|
| Posted By |
Message |
| Pages: << 3 4 5 [6] 7 8 9 |
JennP
LIF Adult
Member since 10/06 3986 total posts
Name:
Jenn
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self. 
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is? 
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
|
Posted 9/30/21 3:16 PM  |
| |
|
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource |
CookiePuss
Cake from Outer Space!
Member since 5/05 14021 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by Anotherplease
This is the thread that never ends it goes on and on my friends! This is hysterical!
I wish for better times when we could discuss icicle lights and glueing Baby Jesus back together.
Message edited 9/30/2021 3:21:22 PM.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 3:19 PM |
| |
|
lululu
LIF Adult
Member since 7/05 9511 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
Let's be honest, without the drama this board would have died a loooonnnggg time ago. As it is, it's still dying a long and painful death. So let's just stop the BS of reporting posts or trying to get people banned, just keep calling eachother b*tches and have a good laugh.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 3:23 PM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
What things do you think KK has not done?
|
| Posted 9/30/21 3:25 PM |
| |
|
KarenK122
The Journey is the Destination
Member since 5/05 4431 total posts
Name:
Karen
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 4:43 PM |
| |
|
mommy2devin
2 Boys, I need calgon!
Member since 10/07 1572 total posts
Name:
Shannon
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
I see what you are saying for the most part, I really do. But if you look back at the history of what has transpired with windy, she initiates the confrontation. Nobody has brought up her previous posts until she did it maliciously to myself and several others on here. Hofstra can’t say anything without her and a few others telling her to go back to her library or something of the sort. I can’t say anything if I disagree with an opinion of hers without my location being brought up or old posts from the PRIVATE relationship board over a decade ago. Nobody went after windy first. Do I need to step back and grow up sometimes and not let her get to me? Yep. I do. I can own that. She gets what she wants when we react to her. Like a spoiled child. So it isn’t just about having a difference of opinion that makes us “go after” her. It’s the past barrage of insulting and stalking behavior on her part. You, general, can all say “ if you don’t like her post then scroll on”, but you all also know why she posted this simply based on the timing of her post vs goldens. It’s attacking. It’s not ok. And she should be called out for it.
But, you are right. I can only speak for myself when I say I’m sorry for letting her get to me. She won. Again.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 4:57 PM |
| |
|
soontobemommyof2
My boys...my everything <3
Member since 4/15 3635 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 5:53 PM |
| |
|
JennP
LIF Adult
Member since 10/06 3986 total posts
Name:
Jenn
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
I see what you are saying for the most part, I really do. But if you look back at the history of what has transpired with windy, she initiates the confrontation. Nobody has brought up her previous posts until she did it maliciously to myself and several others on here. Hofstra can’t say anything without her and a few others telling her to go back to her library or something of the sort. I can’t say anything if I disagree with an opinion of hers without my location being brought up or old posts from the PRIVATE relationship board over a decade ago. Nobody went after windy first. Do I need to step back and grow up sometimes and not let her get to me? Yep. I do. I can own that. She gets what she wants when we react to her. Like a spoiled child. So it isn’t just about having a difference of opinion that makes us “go after” her. It’s the past barrage of insulting and stalking behavior on her part. You, general, can all say “ if you don’t like her post then scroll on”, but you all also know why she posted this simply based on the timing of her post vs goldens. It’s attacking. It’s not ok. And she should be called out for it.
But, you are right. I can only speak for myself when I say I’m sorry for letting her get to me. She won. Again.
I pretty much agree with all of this, more or less.
Mommy2devin, I very rarely read WW's posts. I've literally read maybe 5 in the past few months. When I see her name, I literally just scroll down. I highly recommend you give that a try, especially with the type of stuff she says to you.
Anyway, I don't have time to go back and forth anymore. It's also not worth it. Karenk122 and I will have to agree to disagree about how we view WW's behavior. We've all had our moments in the past couple of years, but I think she's beyond the pale and at this point only a drastic change in her behavior would convince me otherwise.
I also, on a semi lighter note, don't really see the whole "cool crowd" dynamic at all. I think people sometimes get their questions answered, sometimes don't, depending on many factors. But I also haven't really been around consistently for the 15 years I've been registered and I know I've missed stuff. That comment makes me glad I did lol.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 7:48 PM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by JennP
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
I see what you are saying for the most part, I really do. But if you look back at the history of what has transpired with windy, she initiates the confrontation. Nobody has brought up her previous posts until she did it maliciously to myself and several others on here. Hofstra can’t say anything without her and a few others telling her to go back to her library or something of the sort. I can’t say anything if I disagree with an opinion of hers without my location being brought up or old posts from the PRIVATE relationship board over a decade ago. Nobody went after windy first. Do I need to step back and grow up sometimes and not let her get to me? Yep. I do. I can own that. She gets what she wants when we react to her. Like a spoiled child. So it isn’t just about having a difference of opinion that makes us “go after” her. It’s the past barrage of insulting and stalking behavior on her part. You, general, can all say “ if you don’t like her post then scroll on”, but you all also know why she posted this simply based on the timing of her post vs goldens. It’s attacking. It’s not ok. And she should be called out for it.
But, you are right. I can only speak for myself when I say I’m sorry for letting her get to me. She won. Again.
I pretty much agree with all of this, more or less.
Mommy2devin, I very rarely read WW's posts. I've literally read maybe 5 in the past few months. When I see her name, I literally just scroll down. I highly recommend you give that a try, especially with the type of stuff she says to you.
Anyway, I don't have time to go back and forth anymore. It's also not worth it. Karenk122 and I will have to agree to disagree about how we view WW's behavior. We've all had our moments in the past couple of years, but I think she's beyond the pale and at this point only a drastic change in her behavior would convince me otherwise.
I also, on a semi lighter note, don't really see the whole "cool crowd" dynamic at all. I think people sometimes get their questions answered, sometimes don't, depending on many factors. But I also haven't really been around consistently for the 15 years I've been registered and I know I've missed stuff. That comment makes me glad I did lol.
Funny as I stopped counting at 20 of your posts on threads I started in the last 2 months. You went into these threads and stopped to post so what is this?:
Mommy2devin, I very rarely read WW's posts. I've literally read maybe 5 in the past few months. When I see her name, I literally just scroll down.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 8:34 PM |
| |
|
jellybean78
:)
Member since 8/06 13103 total posts
Name:
Mommy
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 8:44 PM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 8:50 PM |
| |
|
mommy2devin
2 Boys, I need calgon!
Member since 10/07 1572 total posts
Name:
Shannon
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 9:03 PM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 9:18 PM |
| |
|
mommy2devin
2 Boys, I need calgon!
Member since 10/07 1572 total posts
Name:
Shannon
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.
You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 9:27 PM |
| |
|
soontobemommyof2
My boys...my everything <3
Member since 4/15 3635 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
I’m very open minded and pretty laid back, I have friends with different personalities and mentalities -I actually appreciate that. But I would never, ever be able to be friends with people who enjoy belittling, insulting, constantly putting others down, and then excuse it by saying they deserve. Ummm if those were the only people left in this world, I’d much rather be alone. Who would ever want to be friends with people like that! 
|
| Posted 9/30/21 9:28 PM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
I’m very open minded and pretty laid back, I have friends with different personalities and mentalities -I actually appreciate that. But I would never, ever be able to be friends with people who enjoy belittling, insulting, constantly putting others down, and then excuse it by saying they deserve. Ummm if those were the only people left in this world, I’d much rather be alone. Who would ever want to be friends with people like that!
Exactly!!!!
I wonder what type of friends these women have or how they themselves treat their friends.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 9:41 PM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.
You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.
Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?
Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 9:44 PM |
| |
|
Hofstra26
Love to Bake!
Member since 7/06 27915 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.
You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.
Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?
Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.
This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.
FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 10:07 PM |
| |
|
soontobemommyof2
My boys...my everything <3
Member since 4/15 3635 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.
You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.
Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?
Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.
This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.
FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.
Cancer?!?!? Ok, please watch what u say. Saying someone is cancer?? It’s too much already. Have u ever lost anyone due to cancer?? I have, my mom and my FIL and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Seriously, stop it with the harsh words.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 10:17 PM |
| |
|
Hofstra26
Love to Bake!
Member since 7/06 27915 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.
You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.
Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?
Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.
This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.
FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.
Cancer?!?!? Ok, please watch what u say. Saying someone is cancer?? It’s too much already. Have u ever lost anyone due to cancer?? I have, my mom and my FIL and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Seriously, stop it with the harsh words.
Give it a rest. It's a figure of speech and I'm sure you know that.
And yes, I've lost too many people to cancer. Hasn't most everyone?
|
| Posted 9/30/21 10:20 PM |
| |
|
mommy2devin
2 Boys, I need calgon!
Member since 10/07 1572 total posts
Name:
Shannon
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.
You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.
Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?
Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.
This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.
FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.
Cancer?!?!? Ok, please watch what u say. Saying someone is cancer?? It’s too much already. Have u ever lost anyone due to cancer?? I have, my mom and my FIL and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Seriously, stop it with the harsh words.
Give it a rest. It's a figure of speech and I'm sure you know that.
And yes, I've lost too many people to cancer. Hasn't most everyone?
Everyone knows it’s a figure of speech. They are just trying to portray you as the villain.
If I were to say she was a ***** for some reason would you come back and say you have a female dog and that’s offensive to you because if that? And before you ask I have lost many people to cancer but still understand that as a figure of speech. And you know that too.
Message edited 9/30/2021 10:25:23 PM.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 10:23 PM |
| |
|
soontobemommyof2
My boys...my everything <3
Member since 4/15 3635 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.
You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.
Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?
Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.
This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.
FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.
Cancer?!?!? Ok, please watch what u say. Saying someone is cancer?? It’s too much already. Have u ever lost anyone due to cancer?? I have, my mom and my FIL and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Seriously, stop it with the harsh words.
Give it a rest. It's a figure of speech and I'm sure you know that.
That’s exactly the kind of answer I expected u were gonna give. 
Posted by Hofstra26
And yes, I've lost too many people to cancer. Hasn't most everyone?
U’ve lost too many people to cancer? Even more of a reason to not say someone is cancer then. Can’t u use another belittling word to use instead? Better yet, maybe ur good deed of the day can be not to degrade anyone for the night.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 10:28 PM |
| |
|
Hofstra26
Love to Bake!
Member since 7/06 27915 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.
You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.
Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?
Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.
This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.
FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.
Cancer?!?!? Ok, please watch what u say. Saying someone is cancer?? It’s too much already. Have u ever lost anyone due to cancer?? I have, my mom and my FIL and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Seriously, stop it with the harsh words.
Give it a rest. It's a figure of speech and I'm sure you know that.
That’s exactly the kind of answer I expected u were gonna give.
Posted by Hofstra26
And yes, I've lost too many people to cancer. Hasn't most everyone?
U’ve lost too many people to cancer? Even more of a reason to not say someone is cancer then. Can’t u use another belittling word to use instead? Better yet, maybe ur good deed of the day can be not to degrade anyone for the night.
Your fake outrage over a figure of speech is utterly ridiculous. Give it a rest. 
Message edited 9/30/2021 10:36:31 PM.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 10:34 PM |
| |
|
soontobemommyof2
My boys...my everything <3
Member since 4/15 3635 total posts
Name:
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.
You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.
Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?
Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.
This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.
FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.
Cancer?!?!? Ok, please watch what u say. Saying someone is cancer?? It’s too much already. Have u ever lost anyone due to cancer?? I have, my mom and my FIL and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Seriously, stop it with the harsh words.
Give it a rest. It's a figure of speech and I'm sure you know that.
That’s exactly the kind of answer I expected u were gonna give.
Posted by Hofstra26
And yes, I've lost too many people to cancer. Hasn't most everyone?
U’ve lost too many people to cancer? Even more of a reason to not say someone is cancer then. Can’t u use another belittling word to use instead? Better yet, maybe ur good deed of the day can be not to degrade anyone for the night.
Your fake outrage over a figure of speech is utterly ridiculous. Give it a rest.
Never mind. I forgot u’re the kind of person that can’t see when they’re on the wrong, let alone admit it. Nothing else for me to say.
Message edited 9/30/2021 11:19:40 PM.
|
| Posted 9/30/21 11:18 PM |
| |
|
|
|
Re: Psst....Good deeds
Posted by Hofstra26
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by mommy2devin
Posted by windyweather21
Posted by jellybean78
Posted by soontobemommyof2
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by KarenK122
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Posted by JennP
Posted by Sash
Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.
It's amusing to see how he triggers you.
But I'm curious, what are you guys called?
Windy Weather's Wind Bags?
Windy Weather's Blow Hards?
Hazeleyes and her Guys?
He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?
Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.
And no you didn't.
Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.
Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.
People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.
The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.
She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.
I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.
There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.
Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)
I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.
Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.
And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.
No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:
- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.
- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.
While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.
This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.
The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.
As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.
There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.
This is what some of us have tried to say several times.
Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.
Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.
Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.
I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?
I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.
Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.
I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.
You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.
Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?
Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.
This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.
FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.
I.can't. You find THIS perfectly ok to attack and be nasty instead of just ignoring the posts and moving along. You just can NOT do it.
Here are just 2 posts I came along that shows how I have been treated on here when the high road could have been taken and just ignored but the self control is absence in many people on this board:
From you:
B!tch. Listen good. If I EVER hear you bring up my life, my family, my anything again I will stop at NOTHING to have you and your BS permanently removed from this site. I have had enough of your f@$king bu!!sit and your INCESSANTANT attacks on people's personal lives like kling and your creepy OBESSION with posters on here. Just shut your dumb, ignorant mouth.
WTF are you even on here for??? NOBODY can stand you on these boards. Only a loser would continue to post even after everyone got her banned, can't stand her and doesn't care about a single thing she says. GET A LIFE. You're one of the saddest individuals I have ever seen on these boards. Pathetic joke.
Don't EVER talk about my personal life on here again. You know NOTHING about me and I am sick of your dumb f@#king assumptions. Are we clear?
From Naturalmama:
You are a piece of shit human being. Stop being such a passive aggressive low life. I really feel bad for your children that they have you as a mother. Go F yourself loser.
|
| Posted 10/1/21 8:34 AM |
| |
|
| Pages: << 3 4 5 [6] 7 8 9 |
Potentially Related Topics:
Currently 642326 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
|
Long Island Bridal Shows
|
