it on FB, but if were my Mom I wouldn't be mad or hurt -
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| Posted 3/14/11 10:07 AM |
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MayBbaby21
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
Wow! I'd be so hurt if I read that.
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| Posted 3/14/11 10:07 AM |
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jmf423
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
I would be very hurt.
Even if that is how she feels and wants to tell her friends....to put it on FB for all to see if just a complete disregard for her daughters feelings.
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| Posted 3/14/11 10:08 AM |
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eroxgirl
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Re: If your child was watched PT by your mom...(facebook related)
I hope someone calls her out on her page. I would (not if it was my mother, but if it was anyone else, definitely). What an a$$! 
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| Posted 3/14/11 10:14 AM |
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