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Need advice re: family party...

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Lucky09
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Need advice re: family party...

My Mom is hosting SIL's birthday tonight. SIL told my Mom that both my niece (age 3) and my brother have a nasty cold and have been sick for over a week.

DS is 5.5 months... Would you still attend?

Posted 8/25/09 2:49 PM
 
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bayla
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Re: Need advice re: family party...

no I wouldn't, esp b/c you said a nasty cold for over a week, I would be to worried my DC or myself would catch itChat Icon

Posted 8/25/09 2:52 PM
 

neener1211
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Re: Need advice re: family party...

No.

But my first question is: Why wouldn't they reschedule-for all the guests' heath.

Posted 8/25/09 2:53 PM
 

jenny
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Re: Need advice re: family party...

Uggg I hate making these decisions...but being sick for "over a week" is a long time. Do you know if they are on antibiotics? If so, then they should not be contagious and I would attend.

This time of year is also bad for allergies, is it possible it could be that?

I would ask SIL these questions and decide based on her answers.

Posted 8/25/09 2:55 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: Need advice re: family party...

Posted by jenny

Uggg I hate making these decisions...but being sick for "over a week" is a long time. Do you know if they are on antibiotics? If so, then they should not be contagious and I would attend.

This time of year is also bad for allergies, is it possible it could be that?

I would ask SIL these questions and decide based on her answers.



I agree with this. I also kinda think that possibly a cold could be petering out after a week...

Posted 8/25/09 2:59 PM
 

Lucky09
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Re: Need advice re: family party...

Posted by jenny

Uggg I hate making these decisions...but being sick for "over a week" is a long time. Do you know if they are on antibiotics? If so, then they should not be contagious and I would attend.

This time of year is also bad for allergies, is it possible it could be that?

I would ask SIL these questions and decide based on her answers.



Nooo - they have a high deductible insurance plan and they don't go to the doctor unless it's a well visit Chat Icon

I don't think my niece has allergies...

I know my Mom is going to be really annoyed if I don't go. Ugggggghhhh Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/09 2:59 PM
 

mtnmama

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Re: Need advice re: family party...

can you go and just avoid them? Chat Icon

Posted 8/25/09 3:09 PM
 

SweetTooth
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Re: Need advice re: family party...

No I wouldn't go.

And FYI - antibiotics won't work for a cold. Antibiotics are only good for bacterial infections. A cold is caused by a virus.

Posted 8/25/09 3:15 PM
 

nbc188
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Re: Need advice re: family party...

No, I wouldn't go under those circumstances.

Posted 8/25/09 3:22 PM
 

Calla
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Re: Need advice re: family party...

Yes I would, but I'd feel grumpy about it like you do!

Posted 8/25/09 4:00 PM
 

Ang-Rich
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Re: Need advice re: family party...

I'd leave the baby home with DH (if possible) and go for a little while.

Posted 8/25/09 4:10 PM
 
 

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