Re: Psst....Good deeds

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Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.

It's amusing to see how he triggers you.

But I'm curious, what are you guys called?

Windy Weather's Wind Bags?

Windy Weather's Blow Hards?

Hazeleyes and her Guys?

He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?

Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.

And no you didn't.

Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.

Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.

People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.

The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.

She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.

I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.

There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.

Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)

I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.

Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.

And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.

No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:

- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.

- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.

While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.

This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.

The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.

As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.

There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.

This is what some of us have tried to say several times.

Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.

Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.

Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.

I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?

I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.

Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.

I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.

You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.

Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?

Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.

This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.

FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.

Cancer?!?!? Ok, please watch what u say. Saying someone is cancer?? It’s too much already. Have u ever lost anyone due to cancer?? I have, my mom and my FIL and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Seriously, stop it with the harsh words.

Re: Psst....Good deeds

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Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.

It's amusing to see how he triggers you.

But I'm curious, what are you guys called?

Windy Weather's Wind Bags?

Windy Weather's Blow Hards?

Hazeleyes and her Guys?

He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?

Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.

And no you didn't.

Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.

Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.

People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.

The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.

She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.

I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.

There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.

Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)

I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.

Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.

And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.

No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:

- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.

- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.

While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.

This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.

The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.

As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.

There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.

This is what some of us have tried to say several times.

Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.

Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.

Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.

I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?

I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.

Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.

I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.

You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.

Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?

Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.

This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.

FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.

Cancer?!?!? Ok, please watch what u say. Saying someone is cancer?? It’s too much already. Have u ever lost anyone due to cancer?? I have, my mom and my FIL and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Seriously, stop it with the harsh words.

Give it a rest. It's a figure of speech and I'm sure you know that.

That’s exactly the kind of answer I expected u were gonna give.

Posted by Hofstra26

And yes, I've lost too many people to cancer. Hasn't most everyone?

U’ve lost too many people to cancer? Even more of a reason to not say someone is cancer then. Can’t u use another belittling word to use instead? Better yet, maybe ur good deed of the day can be not to degrade anyone for the night.

Re: Psst....Good deeds

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Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.

It's amusing to see how he triggers you.

But I'm curious, what are you guys called?

Windy Weather's Wind Bags?

Windy Weather's Blow Hards?

Hazeleyes and her Guys?

He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?

Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.

And no you didn't.

Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.

Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.

People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.

The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.

She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.

I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.

There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.

Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)

I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.

Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.

And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.

No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:

- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.

- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.

While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.

This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.

The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.

As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.

There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.

This is what some of us have tried to say several times.

Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.

Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.

Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.

I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?

I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.

Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.

I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.

You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.

Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?

Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.

This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.

FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.

Cancer?!?!? Ok, please watch what u say. Saying someone is cancer?? It’s too much already. Have u ever lost anyone due to cancer?? I have, my mom and my FIL and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. Seriously, stop it with the harsh words.

Give it a rest. It's a figure of speech and I'm sure you know that.

That’s exactly the kind of answer I expected u were gonna give.

Posted by Hofstra26

And yes, I've lost too many people to cancer. Hasn't most everyone?

U’ve lost too many people to cancer? Even more of a reason to not say someone is cancer then. Can’t u use another belittling word to use instead? Better yet, maybe ur good deed of the day can be not to degrade anyone for the night.

Your fake outrage over a figure of speech is utterly ridiculous. Give it a rest.

Never mind. I forgot u’re the kind of person that can’t see when they’re on the wrong, let alone admit it. Nothing else for me to say.

Re: Psst....Good deeds

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Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!

If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.

Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!

You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.

You are literally insane.

The fact that you both started this thread and continue to come back to argue with EVERYONE over what constitutes a good deed, how one should go about their good deed and to criticize anyone for doing a good deed is next level, EPIC, freaking crazy.

Something is wrong with you. Seriously.

As you continue to post on said thread

Re: Psst....Good deeds

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Posted by Hofstra26

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Posted by blu6385

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Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!

If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.

Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!

You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.

You are literally insane.

The fact that you both started this thread and continue to come back to argue with EVERYONE over what constitutes a good deed, how one should go about their good deed and to criticize anyone for doing a good deed is next level, EPIC, freaking crazy.

Something is wrong with you. Seriously.

As you continue to post on said thread

You keep saying this But did you think you can just post a stupid opinion and not get responses ? Are you new to message boards

Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by Sherlock123

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!

If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.

Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!

You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.

You are literally insane.

The fact that you both started this thread and continue to come back to argue with EVERYONE over what constitutes a good deed, how one should go about their good deed and to criticize anyone for doing a good deed is next level, EPIC, freaking crazy.

Something is wrong with you. Seriously.

As you continue to post on said thread

You keep saying this But did you think you can just post a stupid opinion and not get responses ? Are you new to message boards

Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Sherlock123

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!

If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.

Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!

You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.

You are literally insane.

The fact that you both started this thread and continue to come back to argue with EVERYONE over what constitutes a good deed, how one should go about their good deed and to criticize anyone for doing a good deed is next level, EPIC, freaking crazy.

Something is wrong with you. Seriously.

As you continue to post on said thread

You keep saying this But did you think you can just post a stupid opinion and not get responses ? Are you new to message boards

IGNORE THIS POSTER, THEY ALREADY DEACTIVATED THEIR ACCOUNT. Guess they thought they would be swift and use a new name but they don't have it to keep on posting with their old name or under this name....this is the response I got back before deactivation...


No sweetheart. It’s you. You need to grow up. You’re obviously a child. Stop posting stupid shit on the internet to get a reaction. It’s really embarrassing for you.

Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Sherlock123

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!

If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.

Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!

You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.

You are literally insane.

The fact that you both started this thread and continue to come back to argue with EVERYONE over what constitutes a good deed, how one should go about their good deed and to criticize anyone for doing a good deed is next level, EPIC, freaking crazy.

Something is wrong with you. Seriously.

As you continue to post on said thread

You keep saying this But did you think you can just post a stupid opinion and not get responses ? Are you new to message boards

IGNORE THIS POSTER, THEY ALREADY DEACTIVATED THEIR ACCOUNT. Guess they thought they would be swift and use a new name but they don't have it to keep on posting with their old name or under this name....this is the response I got back before deactivation...


No sweetheart. It’s you. You need to grow up. You’re obviously a child. Stop posting stupid shit on the internet to get a reaction. It’s really embarrassing for you.

Why would any ignore good advice? She's 100% correct

Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Sherlock123

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!

If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.

Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!

You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.

You are literally insane.

The fact that you both started this thread and continue to come back to argue with EVERYONE over what constitutes a good deed, how one should go about their good deed and to criticize anyone for doing a good deed is next level, EPIC, freaking crazy.

Something is wrong with you. Seriously.

As you continue to post on said thread

You keep saying this But did you think you can just post a stupid opinion and not get responses ? Are you new to message boards

IGNORE THIS POSTER, THEY ALREADY DEACTIVATED THEIR ACCOUNT. Guess they thought they would be swift and use a new name but they don't have it to keep on posting with their old name or under this name....this is the response I got back before deactivation...


No sweetheart. It’s you. You need to grow up. You’re obviously a child. Stop posting stupid shit on the internet to get a reaction. It’s really embarrassing for you.

Why would any ignore good advice? She's 100% correct

Just another keyboard warrior who doesn't have the nerve to post under their name here. Why deactivate so fast too?

Message edited 10/1/2021 10:00:48 AM.

Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by mommy2devin

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by mommy2devin

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by jellybean78

Posted by soontobemommyof2

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by JennP

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by JennP

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by JennP

Posted by Sash

Posted by JennP

Posted by Sash

Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.

It's amusing to see how he triggers you.

But I'm curious, what are you guys called?

Windy Weather's Wind Bags?

Windy Weather's Blow Hards?

Hazeleyes and her Guys?

He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?

Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.

And no you didn't.

Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.

Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.

People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.

The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.

She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.

I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.

There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.

Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)

I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.

Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.

And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.

No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:

- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.

- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.

While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.

This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.

The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.

As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.

There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.

This is what some of us have tried to say several times.

Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.

Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.

Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.

I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?

I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.

Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.

I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.

You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.

Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?

Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.

This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.

FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.

I.can't. You find THIS perfectly ok to attack and be nasty instead of just ignoring the posts and moving along. You just can NOT do it.

Here are just 2 posts I came along that shows how I have been treated on here when the high road could have been taken and just ignored but the self control is absence in many people on this board:

From you:

B!tch. Listen good. If I EVER hear you bring up my life, my family, my anything again I will stop at NOTHING to have you and your BS permanently removed from this site. I have had enough of your f@$king bu!!sit and your INCESSANTANT attacks on people's personal lives like kling and your creepy OBESSION with posters on here. Just shut your dumb, ignorant mouth.

WTF are you even on here for??? NOBODY can stand you on these boards. Only a loser would continue to post even after everyone got her banned, can't stand her and doesn't care about a single thing she says. GET A LIFE. You're one of the saddest individuals I have ever seen on these boards. Pathetic joke.

Don't EVER talk about my personal life on here again. You know NOTHING about me and I am sick of your dumb f@#king assumptions. Are we clear?

From Naturalmama:

You are a piece of shit human being. Stop being such a passive aggressive low life. I really feel bad for your children that they have you as a mother. Go F yourself loser.

Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Sherlock123

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!

If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.

Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!

You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.

You are literally insane.

The fact that you both started this thread and continue to come back to argue with EVERYONE over what constitutes a good deed, how one should go about their good deed and to criticize anyone for doing a good deed is next level, EPIC, freaking crazy.

Something is wrong with you. Seriously.

As you continue to post on said thread

You keep saying this But did you think you can just post a stupid opinion and not get responses ? Are you new to message boards

IGNORE THIS POSTER, THEY ALREADY DEACTIVATED THEIR ACCOUNT. Guess they thought they would be swift and use a new name but they don't have it to keep on posting with their old name or under this name....this is the response I got back before deactivation...


No sweetheart. It’s you. You need to grow up. You’re obviously a child. Stop posting stupid shit on the internet to get a reaction. It’s really embarrassing for you.

Why would any ignore good advice? She's 100% correct

Just another keyboard warrior who doesn't have the nerve to post under their name here. Why deactivate so fast too?

Other than me - who you and your buddies have "outed" - who has their name on here? No one. If you're now calling out people for not posting under their "names" why don't you share yours? Hmmm...would it be because you're just another keyboard warrior yourself? Yeah...pretty sure that's exactly what you are

You, more than anyone, should know that a screen name means nothing - you can change it anytime you want, right???

Re: Psst....Good deeds

Posted by mommy2devin

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by mommy2devin

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by mommy2devin

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by jellybean78

Posted by soontobemommyof2

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by JennP

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by JennP

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by JennP

Posted by Sash

Posted by JennP

Posted by Sash

Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.

It's amusing to see how he triggers you.

But I'm curious, what are you guys called?

Windy Weather's Wind Bags?

Windy Weather's Blow Hards?

Hazeleyes and her Guys?

He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?

Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.

And no you didn't.

Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.

Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.

People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.

The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.

She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.

I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.

There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.

Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)

I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.

Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.

And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.

No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:

- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.

- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.

While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.

This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.

The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.

As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.

There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.

This is what some of us have tried to say several times.

Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.

Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.

Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.

I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?

I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.

Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.

I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.

You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.

Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?

Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.

This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.

FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.

I.can't. You find THIS perfectly ok to attack and be nasty instead of just ignoring the posts and moving along. You just can NOT do it.

Here are just 2 posts I came along that shows how I have been treated on here when the high road could have been taken and just ignored but the self control is absence in many people on this board:

From you:

B!tch. Listen good. If I EVER hear you bring up my life, my family, my anything again I will stop at NOTHING to have you and your BS permanently removed from this site. I have had enough of your f@$king bu!!sit and your INCESSANTANT attacks on people's personal lives like kling and your creepy OBESSION with posters on here. Just shut your dumb, ignorant mouth.

WTF are you even on here for??? NOBODY can stand you on these boards. Only a loser would continue to post even after everyone got her banned, can't stand her and doesn't care about a single thing she says. GET A LIFE. You're one of the saddest individuals I have ever seen on these boards. Pathetic joke.

Don't EVER talk about my personal life on here again. You know NOTHING about me and I am sick of your dumb f@#king assumptions. Are we clear?

From Naturalmama:

You are a piece of shit human being. Stop being such a passive aggressive low life. I really feel bad for your children that they have you as a mother. Go F yourself loser.

Oh come on with this. Why not post the entire context of what these posts were. These were REACTIONS to your posts. You conveniently don’t post that. YOU come at them with personal information to out them or bring up their families and children but that’s ok? They aren’t supposed to react???? ONE LAST TIME. YOU.ARE.NOT.A.VICTIM. Not even close. These are responses to your nastiness.

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The quoting is getting too long. You just play nice nasty. You post passive aggressive insults and threats that are just as nasty. You say wretched things to people on this board and you know it. But you say it without saying the words. The digs at peoples relationships, home life, children….. its worse than directly saying how one feels sometimes. I don’t understand you. It’s craziness. You start sh** just to get to people and you get off on that. Why? So you can have a good laugh at someone’s expense? That makes you feel good?? But right….. you’re the victim. Sad really. Scary too that you can be that much of a sociopath and people defend you. And I’m not saying that to be offensive at all. I really think you must have a personality disorder.

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Posted by windyweather21

Posted by jellybean78

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Posted by KarenK122

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Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.

It's amusing to see how he triggers you.

But I'm curious, what are you guys called?

Windy Weather's Wind Bags?

Windy Weather's Blow Hards?

Hazeleyes and her Guys?

He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?

Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.

And no you didn't.

Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.

Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.

People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.

The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.

She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.

I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.

There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.

Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)

I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.

Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.

And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.

No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:

- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.

- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.

While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.

This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.

The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.

As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.

There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.

This is what some of us have tried to say several times.

Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.

Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.

Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.

I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?

I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.

Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.

I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.

You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.

Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?

Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.

This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.

FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.

I.can't. You find THIS perfectly ok to attack and be nasty instead of just ignoring the posts and moving along. You just can NOT do it.

Here are just 2 posts I came along that shows how I have been treated on here when the high road could have been taken and just ignored but the self control is absence in many people on this board:

From you:

B!tch. Listen good. If I EVER hear you bring up my life, my family, my anything again I will stop at NOTHING to have you and your BS permanently removed from this site. I have had enough of your f@$king bu!!sit and your INCESSANTANT attacks on people's personal lives like kling and your creepy OBESSION with posters on here. Just shut your dumb, ignorant mouth.

WTF are you even on here for??? NOBODY can stand you on these boards. Only a loser would continue to post even after everyone got her banned, can't stand her and doesn't care about a single thing she says. GET A LIFE. You're one of the saddest individuals I have ever seen on these boards. Pathetic joke.

Don't EVER talk about my personal life on here again. You know NOTHING about me and I am sick of your dumb f@#king assumptions. Are we clear?

From Naturalmama:

You are a piece of shit human being. Stop being such a passive aggressive low life. I really feel bad for your children that they have you as a mother. Go F yourself loser.

Oh come on with this. Why not post the entire context of what these posts were. These were REACTIONS to your posts. You conveniently don’t post that. YOU come at them with personal information to out them or bring up their families and children but that’s ok? They aren’t supposed to react???? ONE LAST TIME. YOU.ARE.NOT.A.VICTIM. Not even close. These are responses to your nastiness.

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Posted by mommy2devin

The quoting is getting too long. You just play nice nasty. You post passive aggressive insults and threats that are just as nasty. You say wretched things to people on this board and you know it. But you say it without saying the words. The digs at peoples relationships, home life, children….. its worse than directly saying how one feels sometimes. I don’t understand you. It’s craziness. You start sh** just to get to people and you get off on that. Why? So you can have a good laugh at someone’s expense? That makes you feel good?? But right….. you’re the victim. Sad really. Scary too that you can be that much of a sociopath and people defend you. And I’m not saying that to be offensive at all. I really think you must have a personality disorder.

Thanks, Dr. I'll look into that right away. Just as fast as you did with your situation that you never left.

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Posted by mommy2devin

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by mommy2devin

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by mommy2devin

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by jellybean78

Posted by soontobemommyof2

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by JennP

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Posted by JennP

Posted by Sash

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Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.

It's amusing to see how he triggers you.

But I'm curious, what are you guys called?

Windy Weather's Wind Bags?

Windy Weather's Blow Hards?

Hazeleyes and her Guys?

He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?

Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.

And no you didn't.

Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.

Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.

People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.

The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.

She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.

I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.

There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.

Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)

I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.

Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.

And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.

No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:

- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.

- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.

While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.

This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.

The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.

As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.

There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.

This is what some of us have tried to say several times.

Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.

Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.

Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.

I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?

I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.

Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.

I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.

You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.

Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?

Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.

This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.

FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.

I.can't. You find THIS perfectly ok to attack and be nasty instead of just ignoring the posts and moving along. You just can NOT do it.

Here are just 2 posts I came along that shows how I have been treated on here when the high road could have been taken and just ignored but the self control is absence in many people on this board:

From you:

B!tch. Listen good. If I EVER hear you bring up my life, my family, my anything again I will stop at NOTHING to have you and your BS permanently removed from this site. I have had enough of your f@$king bu!!sit and your INCESSANTANT attacks on people's personal lives like kling and your creepy OBESSION with posters on here. Just shut your dumb, ignorant mouth.

WTF are you even on here for??? NOBODY can stand you on these boards. Only a loser would continue to post even after everyone got her banned, can't stand her and doesn't care about a single thing she says. GET A LIFE. You're one of the saddest individuals I have ever seen on these boards. Pathetic joke.

Don't EVER talk about my personal life on here again. You know NOTHING about me and I am sick of your dumb f@#king assumptions. Are we clear?

From Naturalmama:

You are a piece of shit human being. Stop being such a passive aggressive low life. I really feel bad for your children that they have you as a mother. Go F yourself loser.

Oh come on with this. Why not post the entire context of what these posts were. These were REACTIONS to your posts. You conveniently don’t post that. YOU come at them with personal information to out them or bring up their families and children but that’s ok? They aren’t supposed to react???? ONE LAST TIME. YOU.ARE.NOT.A.VICTIM. Not even close. These are responses to your nastiness.

Sad that you would even have to see what was said before to say that speaking to someone like that is ok.

Message edited 10/1/2021 10:39:08 AM.

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Posted by windyweather21

Posted by mommy2devin

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Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by mommy2devin

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by mommy2devin

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by jellybean78

Posted by soontobemommyof2

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by JennP

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by JennP

Posted by KarenK122

Posted by JennP

Posted by Sash

Posted by JennP

Posted by Sash

Goldenrod and his “Only Fans”. Boy you go with your bad self.

It's amusing to see how he triggers you.

But I'm curious, what are you guys called?

Windy Weather's Wind Bags?

Windy Weather's Blow Hards?

Hazeleyes and her Guys?

He’s not a trigger and I gave him a compliment. Do you not know what that is?

Yes he is. Not everyone has forgotten how you've attacked him in the past.

And no you didn't.

Honestly - and this is to whomever it applies to, not just the QP - anyone who would come on here to defend someone who went out of their way to start a post mocking someone for a good deed should reexamine their life choices.

Especially when - even lower - that same OP MOCKED someone for donning a mask to make someone feel comfortable and victim blamed someone who was/seems to have once been in a terrible DV situation.

People act all shocked that this gets called out. Her behavior shouldn't be tolerated and she should be removed from the site. That way none of this would even need to be discussed.

The behavior from a good portion of this site should not be tolerated. For what it's worth, most people do not defend what Windy is saying, they are defending her against the hostile comments she receives. There are very few times I have ever heard windy go after someone with the vile intent that some on this site do to her almost daily. Don't agree with her, ignore her posts. When you stoop to name calling, wishing her dead, saying she needs to be banned every day is what the problem is, not her opinions whether you agree with them or not.

She can post that that today is sunny and the same group of people will come out and start with her, every single time. That is what derails every single thread. Everyone is entitled to their opinions but if you are looking for behaviors that should not be on a forum, then she is the least of the problems.

I consider myself a pretty level headed person. I don't agree with many opinions on here and I know people do not agree with many of mine but I have never called someone out and called them names. I can't say the same hasn't happened to me. The same group that goes after windy also called me a racist, cursed at me and mocked me multiple times throughout the years. It is not ok.

There are several examples listed, and that have been listed elsewhere, that make it clear she repeatedly violates the rules of common decency and the spirit of a chatboard community. It's hard to take anyone who ignores that seriously.

Your whataboutism is irrelevant. Just because others should go, that doesn't mean she should stay. Of course it's not ok that you were cursed at and those people should also be removed or given a warning or whatever depending on exactly what happened. (I don't give a shit that you were called a racist, because to be anti racist we need to get a lot less pissed about that and a lot more about actual racism.)

I highly doubt that if she just posted something positive that was genuinely free of passive aggressive commentary that she would get the response you claim she'd get.

Do you think the nasty comments she gets and the repeated bullying she receives from multiple members is in the spirit of the chat board community? People can not like someone and still act civil.

And I absolutely do not mean you because while you answer her occasionally, it is usually with a thought out non degrading answer or point of view.

No, I do not. I agree with you that people have been unkind to her. I think there are two crucial differences though:

- I think those things are usually said in response to her shit stirring. Today's thread is a perfect example. The whole OP was a really lousy thing to do on multiple levels.

- I have never seen anyone on the other "side" take ownership for anything at ALL. KK for example said something that she has repeatedly taken ownership and apologized for. I've seen the "b" word tossed around recently, someone called Goldenrod "stupid", etc. But NONE of those things ever get called out or apologized for either.

While we're on the subject of KK, I do not think she has done the things you are suggesting at all. It's not her style. Maybe you are thinking of a different poster but I am tired of people trying to "both sides" this situation. WW is an outlier and should be removed. It has NOTHING to do with her views. I disagree with several people on here - some of whom hold beliefs that I think are just awful but who have abided by the rules and have every right to post on here.

This isn't rocket science. People get banned, warned, removed, whatever all the time from social media groups for far less. But it's a free for all around here for reasons I don't understand.

The difference is that there are always going to be disagreements and harsh words said against people sometimes but then it ends and people move on. While I don't condone it, that's life. With Windy every time she speaks people are being vile and it never ends. That is not all on her. As adults we are all responsible for how we react to situations. Those that are reacting with extreme personal negativity and nasty comments are just as responsible for the bad behavior as the initial person. People need to grow up.

As far as KK and a few others, I am not going to give specific examples because I personally do not have time for that nor do I think that is not the type of person I am, but I am not mistaking her for someone else and yes everything people blame windy for she has done the same. We hear all the time how windy is awful because she brings up old posts and remembers personal information, well KK just did the same exact thing to her today and others have as well on different days.

There have always been cliques on this site and the site before this. If you were not part of the "cool" crowd you either didn't get your questions answered or you were made fun of. It is really pathetic. If windy wasn't here, someone else would just take her place on the receiving end.

This is what some of us have tried to say several times.

Exactly. I'm mind blown at the amount of middle aged women with no self control..the same ones over and over and over and over responding to WWs post. It's worse than a middle school clique.

Listen ya'll clearly don't like WW and that's fine then just move on when she posts something..I mean is that so hard?? Seriously it's like a bunch of mean girls that can't control themselves. The nastiness and the name calling is incredible. I wonder how some of these women were in HS..
Do you guys have friends in real life?? because I couldn't picture any one of my friends saying and implying some of the shitt that has been said on these boards the past few months...I mean even my 5 year old has more self control.

Is have friends who “tell it like it is” but not once does anyone attack each other or curse each other out like this.

I wonder if they would hang out with people IRL that would come at them like they come at people online. Why would anyone accept to be treated like that and would allow that?

I wonder how many girl, friends, some of these women actually have as IME women like this don’t get along with other women IRL.

Could say exactly same about you. Who would want a friend like you? Now your crew can tell me I came at you. Whatever. You are nastier in way more ways than anyone else on here. The worst part is that after you passive aggressively come at someone on here you then clutch your pearls and say “why is everybody always picking on me”? It’s crazy. Legitimately crazy.

I guess my friends whom I have had for many many years. Many since high school too. I have never had any issues making friends.
I don’t curse and yell at people. I am real and not fake.
I don’t flip out on people and then blame any issues I have had that day on that. It is wrong and if you are that bad, emotionally that day, get off social media.

You’re right. Exactly right. If I was that bad emotionally any day where I had to take a positive post about someone donating blood and turn it into a drama ensuing passive aggressive attack on the nicest person on this forum, let’s say someone like Golden perhaps, I should probably stay off social media. That’s really good advice.

Stop comparing this thread to me being cursed at, told I should die, I could go on. Would you like me to show you examples as I have many?

Boasting and needing a pat on the back for doing good deeds is bad karma. Sorry if you don’t agree. I feel bad for people who find the need to tell people everything they do in life. It sounds like they don’t have the support system they should with their own friends, spouses and family.

This comment is EXACTLY why most people on here cannot stand you and go at you time and time again. You constantly make these passive aggressive comments and condescending assumptions about people's lives and then cry victim when you're called out. Cut the $hit and stick to the discussion without bringing people's personal lives into it and most everyone would stop "attacking" you. You get back what you dish out on here.

FTR.........every single time you've been banned in the last year everyone manages to avoid all of this drama and have discussions that stay on topic. Quite frankly, you're a cancer on this board and your victim shtick is as transparent as glass.

I.can't. You find THIS perfectly ok to attack and be nasty instead of just ignoring the posts and moving along. You just can NOT do it.

Here are just 2 posts I came along that shows how I have been treated on here when the high road could have been taken and just ignored but the self control is absence in many people on this board:

From you:

B!tch. Listen good. If I EVER hear you bring up my life, my family, my anything again I will stop at NOTHING to have you and your BS permanently removed from this site. I have had enough of your f@$king bu!!sit and your INCESSANTANT attacks on people's personal lives like kling and your creepy OBESSION with posters on here. Just shut your dumb, ignorant mouth.

WTF are you even on here for??? NOBODY can stand you on these boards. Only a loser would continue to post even after everyone got her banned, can't stand her and doesn't care about a single thing she says. GET A LIFE. You're one of the saddest individuals I have ever seen on these boards. Pathetic joke.

Don't EVER talk about my personal life on here again. You know NOTHING about me and I am sick of your dumb f@#king assumptions. Are we clear?

From Naturalmama:

You are a piece of shit human being. Stop being such a passive aggressive low life. I really feel bad for your children that they have you as a mother. Go F yourself loser.

Oh come on with this. Why not post the entire context of what these posts were. These were REACTIONS to your posts. You conveniently don’t post that. YOU come at them with personal information to out them or bring up their families and children but that’s ok? They aren’t supposed to react???? ONE LAST TIME. YOU.ARE.NOT.A.VICTIM. Not even close. These are responses to your nastiness.

Sad that you would even have to see what was said before to say that speaking to someone like that is ok.

This comment is hilarious. LOLOL Sad? Honey, taking comments out of context and trying to play them off as if you were attacked out of nowhere is some kind of next level crazy. You're a condescending, passive aggressive, psycho who repeatedly goes after people's personal lives (of which you know NOTHING about) and then you have the ordacity to clutch your pearls and cry bullying when people go after you. GTFOH with your nonsense. You really are socially inept, seek help.

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VB/windy/hazel........... Never in my life have I come across someone so certifiably crazy on a forum until you. There is definitely something not right with you.

Your comments are odd, your repetitive toddler like questions are strange, your utter obsession with people's homes, children, marriages, money and personal lives is creepy, your constant need for attention from strangers is desperate and your endless, rapid fire posting even when nobody is replying to you is just sad. You're a head case.

You try very hard to make everyone believe how much smarter you are than them, how much "cooler" you are than them, how much of a better parent you are than them, how much more experienced you are than them and how much more fabulous your life is than theirs. It's beyond strange and reeks of utter desperation and blazing insecurity. I pity you. Truly, I do.

I'm not going to continue with this little pissing match that you so enjoy and waste my day. Your comments are nonsense, your craving for constant drama is getting old and your fabricated bullied and victimized routine is just boring at this point.

Enjoy your day. I'm done with you.

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If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!

If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.

Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!

You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.

You are literally insane.

The fact that you both started this thread and continue to come back to argue with EVERYONE over what constitutes a good deed, how one should go about their good deed and to criticize anyone for doing a good deed is next level, EPIC, freaking crazy.

Something is wrong with you. Seriously.

As you continue to post on said thread

You keep saying this But did you think you can just post a stupid opinion and not get responses ? Are you new to message boards

IGNORE THIS POSTER, THEY ALREADY DEACTIVATED THEIR ACCOUNT. Guess they thought they would be swift and use a new name but they don't have it to keep on posting with their old name or under this name....this is the response I got back before deactivation...


No sweetheart. It’s you. You need to grow up. You’re obviously a child. Stop posting stupid shit on the internet to get a reaction. It’s really embarrassing for you.

Why would any ignore good advice? She's 100% correct

Just another keyboard warrior who doesn't have the nerve to post under their name here. Why deactivate so fast too?

Other than me - who you and your buddies have "outed" - who has their name on here? No one. If you're now calling out people for not posting under their "names" why don't you share yours? Hmmm...would it be because you're just another keyboard warrior yourself? Yeah...pretty sure that's exactly what you are

You, more than anyone, should know that a screen name means nothing - you can change it anytime you want, right???

Just because you are friends with people outside here doesn't mean other people are not.

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Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by chilltocam

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Sherlock123

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by Hofstra26

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

Posted by windyweather21

Posted by blu6385

If this was posted just to call out another post then really it was not needed. Should have just commented on that post.

If it wasn’t thanks for the information pretty sure most people know that and in the long run who cares??!! Let them brag about it you don’t want to to consider it a good deed anymore then don’t!

And sometime saying good deed you did may get others to do a good deed how is that a bad thing??!!

If you need someone else to motivate you to do good deeds, then you really don't have a giving heart.

Really??!!!

I do things on my own but if I didn’t and someone did something I wouldn’t of thought of and I did it that means I Don’t have a giving heart??!! Should I not do it cause I didn’t think of it.

You don’t think that sounds a little insane?!

You make it sound like someone would only do a good deed because someone else did. Again those are followers and if they have to tell everyone what they did (not matter if they decided on their own or got a push from someone else) it defeats the purpose.

You can mention things that can be done WITHOUT patting yourself on the back at the same time.

You are literally insane.

The fact that you both started this thread and continue to come back to argue with EVERYONE over what constitutes a good deed, how one should go about their good deed and to criticize anyone for doing a good deed is next level, EPIC, freaking crazy.

Something is wrong with you. Seriously.

As you continue to post on said thread

You keep saying this But did you think you can just post a stupid opinion and not get responses ? Are you new to message boards

IGNORE THIS POSTER, THEY ALREADY DEACTIVATED THEIR ACCOUNT. Guess they thought they would be swift and use a new name but they don't have it to keep on posting with their old name or under this name....this is the response I got back before deactivation...


No sweetheart. It’s you. You need to grow up. You’re obviously a child. Stop posting stupid shit on the internet to get a reaction. It’s really embarrassing for you.

Why would any ignore good advice? She's 100% correct

Just another keyboard warrior who doesn't have the nerve to post under their name here. Why deactivate so fast too?

Other than me - who you and your buddies have "outed" - who has their name on here? No one. If you're now calling out people for not posting under their "names" why don't you share yours? Hmmm...would it be because you're just another keyboard warrior yourself? Yeah...pretty sure that's exactly what you are

You, more than anyone, should know that a screen name means nothing - you can change it anytime you want, right???

Just because you are friends with people outside here doesn't mean other people are not.

I have no idea what you mean by this, in the context of this discussion

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