Re: Spinoff: Do you put urself in the "position to cheat"

Posted by bethsiar

wow! well said!

Re: Spinoff: Do you put urself in the "position to cheat"

No, never.

Plus, I think I have "MARRIED" written on my forehead. I have more fun trying to hook up my single friends with a cute guy at the bar

Re: Spinoff: Do you put urself in the "position to cheat"

Posted by bethsiar

Posted by evenedan

Unless I'm suddenly standing in my ex's bedroom or something, I don't really see what the "position to cheat" is. Both my husband and I go out to bars with our own friends and even if I drink, I never feel I'm putting myself in a position to cheat. I'm very aware of where the line is and I respect myself and my husband enough to not even flirt with crossing it. If I were to get drunk and throw myself at men or respond to their advances— that's not the position to cheat, that's just being a wh@re. And for people who feel that going out to bars in general and/or partying sans spouse for the night automatically means putting yourself in a position to cheat—Get a Grip! And then go out and get a life!

Also, if a person is going to cheat, it could start anywhere—at work, the grocery store, a restaurant...

wow! well said!