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MrsRbk
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Michelle

Please come in if you have step parents...

If you have step parents, how do you refer to them with your DC? Is your step-father/mother called grandma or grandpa, or do you refer to them by their first name?

Both my parents are re-married, but I don't refer to my step-parents as grandma or grandpa, I find it uncomfortable to do so.

Thanks!

Posted 8/27/09 6:09 PM
 
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lovemy2boys
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...

/8we call him Grandpa Firstname. I don't like referring to him as that bc I don't really get along with him. but no reason for hurt feelings either

Posted 8/27/09 6:12 PM
 

mommy2B3
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M

Re: Please come in if you have step parents...

Well DH has a step mom. She is Lisa, to us and the baby will continue to call her Lisa. You have no idea how much I wanted to punch DH's father in the face when he called her "grandma" to DS...

We do not have a good relationship with this woman... She is the reason why DH's father, and that side of the family didn't come to our wedding.

Posted 8/27/09 6:29 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Stephanie

Re: Please come in if you have step parents...

my dad's wife is referred to as "susan" Chat Icon

Posted 8/27/09 6:30 PM
 

Rycois
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J

Re: Please come in if you have step parents...

Ryan calls my stepfather (who is only 39 yrs old) Popski.

Posted 8/27/09 6:36 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Michelle

Re: Please come in if you have step parents...

Thank you all for your responses! I thought I was in the "wrong" for feeling the way I do about it.

Posted 8/27/09 7:26 PM
 

JandJ1224

Member since 6/06

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Jannette

Re: Please come in if you have step parents...

I am close to my step-mom and I call her by her first name, she is refered to as Grandma Nancy for my daughter.

Posted 8/27/09 7:28 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...

DH has a step mom, she is Grandma Kate. DH's mom's girlfriend (yeah, that's a fun oneChat Icon ) is Grandma Conny too...

DS has 4 grandmas to 1 grandpaChat Icon

Posted 8/27/09 7:29 PM
 

bayla
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...

My step-mom is Grandma cookie and my step dad is papa Mo. My parents are grandma and grandpa and DH parents are nani and poppa

Posted 8/27/09 7:33 PM
 

ABCiverson
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Amanda

Re: Please come in if you have step parents...

My mom remarried last year. My DD started calling him "Pepa" on her own. I still call him by his first name. But I do say things now like "go give this to Pepa".

My DH and I were just talking about this today. In 2 weeks we will be moving next to my dad and his wife. They have only met one of my kids once. But after this move they will be a big part of their lives. I was just wondering what my kids will call my stepmom. She is only 38 so I doubt she will want o be grandma. I think I will ask her what she wants to be called.

My DD's call my mom and her husband (and my MIL and her husband) Mema and Pepa. But I think I want them to call my Dad, Grandpa and whatever my step mom wants to called byChat Icon

Posted 8/27/09 7:34 PM
 

JennZ
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Re: Please come in if you have step parents...

We call them Pop-pop. The FIL new wife we call her by her name!

Posted 8/27/09 7:35 PM
 
 

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