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Linda1003
love my 2 boys
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Linda
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Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
When Im not around John and DH, for the most part, play soooo nicely..no whining..no fighting...
I went downstairs bc I felt bad that dh had john for about an hour... DH was sitting on the couch and DS way laying on his stomach coloring@
I could NEVER get john to do that...when they are outside together.. I peaked out the window while in the shower the other day.. JOhn was sweeping the deck nice and quietly with daddy?
with me.. whiny...wants to do everything he isn't suppose to do...ugg always seems like a fight!!!
Granted..daddy def lets him do things mommy wouldn't..but really?? sitting quitely coloring while dh watches tv..NEVER happen if I were in the room....
If If I then JOIN them.. he gets up grabs my fingers to go somewhere..
Not sure If im making sense...but anyway....anyone else have this experience? And do I take it personally...how do I fix it?
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Posted 5/24/11 10:03 AM  |
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maymama
my little loves
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
yep  jack is always up my asssss, attached to my leg, whining, wanting me to hold him, wanting to climb etc etc etc
last night, i was cooking dinner and larry was laying on the floor watching tv. next thing i know, jack climbs into his chair and lays next to larry to watch tv (the very same chair that he screams about sitting in, in the morning)... he sat there for 30 minutes watching tv with daddy. would NEVER happen with me.
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| Posted 5/24/11 10:13 AM |
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BethanyLynn
Love these munchkins
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Bethany
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
Posted by Linda1003
When Im not around John and DH, for the most part, play soooo nicely..no whining..no fighting...
I went downstairs bc I felt bad that dh had john for about an hour... DH was sitting on the couch and DS way laying on his stomach coloring@
I could NEVER get john to do that...when they are outside together.. I peaked out the window while in the shower the other day.. JOhn was sweeping the deck nice and quietly with daddy?
with me.. whiny...wants to do everything he isn't suppose to do...ugg always seems like a fight!!!
Granted..daddy def lets him do things mommy wouldn't..but really?? sitting quitely coloring while dh watches tv..NEVER happen if I were in the room....
If If I then JOIN them.. he gets up grabs my fingers to go somewhere..
Not sure If im making sense...but anyway....anyone else have this experience? And do I take it personally...how do I fix it?
Once again..same kid! 
All weekend its "Daddy Daddy Daddy"- cuddling and kisses..I come home from work and she runs away from me, squirms to get down and whines all night!
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| Posted 5/24/11 10:15 AM |
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dajc23
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
Yup...Emerson spends the day whining, wanting to be held, doesnt sleep, doesnt want to go in the car, doesnt behave in stores etc. for ME.
But when daddy is there, forget it. It's like someone flips a switch and shes the perfect angel. She plays nice, she laughs, talks, walks with him to the car (yet I have to carry her) goes in her seat with no issues, will go in her stroller with no prob etc.
its so annoying lol
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| Posted 5/24/11 10:17 AM |
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JennZ
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
Yep.
Im the bad cop
Dh is good cop.
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| Posted 5/24/11 10:17 AM |
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EricaAlt
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Erica
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
Posted by BethanyLynn
Posted by Linda1003
When Im not around John and DH, for the most part, play soooo nicely..no whining..no fighting...
I went downstairs bc I felt bad that dh had john for about an hour... DH was sitting on the couch and DS way laying on his stomach coloring@
I could NEVER get john to do that...when they are outside together.. I peaked out the window while in the shower the other day.. JOhn was sweeping the deck nice and quietly with daddy?
with me.. whiny...wants to do everything he isn't suppose to do...ugg always seems like a fight!!!
Granted..daddy def lets him do things mommy wouldn't..but really?? sitting quitely coloring while dh watches tv..NEVER happen if I were in the room....
If If I then JOIN them.. he gets up grabs my fingers to go somewhere..
Not sure If im making sense...but anyway....anyone else have this experience? And do I take it personally...how do I fix it?
Once again..same kid!
All weekend its "Daddy Daddy Daddy"- cuddling and kisses..I come home from work and she runs away from me, squirms to get down and whines all night!
Ugh! We all have the same kid!! Mason is an angel for DH. 
He's also an angel for the grandparents. More so for my IL's b/c they don't see him as much and my parents watch him every Friday.
Once Mason wasn't doing the right thing with DH. DH told him not to do it a few times so he started to have a tantrum. I was close to them and Mason actually reached out to hit me!  I didn't even do anything, but he takes his aggression out on mommy. 
Daddy can't do wrong. Even when we pull up at the house and he just sees daddy's car it's "Daddy! Daddy!"
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| Posted 5/24/11 10:20 AM |
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cinnabon
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
Aaron will entertain himself for dh. I have to play with him at all times. Drives me nuts!
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| Posted 5/24/11 10:21 AM |
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LoveyQ
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
DS is generally the same temperament wise with either DH or with me, but we also have a general similar attitude about how we deal with DS and what we do when we're with him alone. BUT, DS still plays differently with each of us and he definitely thinks Daddy is hilarious and more fun than Mommy
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| Posted 5/24/11 10:25 AM |
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Linda1003
love my 2 boys
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Linda
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
Phew.....so glad it's not just me and something im doing wrong!
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| Posted 5/24/11 10:31 AM |
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brassmunky
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
i was just complaining about the very same thing moments ago.
he is super whiny with me, and not dh.
so annoying.
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| Posted 5/24/11 11:14 AM |
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JoJo2010
Happy Family
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JO
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
DS will sit on DH's lap and watch TV. He has NEVER done this with me!
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| Posted 5/24/11 11:19 AM |
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sj-girl
Happy Family of 4
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
Travis does the same thing, he is so much more calmer with Dh.
But is he falls, gets a bump, etc he only wants me
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| Posted 5/24/11 11:21 AM |
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Linda1003
love my 2 boys
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Linda
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Re: Is your child TOTALLY different with you then with DH?
wow so many with the same issue.. I wonder why?
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| Posted 5/24/11 11:23 AM |
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