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My 1st bad mommy moment

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DeniseMarie
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My 1st bad mommy moment

So Katie sits up great we don't need to support her. Well, I have one of those changing tables that also is a dresser so on one side is the changing pad and the other is the wood part of the dresser.

She was sitting up and I was brushing her hair, getting her dressed. I was gently holding onto her bc she normally doesnt sit up there, usually lays down. I let go of her for a SECOND to get her shirt ready to put over her head and she flew herself back and wacked her head on the edge of the wood part Chat Icon

she only screamed for a minute them seemed fine but of course I am freaking out. How could I have been so stupid to let her sit up there and let go , even if for a second. I guess I just assumed she would be fine since she sits up on her own all the time on the floor and plays with her toys. From now on, laying down only on the changing table.

Posted 4/27/09 8:40 AM
 
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twinkletoes807
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Re: My 1st bad mommy moment

Accidents like that happen all the time! My DD was sitting on the dining room table and I was supporting her lightly, when I went to grab her toy and she fell back and smacked her head on the table! Chat Icon Don't worry! DD will be fine!! You are not a bad Mommy!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/27/09 8:43 AM
 

Goobster
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Oh D....don't you hate those feelings of WHY did I do this? How stupid could I be? I think that's what is worse and more painful than anything...that we caused something that hurt our babies. But we are human, and we do slip up....I think it's a hard reality to swallow that we can't be perfect and we will make mistakes here and there but it's not out of lack of concern for our babies. It's just human nature.

Keep an eye on her for the next 6 hrs and I am sure she will be fine. Did she stop crying quickly? How is she now?

Poor Katie and poor Mommy.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 4/27/09 9:19 AM
 

mooshyboo
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Re: My 1st bad mommy moment

I hope she is better! I have had a bad mommy moment myself ~ felt like such a jerk ~ how could I have thought to do that for even just a second ~ It made me extra careful now though! I hope your baby is better and mommy 2....Chat Icon Don't beat yourself up too much ~ you are not a bad mommy! Chat Icon

Message edited 4/27/2009 9:58:03 AM.

Posted 4/27/09 9:57 AM
 

FranM
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Re: My 1st bad mommy moment

Accidents happen Chat Icon

Posted 4/27/09 10:11 AM
 

msangel
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Re: My 1st bad mommy moment

same thing happened to me yesterday...dd was sitting up on floor and then fell back and hit his head on the hard wood floor, what made it worse is that dh gave me such a hard time about it...ds was fine but i felt so bad

Posted 4/27/09 10:50 AM
 

Katie111806
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Re: My 1st bad mommy moment

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon It's okay, we all have those moments where accidents happen.

I hit DS' head on the changing table at about 2 weeks old and then he recently rolled off the bed onto our bedroom floor!!!!

She'll be okay! Chat Icon

Posted 4/27/09 11:26 AM
 

DeniseMarie
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Re: My 1st bad mommy moment

Posted by Goobster

Oh D....don't you hate those feelings of WHY did I do this? How stupid could I be? I think that's what is worse and more painful than anything...that we caused something that hurt our babies. But we are human, and we do slip up....I think it's a hard reality to swallow that we can't be perfect and we will make mistakes here and there but it's not out of lack of concern for our babies. It's just human nature.

Keep an eye on her for the next 6 hrs and I am sure she will be fine. Did she stop crying quickly? How is she now?

Poor Katie and poor Mommy.Chat Icon Chat Icon




she only cried for a minute.

I am now happy to report she is perfectly fine! She is happily playing in her excersaucer right next to me!!

Posted 4/27/09 5:18 PM
 

Goobster
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Re: My 1st bad mommy moment

Posted by DeniseMarie

Posted by Goobster

Oh D....don't you hate those feelings of WHY did I do this? How stupid could I be? I think that's what is worse and more painful than anything...that we caused something that hurt our babies. But we are human, and we do slip up....I think it's a hard reality to swallow that we can't be perfect and we will make mistakes here and there but it's not out of lack of concern for our babies. It's just human nature.

Keep an eye on her for the next 6 hrs and I am sure she will be fine. Did she stop crying quickly? How is she now?

Poor Katie and poor Mommy.Chat Icon Chat Icon




she only cried for a minute.

I am now happy to report she is perfectly fine! She is happily playing in her excersaucer right next to me!!


I was just going to ask you for an update! Glad all is well!!!Chat Icon

Posted 4/27/09 6:16 PM
 

JChia
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Posted 4/27/09 8:56 PM
 
 

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