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yelley
Fortunate
Member since 11/07 3037 total posts
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Danielle
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Personal question - 'bathroom time'
another topic on the home board got me thinking:
When you are in the bathroom (using the toilet, showering, washing your face, brushing your teeth, etc) do you allow your SO in there with you? Or, as another poster put it, "bathroom time = my time"?
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Posted 6/3/09 12:27 PM  |
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starryeyes
Baby number 2 is on its way!
Member since 9/06 2020 total posts
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Kristin
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
I dont mind at all...my DH thinks its gross and wants nothing to do with it. My dogs come in the bathroom with me all the time...
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:28 PM |
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maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
Using the toilet - no
Anything else - yes
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:28 PM |
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tj2008
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
I do, I have the door open at all times except when #2
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:28 PM |
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saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
yes, he has been in there when I'm going #1.
#2 however is me time. 
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:28 PM |
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MrsGmomof3
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
I was the poster who said that bathroom time = private time 
I have 3 children who barge in on me CONSTANTLY, so any time I can get alone in the bathroom, is MY time. If I had to share my alone-bathroom-time with DH, I would hate it!!!
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:29 PM |
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GioiaMia
Let's Go Rangers!
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
no, i am a very private person
also, we live in a very small apartment and i think its very important to give each other space
AND, i am a big believer in keeping things private in order to maintain some sense of femininity.
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:30 PM |
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
We share everything else, so we have no problem sharing bathroom time. Like a PP said, even the dog follows us in there sometimes.
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:31 PM |
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
Yes...only if it's b/c I need TP for #2 though!! (Wihich he had used the last of, of course  )
Not like he hasn't seen it all before, KWIM??
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:31 PM |
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yelley
Fortunate
Member since 11/07 3037 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
Posted by MrsGmomof3
I was the poster who said that bathroom time = private time
I have 3 children who barge in on me CONSTANTLY, so any time I can get alone in the bathroom, is MY time. If I had to share my alone-bathroom-time with DH, I would hate it!!!
I always thought bathroom time = private time until DH and I moved in together and we only had one bathroom... sometimes he'd have to get in there while i was showering, etc. Then it turned into us walking in while the other was peeing... if it were up to him, he'd poop while i'm in the shower... that is where i draw the line... let me poop in peace!
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:32 PM |
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LoveyQ
Stalkers, get a life.
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
If I am in the shower, brushing my teeth, getting ready, or even going #1, I have no problem with DH being in there or if the door is open, etc.
For #2, no way. lol.
If we're going out for something special, sometimes I prefer the privacy so that I can be all "done" when he sees me. Otherwise, it's fine.
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:32 PM |
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Linda1003
love my 2 boys
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Linda
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
Posted by maybeamommy
Using the toilet - no
Anything else - yes
ditto
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:34 PM |
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4PsInaPod
My Loves <3
Member since 7/07 10079 total posts
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
We don't care But with that said....it took us a year of living together to get there. I mean #2 is a private session ALWAYS haha but nowadays especially as a preggo...I can't always hold it, we have one bathroom
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:35 PM |
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NS1976
My princess!
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
Well besides the fact that we have a 2 by 4 bathroom that we can hardly fit in alone, I still would NEVER let him be in there when I am doing "bathroom things." I just feel its my time and should remain that way. And actually using the bathroom...NEVER!!! Eww!
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:39 PM |
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MikesCutie
May 26, 2007
Member since 12/07 1478 total posts
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Marianne
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
I don't mind, he can come in whenever LOL
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:43 PM |
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ml110
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
we have 2 bathrooms, but one of them is other floor from our bedroom, so a lot of times when i'm brushing my teeth or something, he'll come in to get a Qtip or floss or whatever. that i don't mind, even if i'm in the shower and he comes in the grab something.
BUT if i'm using the toilet for any reason LOL i don't want him bustin in on me
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:43 PM |
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heathergirl
Cocktail Time!
Member since 10/08 4978 total posts
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American mouth
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
We have no shame! We're not always in there together, but sometimes if he's in the shower and I need to go, I go, and same with him 
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:44 PM |
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
Posted by maybeamommy
Using the toilet - no
Anything else - yes
same here, except that we let our cat in anytime.
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:47 PM |
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KPtoys
I'm getting old
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Karen
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
We have 3 small kids... there is no personal bathroom time anywhere in our house!
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:48 PM |
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yelley
Fortunate
Member since 11/07 3037 total posts
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Danielle
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
Posted by glinda-goodwitch
Posted by maybeamommy
Using the toilet - no
Anything else - yes
same here, except that we let our cat in anytime.
Our cat loves to be in the bathroom! it doesn't make any sense. He'll just walk in and lay down right near the bowl.
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:49 PM |
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JenMarie
One day at a time
Member since 11/07 7397 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
We don't care, but I refuse to go in when DH is going #2. Other than that, the door is usually open and we don't mind being in there together.
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:50 PM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
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Deanna
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
Posted by maybeamommy
Using the toilet - no
Anything else - yes
me too!
although he is hardly in there with me.. but i dont mind if he ever did
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| Posted 6/3/09 12:57 PM |
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Peainapod
Peanuts are here!
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Diana
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
exactly how i feel----> bathroom time = my time.
unless he's bothering me for something outside the door, but usually its my time.
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| Posted 6/3/09 1:00 PM |
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Shorty
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
Posted by JenMarie
We don't care, but I refuse to go in when DH is going #2. Other than that, the door is usually open and we don't mind being in there together.
same.
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| Posted 6/3/09 1:05 PM |
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mcd01
Life is good : )
Member since 3/09 1932 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: Personal question - 'bathroom time'
Posted by Tilde
no, i am a very private person
also, we live in a very small apartment and i think its very important to give each other space
AND, i am a big believer in keeping things private in order to maintain some sense of femininity.
ITA.
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| Posted 6/3/09 1:08 PM |
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