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nrthshgrl
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
For the kiss, I wouldn't be separating/divorcing over it. Although I wouldn't show my cards on that one up front - I need my ounce of flesh & maybe a few pounds of guilt from DH.
What I would do is expect to discuss what led to it (doubts about me, attraction to the other person, etc.). If he wasn't open to talking things out, I would take it as lack of commitment to me and the marriage.
As for the friend, I'm undecided on it. I would want my friend to tell me if she saw something - particularly if I was being made a fool of behind my back. I don't think you should take it out on her though. SHe was put in an awkward situation - and it was a hard decision to make to tell you.
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
I completely agree
ooops. i was trying to quote nov04 but i don't know how 
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neenie
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
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nov04libride
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
Posted by neeniebean86
maybe 'kissing' alone isn't grounds for divorce. But, what's the next "meaningless" thing that he's going to do? 
it would break my trust, and i have little to No tolerance for that.
After hearing more, it's the not telling that would also really bother me. He thought he could never mention it and life would be fine? He didn't feel guilty and want to share the truth?
That said, no way would that woman be my friend anymore.
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Mommyof2
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
Thank you ladies. I appreciate your comments.
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dm24angel
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
I would think it meant something.
Would I leave him over it...of course not. My marriage means more to me then a kiss happening. BUt everyone is different, there are some people where that would be the deal breaker.
Every situation has to be seen in its entirety to really see why it happened.
I do believe in meaningless kisses. HAve seen it happen to so many people I know that I do believe it can be worked past and happen in life.
I believe in getting past the kissing part to what really caused it...and working on that, which is the problem...
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skew
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
Posted by maybebaby
How could "full on frenching" ever be innocent or meaningless? People don't just intertwine tongues for fun. Not in my world! If i ever saw DH kiss another girl , even just on the lips as a peck he'd have my foot up his a**.
are you telling me that you NEVER kissed someone (no strings attached) just for the h e l l of it? and yes, i mean full on frenching. personally i don't view kissing as that big of a deal (assuming each participant is not attached). i have kissed MANY and to be completely honest, the majority of them were meaningless (fun but meaningless).
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Bri
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
To them yes, but I think a kiss is a kiss, no matter how you slice it!!!!
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skew
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
Posted by THEINFAMOUSMRS.OTG
To them yes, but I think a kiss is a kiss, no matter how you slice it!!!!
i can't deny that a kiss is a kiss but the question is, can it be meaningless? meaningless yes, innocent, no.
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neenie
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
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nov04libride
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
Posted by skew
Posted by THEINFAMOUSMRS.OTG
To them yes, but I think a kiss is a kiss, no matter how you slice it!!!!
i can't deny that a kiss is a kiss but the question is, can it be meaningless? meaningless yes, innocent, no.
I had meaningless kisses when I was single, but there is a whole other dimension when you are married. Your actions affect another person. I would leave DH for that. I hold him to very high standards, but I also hold myself to even higher ones. If he did that I would know he wasn't the man I fell in love with and married.
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neenie
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
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skew
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Re: Meaningless Kissing?
Posted by neeniebean86
Posted by skew
Posted by THEINFAMOUSMRS.OTG
To them yes, but I think a kiss is a kiss, no matter how you slice it!!!!
i can't deny that a kiss is a kiss but the question is, can it be meaningless? meaningless yes, innocent, no.
i agree that it can be meaningless.. but NOT when you're in a relationship, and decide to have a 'meaningless' kiss with someone else. To me, THAT means something
i thought the thread was a general, blanket "can a kiss be meaningless" question. the answer to this (IMO) is, yes. flame away but i also feel that even if someone is attached, a kiss can still be meaningless. again, meaningless but NOT innocent and guilt-free.
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