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tj2008
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My baby stopped growing...
DR. just called to confirm my Hcg levels went down from my last test and the baby stopped developing...I'm 9 weeks and 5 days and yesterday we did an ultrasound and there was no heartbeat that's why he requested the blood work to confirm...I'm sooo sad I can't believe this is happening. Since I didn't have any bleeding Dr. gave me 3 options which dh and I thought about and decided doing the last option, the D&C, oh boy I'm just so scared too, so many things going through my mind now... 
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MrsRbk
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I am so sorry for your loss. 
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| Posted 1/9/09 10:26 PM |
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MrsMessina
Thankful for our miracles!
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that we're here if you want to talk. 
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| Posted 1/9/09 11:46 PM |
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ajaysmom
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Jessica
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
So sorry for your loss, I COMPLETELY understand, I just went threw this last week, started bleeding wound up in the er, and after a sono we found out the same thing, that I should have been 9 weeks however the baby was still measuring 7 and no heart beat! I had the D&C on Monday. Good luck with everything! I understand what you are feeling right now! (This was my second mc) I'm here if you want to vent!
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| Posted 1/10/09 1:45 AM |
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beanie571
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I am so sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 1/10/09 8:21 AM |
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tj2008
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
thank you so much girls....it's hard and now i'm scared of getting pregnant again and then having another mc, i feel like i'll be paranoid
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| Posted 1/10/09 8:22 AM |
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beanie571
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
Posted by tj2008
thank you so much girls....it's hard and now i'm scared of getting pregnant again and then having another mc, i feel like i'll be paranoid
I know exactly how you feel. But it will happen for us - we have to keep the faith!
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| Posted 1/10/09 9:36 AM |
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
Posted by tj2008
thank you so much girls....it's hard and now i'm scared of getting pregnant again and then having another mc, i feel like i'll be paranoid
You are not alone.....I think once you go through a m/c you always have that fear no matter what. I had my D&C on 11/25/08 and it went VERY well. I had a spinal and they gave me some medicine so Iw ouldn't remember what was happening. I HIGHLY suggest the spinal vs being put under. The recovery is a tad longer but it's just because you are numb. I felt like my old self that very night. PLEASE fm me if you need to talk. You are not alone in this
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| Posted 1/10/09 9:44 AM |
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CAH127
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
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| Posted 1/10/09 10:30 AM |
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SJSM
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
So sorry about your loss.
I've been there.
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| Posted 1/10/09 11:34 AM |
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Maybe this time?
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I'm so sorry....you have fm
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| Posted 1/10/09 11:40 AM |
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Cookiegobbler
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Nicole
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I'm so sorry... I know how difficult this is!!!
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| Posted 1/10/09 12:19 PM |
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sweetie101
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
im sorry for your loss
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| Posted 1/10/09 1:08 PM |
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tj2008
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
thank you ladies, your support and kind words mean so much to me
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| Posted 1/10/09 2:05 PM |
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Eireann
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I am so sorry--it just sucks, plain and simple. I will probably need a D&C next week and I'm petrified too!
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| Posted 1/10/09 2:05 PM |
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LemonHead
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I'm am so sorry.
I've had 2 mc back to back, and a D&C both times. Emotionally, it's bad, but physically the recovery is not awful.
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| Posted 1/10/09 2:08 PM |
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ttsecretly
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
so sorry
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| Posted 1/10/09 2:22 PM |
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IrishLasss334
I'll be there soon!
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Patty
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't lie to you, it won't be easier if you get pregnant again. Unfortunately miscarriage takes the innocent joy of pregnancy away from you, it's something you really can't shake. As I go forward with IVF to try and be pregnant after 3 m/c's, I have promised myself that i will not make myself crazy with the next one. I can't control what is going to happen and I will try and enjoy every moment.
I hope that you will be able to also. Please know we are here for you.
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| Posted 1/12/09 6:53 AM |
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08BabySurprise
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I am so very sorry
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| Posted 1/12/09 8:33 AM |
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MetsGirl07
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
i am so sorry for your loss..
i just had my 2nd loss if you ever want to talk i am here
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| Posted 1/12/09 11:04 AM |
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shaye3
LIF Adolescent
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Laura
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I am so so sorry for your loss.. as many of the girls have shared I have also been there. the d& C was the way we went twice and it helped give us answers, chromosome results etc. I wish you many hugs and support as you go through this...take time for yourself..
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| Posted 1/12/09 3:30 PM |
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ETAB
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I am so sorry for your loss
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| Posted 1/12/09 3:56 PM |
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MrsBurtch525
Year for change!
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
Im so sorry!!!
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| Posted 1/12/09 8:17 PM |
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usuk2004
I'm ONE!
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
Posted by tj2008
thank you so much girls....it's hard and now i'm scared of getting pregnant again and then having another mc, i feel like i'll be paranoid
Just wanted to send some
I had a missed miscarriage also in March. I was supposed to be about 11 weeks when I started spotting, the baby measured about 7.
I'm now 12 1/2 weeks pregnant. It took a while to get here and once I found out I was pregnant again, I was so happy, but SO terrified as well. We just had our 12 week sono on Friday and there's a healthy little baby in there, so please hang on, it will happen.
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| Posted 1/13/09 8:20 AM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky
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Re: My baby stopped growing...
I'm so sorry, I know how hard this is
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