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MrsRbk
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Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
Name: Michelle
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Please come in if you have step parents...
If you have step parents, how do you refer to them with your DC? Is your step-father/mother called grandma or grandpa, or do you refer to them by their first name?
Both my parents are re-married, but I don't refer to my step-parents as grandma or grandpa, I find it uncomfortable to do so.
Thanks!
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Posted 8/27/09 6:09 PM |
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lovemy2boys
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Member since 10/07 3915 total posts
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...
/8we call him Grandpa Firstname. I don't like referring to him as that bc I don't really get along with him. but no reason for hurt feelings either
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Posted 8/27/09 6:12 PM |
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mommy2B3
2 boys 2 girls!!!!
Member since 7/08 3324 total posts
Name: M
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...
Well DH has a step mom. She is Lisa, to us and the baby will continue to call her Lisa. You have no idea how much I wanted to punch DH's father in the face when he called her "grandma" to DS...
We do not have a good relationship with this woman... She is the reason why DH's father, and that side of the family didn't come to our wedding.
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Posted 8/27/09 6:29 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
Member since 9/05 32436 total posts
Name: Stephanie
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...
my dad's wife is referred to as "susan"
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Posted 8/27/09 6:30 PM |
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Rycois
Blessed with 2blue/2pink
Member since 12/05 13341 total posts
Name: J
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...
Ryan calls my stepfather (who is only 39 yrs old) Popski.
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Posted 8/27/09 6:36 PM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
Name: Michelle
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...
Thank you all for your responses! I thought I was in the "wrong" for feeling the way I do about it.
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Posted 8/27/09 7:26 PM |
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JandJ1224
Member since 6/06 5911 total posts
Name: Jannette
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...
I am close to my step-mom and I call her by her first name, she is refered to as Grandma Nancy for my daughter.
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Posted 8/27/09 7:28 PM |
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KateDevine
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...
DH has a step mom, she is Grandma Kate. DH's mom's girlfriend (yeah, that's a fun one ) is Grandma Conny too...
DS has 4 grandmas to 1 grandpa
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Posted 8/27/09 7:29 PM |
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bayla
Love my two kiddos :)
Member since 8/06 7178 total posts
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...
My step-mom is Grandma cookie and my step dad is papa Mo. My parents are grandma and grandpa and DH parents are nani and poppa
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Posted 8/27/09 7:33 PM |
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ABCiverson
<3 my family
Member since 1/06 7465 total posts
Name: Amanda
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...
My mom remarried last year. My DD started calling him "Pepa" on her own. I still call him by his first name. But I do say things now like "go give this to Pepa".
My DH and I were just talking about this today. In 2 weeks we will be moving next to my dad and his wife. They have only met one of my kids once. But after this move they will be a big part of their lives. I was just wondering what my kids will call my stepmom. She is only 38 so I doubt she will want o be grandma. I think I will ask her what she wants to be called.
My DD's call my mom and her husband (and my MIL and her husband) Mema and Pepa. But I think I want them to call my Dad, Grandpa and whatever my step mom wants to called by
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Posted 8/27/09 7:34 PM |
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JennZ
MY LIFE!!
Member since 8/05 25463 total posts
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...
We call them Pop-pop. The FIL new wife we call her by her name!
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Posted 8/27/09 7:35 PM |
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