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nrthshgrl
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Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
Here's the scoop:
We have a poster on the board - who I won't name - with a potentially SERIOUS health issue. Something that she has been ignoring for MONTHS because she's deathly afraid to find out it's something much, much worse.
I've already typed her the riot act about it. I've pointed out the being there for your baby thing, the need to take care of something before it gets much worse. She now claims she's going to try to reschedule the appointment. It's great if she does, but my worry is that she's going to chicken out & CANCEL again.
Without scaring her further (because let's face it she's already thinking the worse), let's give her hugs & prayers to get her azz in gear & go to the doctor.
So dear anonymous Poster/friend - GO! DO NOT PROCRASTINATE FURTHER. Stop worrying about your body parts & find out what the issue is.
 
Message edited 11/26/2006 9:25:04 PM.
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Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
I have to agree with Barbara here - whoever you are go to the Doctor. Odds are it's not going to be as bad as you may think and even if it is, the sooner you take care of things the better.
DO NOT PUT THIS OFF ANY LONGER!!
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| Posted 11/26/06 4:43 PM |
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bklyngirl
COULD THIS BE MY YEAR??
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Gail
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
we're here for you
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| Posted 11/26/06 4:44 PM |
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LisaW
Time for me to FLY!
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
This sounds like my DH 
Ignoring it won't make it go away...could just make it worse...
GO TO THE DOCTOR!!!! 
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| Posted 11/26/06 4:44 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
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Jennifer
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
Not for nothing i have very little tolerance for people like this...
If you think something is seriously wrong...GET IT CHECKED OUT.
It just may be serious but if caught EARLY then it could be dealt with...
WAITING COULD MEAN YOUR FLUCKING LIFE...
HONESTLY.....i just have NO tolerance for this kind of stupidity
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| Posted 11/26/06 4:45 PM |
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evnme
My little lamb
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
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alisonggg
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
I pray that you have the strength to get past the fear and go get it checked out
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| Posted 11/26/06 4:48 PM |
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conigs25
So in love with this kid!
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
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GO to the dr!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 11/26/06 4:51 PM |
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Tah-wee-ZAH
Kisses
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
Please, please go!!!!
Denying any potential problem is NOT going to make it go away. If anything, it will only get worse.
You can't fool around with your health.
If you don't have your health NOTHING else matters.
Please just go! It might be nothing right now but ignoring it... it will become a problem.
Please do not be embarassed in the presence of doctors, they have seen and heard it all. You will not be the first and probably will not be the last.
AGain, PLEASE go!!!
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Phyl
R.I.P. Sweet Mia ♥
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
Please take care of this asap..If not for yourself for the sake of your child
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| Posted 11/26/06 5:07 PM |
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luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
Please Go to the doctors, I know its scary but its better to know what is wrong with you than Not knowing. we are here for you!
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| Posted 11/26/06 5:07 PM |
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2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
PLEASE GO ASAP!!! YOUR HEALTH IS VERY IMPORTANT
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| Posted 11/26/06 5:09 PM |
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
Please take care of yourself!! Chances are, it's not as bad as you think and you are just causing yourself more anxiety, which isn't helping!
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| Posted 11/26/06 5:24 PM |
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BabyAvocado
Happy New Year
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
Ok, anonymous poster who is avoiding the Dr - here is just ONE reason why you should go: because your worrying that it's something horrible is probably far worse than it actually is.
WhatEVER it is, as we all know too well, the outcome is always better if it's caught earlier. So what are you waiting for? GO!
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| Posted 11/26/06 5:35 PM |
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cjb88
Little Brother
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
please go. Especially if you have children....
My dad put off a doctors visit and ended up dying of colon cancer because he waited too long. Turns out colon cancer is one of the most treatable cancers as long as you catch it early... if he wold have gone to the doctor right away when he was supposed to he wouldnt have died... PLEASE GO!!!
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| Posted 11/26/06 5:36 PM |
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
We are here for you! It is VERY IMPORTANT to get to the DR and get checked out! It could be nothing! You won't know until you go to the dr.
Don't let yourself get worse!!!
GO GO GO GO GO GO GO GO...DON'T MESS AROUND!
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| Posted 11/26/06 5:36 PM |
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Tumbalina
Better than the news!
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
BUT...If I were the Poster in Question, some of these replies would scare me even more into not going...Hope this thread does at least prove people worry about those they care about and like someone said, its almost always less serious then you think.
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| Posted 11/26/06 5:45 PM |
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CunningOne
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
Please go. If not for you, then for your loved ones. I will tell you that my dad is alive and well today because whe went to the doctor and got checked out often.....
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VirginiaDeb
Don't eat me, hippo!
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
Please go - I understand that it's terrifying - a few years ago i put off getting a mole that had suddenly started bleeding/scabbing removed because I didn't want to know. It ended up being NOTHING and I slept so much better once I knew.
And, if it does end up being something, the sooner you can get on your way to getting better.
and for you.
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dandr10199
Grace is growing up too fast!
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Re: Lecturing a poster...feel free to join in with your own lecture
As someone who has just gone through something similar, please go to the doctor.
I was dreading my follow up cardiologist appointment, BUT I feel better knowing they did all of the tests before something major like a heart attack or worse happened to me. I am on meds now and it sucks, but I know I was proactive about my condition and they caught the problem early. I feel thankful that they noticed the problem early. It means more time with my DD, DH and doggie. You know, they started me on meds and we are seeing where that leads. I might need surgery, I may not. This I know for sure, if I had ignored, procrastinated, and shoved it under the rug I would be having open heart surgery eighter in a few months or a year from now. THANK GOD I was proactive and so was my doctor.
We are here for you and please go to the doctor.
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