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lilqtny
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Kelly Clarkson
Honestly, I've been super shamed for being "too skinny" and now I'm being told by certain people here that "it's not that bad" or "can't compare to" the shaming overweight people experience. Shaming in general is wrong and doesn't need to be further exacerbated by being told it's not too bad. That's like saying a little bullying is okay. It's not. Period. I don't want to be told that just because it is socially more acceptable to be thin that my problems aren't bad.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by lilqtny
And "you can not tell me" tp that the body shaming I experience and problems I've encountered with it don't compare to people who are overweight.
. Thanks so much for commenting. People who haven't experienced thin shaming have no right to invalidate the experiences of others. So disrespectful.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
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Posted by lilqtny
And "you can not tell me" tp that the body shaming I experience and problems I've encountered with it don't compare to people who are overweight.
. Thanks so much for commenting. People who haven't experienced thin shaming have no right to invalidate the experiences of others. So disrespectful.
I agree, pretty dumb in my opinion. I've been on both sides, I gained a lot of weight and always got the comments of how fat I got. Then I went crazy exercising and lost a ton of weight and people were asking around to see if I was on drugs. You can't win some times.
But the double standard on this board runs deep. Just say whatever you want! Lol!
As far as Kelly, her dress is ugly and makes her look frumpy. Hairstyle, is not my style so I don't like it. I imagine if I had a kid this is what I would look like because I gain weight so easily. She's short right? I know 10 lbs makes me look like i gianed 20 it sucks.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
I LOVE her ..........but she has TERRIBLE style. She always has, thin, or not - she never ever dresses for her body type.
And I hate her hair/makeup.
This is also, a bad angle.
Botom line, the girl can SING ......and at the end of the day, THAT is her job.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by MrsA1012
Posted by lilqtny
And "you can not tell me" tp that the body shaming I experience and problems I've encountered with it don't compare to people who are overweight.
. Thanks so much for commenting. People who haven't experienced thin shaming have no right to invalidate the experiences of others. So disrespectful.
very true. i've been told countless number of times that i should eat a hamburger & i have actually had people ask me if im anorexic. im f*cking skinny, i was born with slim genes and i have a fast metabolism.... but oh ok lets make her fee like shit because of that
skinny or overweight it goes both ways and has the same emotional effect
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by Palebride
I think she looks great! Sure, it's not the best angle....but she's not stick thin and she's not afraid to wear bright, fun colors.....I love that about her!
She's setting a wonderful example for young girls when she is willing to embrace her shape and not hide because she's not model thin. Good for her!
And I think it's a cute dress!
Agreed! And I love how happy she always seems!
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by Snoopy36
Posted by MrsA1012
Posted by lilqtny
And "you can not tell me" tp that the body shaming I experience and problems I've encountered with it don't compare to people who are overweight.
. Thanks so much for commenting. People who haven't experienced thin shaming have no right to invalidate the experiences of others. So disrespectful.
very true. i've been told countless number of times that i should eat a hamburger & i have actually had people ask me if im anorexic. im f*cking skinny, i was born with slim genes and i have a fast metabolism.... but oh ok lets make her fee like shit because of that skinny or overweight it goes both ways and has the same emotional effect
it's totally inappropriate - but it's b/c we're all just freaking jealous. I completely understand your POV being a thin person and dealing w/ people's comments about your size, and I agree, it's rude to comment on ANYONE's size, small or large ......but, when the societal belief is that 'thin is beautiful' I have to agree that calling someone out for being 'fat' isn't the same as calling someone out for being thin -
because, while I agree as a thin person those comments may make you JUST as upset and uncomfortable, which is why they are inappropriate, 9 times out of 10, they are not TRYING to hurt you .........
When you call someone out for being overweight, the intention is to embarass, or hurt them ..........when you call someone out for being thin it's more out of envy - again, NOT that it's right, but because the intention behind one is malicious, I do think one is worse..........
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by MarisaK
I LOVE her ..........but she has TERRIBLE style. She always has, thin, or not - she never ever dresses for her body type.
And I hate her hair/makeup.
This is also, a bad angle.
Botom line, the girl can SING ......and at the end of the day, THAT is her job.
Completely agree.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by MarisaK
Posted by Snoopy36
Posted by MrsA1012
Posted by lilqtny
And "you can not tell me" tp that the body shaming I experience and problems I've encountered with it don't compare to people who are overweight.
. Thanks so much for commenting. People who haven't experienced thin shaming have no right to invalidate the experiences of others. So disrespectful.
very true. i've been told countless number of times that i should eat a hamburger & i have actually had people ask me if im anorexic. im f*cking skinny, i was born with slim genes and i have a fast metabolism.... but oh ok lets make her fee like shit because of that skinny or overweight it goes both ways and has the same emotional effect
it's totally inappropriate - but it's b/c we're all just freaking jealous. I completely understand your POV being a thin person and dealing w/ people's comments about your size, and I agree, it's rude to comment on ANYONE's size, small or large ......but, when the societal belief is that 'thin is beautiful' I have to agree that calling someone out for being 'fat' isn't the same as calling someone out for being thin -
because, while I agree as a thin person those comments may make you JUST as upset and uncomfortable, which is why they are inappropriate, 9 times out of 10, they are not TRYING to hurt you .........
When you call someone out for being overweight, the intention is to embarass, or hurt them ..........when you call someone out for being thin it's more out of envy - again, NOT that it's right, but because the intention behind one is malicious, I do think one is worse..........
I agree. I think it's the point being made that more people in society view being thin as a prize than they do as a disgrace or a handicap, as being fat is viewed. So while it isn't fair or right or ok that someone anywhere might make you feel like crap about your body, it's the point that for the one person that says it to you, 99% of others will tell you they wish they were thin like you or praise you. That's pretty different than hearing 99% of people saying you look gross b/c you are fat and only hearing 1% of the world support you and your looks (if heavy). I don't think it's a fair comparison b/c thin people do not have the "world" against them. Hurtful the times it happens, absolutely, but certainly not the same in society.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by MarisaK
Posted by Snoopy36
Posted by MrsA1012
Posted by lilqtny
And "you can not tell me" tp that the body shaming I experience and problems I've encountered with it don't compare to people who are overweight.
. Thanks so much for commenting. People who haven't experienced thin shaming have no right to invalidate the experiences of others. So disrespectful.
very true. i've been told countless number of times that i should eat a hamburger & i have actually had people ask me if im anorexic. im f*cking skinny, i was born with slim genes and i have a fast metabolism.... but oh ok lets make her fee like shit because of that skinny or overweight it goes both ways and has the same emotional effect
it's totally inappropriate - but it's b/c we're all just freaking jealous. I completely understand your POV being a thin person and dealing w/ people's comments about your size, and I agree, it's rude to comment on ANYONE's size, small or large ......but, when the societal belief is that 'thin is beautiful' I have to agree that calling someone out for being 'fat' isn't the same as calling someone out for being thin -
because, while I agree as a thin person those comments may make you JUST as upset and uncomfortable, which is why they are inappropriate, 9 times out of 10, they are not TRYING to hurt you .........
When you call someone out for being overweight, the intention is to embarass, or hurt them ..........when you call someone out for being thin it's more out of envy - again, NOT that it's right, but because the intention behind one is malicious, I do think one is worse..........
i definitely get this & understand what you are saying.
i guess the point that people were trying to make is that the comments dont really hurt any less whether they are skinny or fat comments. ive had people call me out on being skinny with the intention of hurting me/making fun of me, behind my back and to my face
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by MrsA1012
Posted by lilqtny
And "you can not tell me" tp that the body shaming I experience and problems I've encountered with it don't compare to people who are overweight.
. Thanks so much for commenting. People who haven't experienced thin shaming have no right to invalidate the experiences of others. So disrespectful.
Plus one. "Eat a cheeseburger" is no less hurtful then "put down the burger". And yes I do eat, I just don't gain weight. Yes I know it's a horrible problem to have, but it doesn't give you a right to comment on it
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
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I don't think it's a fair comparison b/c thin people do not have the "world" against them. Hurtful the times it happens, absolutely, but certainly not the same in society.
yes this i agree with. very well said!
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
My mother was always very thin when she was younger. Every time she would go into a certain store, the same people would say 'oh, here comes skinny!'. It bothered her so much, that she stopped going to the store.
I don't think one is worse than the other. Commenting on someone's size is just plain rude, either way.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by Mom0710
Plus one. "Eat a cheeseburger" is no less hurtful then "put down the burger". And yes I do eat, I just don't gain weight. Yes I know it's a horrible problem to have, but it doesn't give you a right to comment on it
 
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by Goobster
Posted by MarisaK
Posted by Snoopy36
Posted by MrsA1012
Posted by lilqtny
And "you can not tell me" tp that the body shaming I experience and problems I've encountered with it don't compare to people who are overweight.
. Thanks so much for commenting. People who haven't experienced thin shaming have no right to invalidate the experiences of others. So disrespectful.
very true. i've been told countless number of times that i should eat a hamburger & i have actually had people ask me if im anorexic. im f*cking skinny, i was born with slim genes and i have a fast metabolism.... but oh ok lets make her fee like shit because of that skinny or overweight it goes both ways and has the same emotional effect
it's totally inappropriate - but it's b/c we're all just freaking jealous. I completely understand your POV being a thin person and dealing w/ people's comments about your size, and I agree, it's rude to comment on ANYONE's size, small or large ......but, when the societal belief is that 'thin is beautiful' I have to agree that calling someone out for being 'fat' isn't the same as calling someone out for being thin -
because, while I agree as a thin person those comments may make you JUST as upset and uncomfortable, which is why they are inappropriate, 9 times out of 10, they are not TRYING to hurt you .........
When you call someone out for being overweight, the intention is to embarass, or hurt them ..........when you call someone out for being thin it's more out of envy - again, NOT that it's right, but because the intention behind one is malicious, I do think one is worse..........
I agree. I think it's the point being made that more people in society view being thin as a prize than they do as a disgrace or a handicap, as being fat is viewed. So while it isn't fair or right or ok that someone anywhere might make you feel like crap about your body, it's the point that for the one person that says it to you, 99% of others will tell you they wish they were thin like you or praise you. That's pretty different than hearing 99% of people saying you look gross b/c you are fat and only hearing 1% of the world support you and your looks (if heavy). I don't think it's a fair comparison b/c thin people do not have the "world" against them. Hurtful the times it happens, absolutely, but certainly not the same in society.
Completely agree. I've lived on both ends and in my experience it was more hurtful and destructive for people to comment on weight gain than it ever was to have them tell me I was too skinny, or that I looked like I had an eating disorder, ask me if I ever eat, or call me a skinny b.itch, etc. Even as a young kid people, even family would comment to my parents that I was too skinny and asking if I eat, saying I need to put on weight. But it never impacted me as much as being told I put on too much weight. And after going back to being too thin, the comments started up again about needing to eat... it was like make up your mind lol. At the end of the day and any stupid comments, it is always more socially acceptable to be too thin than it is to be overweight.
I think we can all agree that it's never ok to comment on another person's weight. Some people, unfortunately, don't see it that way.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
So let me get this straight.
We can all comment on that AWFUL picture of Brad Pitt where everyone agreed he looked sloppy, overweight, and pregnant. But yet we can't say that Kelly Clarkson looks heavy and not good in that dress???  Ummm, yea. That makes NO sense. 
This thread is utterly ridiculous. Everyone is entitled to have an opinion about how a person looks whether we all agree on it or not. And in IRL, while MOST people have the common sense to not comment on how another person looks, it doesn't mean we ALL don't form opinions about a person's appearance...................fat, skinny, tall, short, old, young, etc.
I can't believe a pic of Kelly Clarkson has 3 pages of replies and so much bickering. If you think she looks good, awesome. If you think she looks like $hit, awesome. We're all entitled to have an opinion one way or the other and I don't see the need to fight about it.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by Snoopy36
Posted by Goobster
I don't think it's a fair comparison b/c thin people do not have the "world" against them. Hurtful the times it happens, absolutely, but certainly not the same in society.
yes this i agree with. very well said!
Yes we do have the "world" against us. The "world" of people who must make a comment about us being "too thin" whenever the opportunity arises.
Again, if you haven't been "skinny shamed" you have no idea.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by lilqtny
Posted by Snoopy36
Posted by Goobster
I don't think it's a fair comparison b/c thin people do not have the "world" against them. Hurtful the times it happens, absolutely, but certainly not the same in society.
yes this i agree with. very well said!
Yes we do have the "world" against us. The "world" of people who must make a comment about us being "too thin" whenever the opportunity arises.
Again, if you haven't been "skinny shamed" you have no idea.
I was always skinny, too skinny and had been teased about that when I was young. I also, while not as heavy as Kelly Clarkson, have been considered heavy in society too. I would take being skinny again any day. It's alot easier to find clothes, and be accepted in society as a "too thin" person than as a "heavy" person.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by Goobster
Posted by lilqtny
Posted by Snoopy36
Posted by Goobster
I don't think it's a fair comparison b/c thin people do not have the "world" against them. Hurtful the times it happens, absolutely, but certainly not the same in society.
yes this i agree with. very well said!
Yes we do have the "world" against us. The "world" of people who must make a comment about us being "too thin" whenever the opportunity arises.
Again, if you haven't been "skinny shamed" you have no idea.
I was always skinny, too skinny and had been teased about that when I was young. I also, while not as heavy as Kelly Clarkson, have been considered heavy in society too. I would take being skinny again any day. It's alot easier to find clothes, and be accepted in society as a "too thin" person than as a "heavy" person.
That's your opinion. I have the worst time finding clothes. Nothing fits properly. And im tired of defending myself and being told I have an eating disorder. Btw I think she's beautiful at every size she's been. I just don't think it's fair that people think there is nothing wrong with telling me "eat a cheeseburger" but next time I'm going to reply " put your cheeseburger down and get a salad." Let's see how well recepted that is!
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by lilqtny
Posted by Goobster
Posted by lilqtny
Posted by Snoopy36
Posted by Goobster
I don't think it's a fair comparison b/c thin people do not have the "world" against them. Hurtful the times it happens, absolutely, but certainly not the same in society.
yes this i agree with. very well said!
Yes we do have the "world" against us. The "world" of people who must make a comment about us being "too thin" whenever the opportunity arises.
Again, if you haven't been "skinny shamed" you have no idea.
I was always skinny, too skinny and had been teased about that when I was young. I also, while not as heavy as Kelly Clarkson, have been considered heavy in society too. I would take being skinny again any day. It's alot easier to find clothes, and be accepted in society as a "too thin" person than as a "heavy" person.
That's your opinion. I have the worst time finding clothes. Nothing fits properly. And im tired of defending myself and being told I have an eating disorder. Btw I think she's beautiful at every size she's been. I just don't think it's fair that people think there is nothing wrong with telling me "eat a cheeseburger" but next time I'm going to reply " put your cheeseburger down and get a salad." Let's see how well recepted that is!
I agree with this - I've been thin shamed for the sole purpose of that jealous person hurting me, I've been humiliated publicly for "looking like a boy", I've been mocked... and I know that the person delivering the message is jealous. That doesn't make it hurt any less.
It's not acceptable just because it's easier to dress if you're a size 2.
It's not okay because the average heavy person wishes to be thin.
It's not okay just because we are a materialistic society and we value size 0 models over an average size 12 woman.
It is not okay. It HURTS. It is wrong. Period.
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by MC09
Posted by Goobster
Posted by MarisaK
Posted by Snoopy36
Posted by MrsA1012
Posted by lilqtny
And "you can not tell me" tp that the body shaming I experience and problems I've encountered with it don't compare to people who are overweight.
. Thanks so much for commenting. People who haven't experienced thin shaming have no right to invalidate the experiences of others. So disrespectful.
very true. i've been told countless number of times that i should eat a hamburger & i have actually had people ask me if im anorexic. im f*cking skinny, i was born with slim genes and i have a fast metabolism.... but oh ok lets make her fee like shit because of that skinny or overweight it goes both ways and has the same emotional effect
it's totally inappropriate - but it's b/c we're all just freaking jealous. I completely understand your POV being a thin person and dealing w/ people's comments about your size, and I agree, it's rude to comment on ANYONE's size, small or large ......but, when the societal belief is that 'thin is beautiful' I have to agree that calling someone out for being 'fat' isn't the same as calling someone out for being thin -
because, while I agree as a thin person those comments may make you JUST as upset and uncomfortable, which is why they are inappropriate, 9 times out of 10, they are not TRYING to hurt you .........
When you call someone out for being overweight, the intention is to embarass, or hurt them ..........when you call someone out for being thin it's more out of envy - again, NOT that it's right, but because the intention behind one is malicious, I do think one is worse..........
I agree. I think it's the point being made that more people in society view being thin as a prize than they do as a disgrace or a handicap, as being fat is viewed. So while it isn't fair or right or ok that someone anywhere might make you feel like crap about your body, it's the point that for the one person that says it to you, 99% of others will tell you they wish they were thin like you or praise you. That's pretty different than hearing 99% of people saying you look gross b/c you are fat and only hearing 1% of the world support you and your looks (if heavy). I don't think it's a fair comparison b/c thin people do not have the "world" against them. Hurtful the times it happens, absolutely, but certainly not the same in society.
Completely agree. I've lived on both ends and in my experience it was more hurtful and destructive for people to comment on weight gain than it ever was to have them tell me I was too skinny, or that I looked like I had an eating disorder, ask me if I ever eat, or call me a skinny b.itch, etc. Even as a young kid people, even family would comment to my parents that I was too skinny and asking if I eat, saying I need to put on weight. But it never impacted me as much as being told I put on too much weight. And after going back to being too thin, the comments started up again about needing to eat... it was like make up your mind lol. At the end of the day and any stupid comments, it is always more socially acceptable to be too thin than it is to be overweight.
I think we can all agree that it's never ok to comment on another person's weight. Some people, unfortunately, don't see it that way.
ITA!!
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by eroxgirl
Posted by lilqtny
Posted by Goobster
Posted by lilqtny
Posted by Snoopy36
Posted by Goobster
I don't think it's a fair comparison b/c thin people do not have the "world" against them. Hurtful the times it happens, absolutely, but certainly not the same in society.
yes this i agree with. very well said!
Yes we do have the "world" against us. The "world" of people who must make a comment about us being "too thin" whenever the opportunity arises.
Again, if you haven't been "skinny shamed" you have no idea.
I was always skinny, too skinny and had been teased about that when I was young. I also, while not as heavy as Kelly Clarkson, have been considered heavy in society too. I would take being skinny again any day. It's alot easier to find clothes, and be accepted in society as a "too thin" person than as a "heavy" person.
That's your opinion. I have the worst time finding clothes. Nothing fits properly. And im tired of defending myself and being told I have an eating disorder. Btw I think she's beautiful at every size she's been. I just don't think it's fair that people think there is nothing wrong with telling me "eat a cheeseburger" but next time I'm going to reply " put your cheeseburger down and get a salad." Let's see how well recepted that is!
I agree with this - I've been thin shamed for the sole purpose of that jealous person hurting me, I've been humiliated publicly for "looking like a boy", I've been mocked... and I know that the person delivering the message is jealous. That doesn't make it hurt any less.
It's not acceptable just because it's easier to dress if you're a size 2.
It's not okay because the average heavy person wishes to be thin.
It's not okay just because we are a materialistic society and we value size 0 models over an average size 12 woman.
It is not okay. It HURTS. It is wrong. Period.
Thank you eroxgirl I kust couldn't articulate it well. I don't know why people think when people make comments to thin people it's not to hurt us. Being told you look like a 12 year old boy is not a compliment and very much is said to hurt you.
If peop,e are making mean/rude comments the intent, in my opinion, is to hurt the other person. And it's wrong. Even if it does stem from jealousy as some have stated. Doesn't make it hurt any less
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by Hofstra26
So let me get this straight.
We can all comment on that AWFUL picture of Brad Pitt where everyone agreed he looked sloppy, overweight, and pregnant. But yet we can't say that Kelly Clarkson looks heavy and not good in that dress??? Ummm, yea. That makes NO sense.
This thread is utterly ridiculous. Everyone is entitled to have an opinion about how a person looks whether we all agree on it or not. And in IRL, while MOST people have the common sense to not comment on how another person looks, it doesn't mean we ALL don't form opinions about a person's appearance...................fat, skinny, tall, short, old, young, etc.
I can't believe a pic of Kelly Clarkson has 3 pages of replies and so much bickering. If you think she looks good, awesome. If you think she looks like $hit, awesome. We're all entitled to have an opinion one way or the other and I don't see the need to fight about it.
Yeah I have to agree.
And is this a new term, "body/fat/thin shaming"?
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by Chai77
Posted by Hofstra26
So let me get this straight.
We can all comment on that AWFUL picture of Brad Pitt where everyone agreed he looked sloppy, overweight, and pregnant. But yet we can't say that Kelly Clarkson looks heavy and not good in that dress??? Ummm, yea. That makes NO sense.
This thread is utterly ridiculous. Everyone is entitled to have an opinion about how a person looks whether we all agree on it or not. And in IRL, while MOST people have the common sense to not comment on how another person looks, it doesn't mean we ALL don't form opinions about a person's appearance...................fat, skinny, tall, short, old, young, etc.
I can't believe a pic of Kelly Clarkson has 3 pages of replies and so much bickering. If you think she looks good, awesome. If you think she looks like $hit, awesome. We're all entitled to have an opinion one way or the other and I don't see the need to fight about it.
Yeah I have to agree.
And is this a new term, "body/fat/thin shaming"?
I agree as well. No one has a problem saying Guiliana rancic whatever her name is lol and bethany frankel are skeletal and not attractive. Why cant we say kelly clarkson looks bad if thats our opinions? I dont know.
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| Posted 3/12/15 7:15 PM |
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Re: Kelly Clarkson
Posted by Lara&Aidansmommy
Posted by Chai77
Posted by Hofstra26
So let me get this straight.
We can all comment on that AWFUL picture of Brad Pitt where everyone agreed he looked sloppy, overweight, and pregnant. But yet we can't say that Kelly Clarkson looks heavy and not good in that dress??? Ummm, yea. That makes NO sense.
This thread is utterly ridiculous. Everyone is entitled to have an opinion about how a person looks whether we all agree on it or not. And in IRL, while MOST people have the common sense to not comment on how another person looks, it doesn't mean we ALL don't form opinions about a person's appearance...................fat, skinny, tall, short, old, young, etc.
I can't believe a pic of Kelly Clarkson has 3 pages of replies and so much bickering. If you think she looks good, awesome. If you think she looks like $hit, awesome. We're all entitled to have an opinion one way or the other and I don't see the need to fight about it.
Yeah I have to agree.
And is this a new term, "body/fat/thin shaming"?
I agree as well. No one has a problem saying Guiliana rancic whatever her name is lol and bethany frankel are skeletal and not attractive. Why cant we say kelly clarkson looks bad if thats our opinions? I dont know.
I agree with all this as well.
I don't walk around judging people. I would hate to think people did it to me. But this is a celebrity board. We post pics and people comment. judge. Outfits, hair, body, etc.
This picture of her is terrible. Bad angle. Bad makeup. Bad all around. She does not look good with weight on. TO ME. Everyone sees what they see. There are people, TO ME, that just don't look good thin either. Jennifer Hudson? She looks so much better with some extra meat. She is meant to have a curvy soft figure. Her thin, I think she looks unattractive. Kelly Clarkson? TO ME, looks much better thinner.
Why is that not ok to say? It's a matter of opinion. It's not fat/skinny/body/ whatever you want to throw in there Shaming. It's just opinions.
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| Posted 3/12/15 7:43 PM |
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