Since divorce is so common, do you think marriage is "over-rated" ?
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LUCY
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Re: Since divorce is so common, do you think marriage is "over-rated" ?
Posted by kdelace
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I am divorced.. I really wanted it to work I did .... unfortunately it didn't and I am now remarrying .. do I take it lightly no ... but to be honest .. I am not staying with someone married or not if I am not happy bottom line .. hopefully I can be happy who knows a lot of things changed when I got married ALOT so how can you ever tell?
I agree.. I was also married and really wanted it to work. and like you it didnt. I did not take my marriage lightly but realized soon after that this wasnt the life I wanted, even though i had loved my husband to death.
I believe in marriage and hope to get married again someday. but I also believe people get caught up in the moment and sometimes dont realize that marriage takes work by two people. You have this vision of what you want and sometimes real life gets in the way. At least thats what I went through.
Me Too...I was in the same boat.
I agree with this whole heartedly, or not taking marriage seriously. I never anticipated divorce... and I dont think that I was taking my vows lightly.... I just think sometimes things cannot work out no matter how much one person gives or tries. Also, I don't wish divorce on anyone... because it is not something that one goes through lightly.....
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Posted 7/18/06 4:05 PM |
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Re: Since divorce is so common, do you think marriage is "over-rated" ?
I definately think marriage is underrated. People just give up too easily... a marriage is work but I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. I look at my parents who have been married for 36 years and hope that my husband and I can be as happy as they are and set a good example for our children. I see through my DH what divorce can do to a child and I would never wish it on anyone-he had a tough childhood as a result of his parents divorce. We are committed to making our marriage work and last until death do us part.......
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Posted 7/18/06 4:22 PM |
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