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So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

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headoverheels
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LB

Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

i cannot believe that people actually do this! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 7:02 AM
 
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glinda-goodwitch
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

Wow, just wow.

Posted 6/24/09 7:08 AM
 

JP826
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

I'm speachless.

The nerve of some people. What is the purpose of a shower then?

Posted 6/24/09 8:29 AM
 

kimbalina
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

My aunt was asking for a nice way to put the SAME thing on a shower invite for a cousin.

I said there was no NICE way!! It is rude! Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 8:47 AM
 

JennZ
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

EWW, that takes the cake in the tacky dept.

Posted 6/24/09 8:51 AM
 

sunnyplus3
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

that person would get nothing more than a card from me if I were not attending.
Actually, I'd probably send an etiquette book as my gift Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 9:24 AM
 

theburbshereicome
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

Is the shower BYOB too? geeshhhh

Posted 6/24/09 9:24 AM
 

Peainapod
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

I did wedding invites for a coworkers cousin and on her reception card she put "monetary gifts preferred"

i tried my hardest to talk her out of that but she insisted.

if that was my family, they would buy the biggest boxed gift they could find and haul it to the wedding reception.

Posted 6/24/09 9:25 AM
 

KGools
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Kim

Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

I would make a nice MONETARY donation in her name to a charity of my choice.

That is beyond rude and inappropriate.

Posted 6/24/09 9:25 AM
 

Beth
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

Posted by KellyFG


Actually, I'd probably send an etiquette book as my gift Chat Icon



now there is a gift they could really use

oy

Posted 6/24/09 9:30 AM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

Posted by KellyFG

that person would get nothing more than a card from me if I were not attending.
Actually, I'd probably send an etiquette book as my gift Chat Icon



exactly what I was thinking. Either that or a gift card for a miss manners course.

Posted 6/24/09 9:41 AM
 

TheLorax
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

Ewww no. Because they wrote that, I would be sure to give them a present. Greedy basstards.

Posted 6/24/09 9:43 AM
 

MST9106
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

That's terrible!

Posted 6/24/09 9:45 AM
 

anonttcer
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Meaning a NON ttcer!

Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

Why bother having a shower?
They should just email everyone the routing numbers to their bank accts and you guys can just make an electronic transfer of funds into it...
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Posted 6/24/09 9:51 AM
 

LoveyQ
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

Wow.

Now, did the BRIDE have anything to do with the invites or was it someone else who put it on there? I mean, I guess whoever did the invites probably got that from the bride, but MAYBE she didn't know??? Like maybe she SAID "oh we'd prefer money" like to her friend or mom, but didn't know it was actually put on the invite??

If she did ask for it though, then yikes.

Posted 6/24/09 9:55 AM
 

CrankyPants
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

Posted by drpepper318

Wow totally tacky Chat Icon besides isn't part of a shower seeing what gifts a person got? wouldn't it defeat the purpose if every person gave cash?



Could you imagine the gift opening:

"Oooo, a 50-dollar bill!"

"oooooo, a check for $100, you shouldn't have. Can I exchange it for cash?"

Posted 6/24/09 9:57 AM
 

july06bride
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Nicole

Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

I received an invite from my Dh's cousin whose shower AND wedding invite said, monetary gifts appreciated.

We gave what we wanted anyway- a gift for the shower and money for the wedding

Posted 6/24/09 11:16 AM
 

imthecindyofcindyandkevin
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

Posted by CrankyPants

Posted by drpepper318

Wow totally tacky Chat Icon besides isn't part of a shower seeing what gifts a person got? wouldn't it defeat the purpose if every person gave cash?



Could you imagine the gift opening:

"Oooo, a 50-dollar bill!"

"oooooo, a check for $100, you shouldn't have. Can I exchange it for cash?"



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Bridal Bingo would be fun!! Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 11:59 AM
 

freshstuff
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Michelle

Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

That is soooo tacky!

Posted 6/24/09 12:42 PM
 

DayDay
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

definitely tacky

Posted 6/24/09 12:52 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

ITA agree very tacky!

With that said I guess it was a good thing I didn't have my DD's invites say "Donations in lieu of gifts to the Bride and Groom may be made to the Mother of the Bride"Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 1:00 PM
 

GraciesMom
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

Fisher Price has a really cute toy piggy bank that plays music when you drop in the plastic coins!

Posted 6/24/09 1:30 PM
 

AnnBrunoXO
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

So are they trying to say they need money to pay for their wedding???

Very tacky!

Posted 6/24/09 7:26 PM
 

Jackie24
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Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

WOW balllllllllllllssssssssss

Posted 6/24/09 8:47 PM
 

Mommy2Boys
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C

Re: So I got a Bridal Shower invite today and it said.....

Posted by GraciesMom

Fisher Price has a really cute toy piggy bank that plays music when you drop in the plastic coins!




Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I like that idea.

Posted 6/24/09 8:56 PM
 
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