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Have you ever been tested for AIDS/HIV

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Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

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karacg
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

Specifically for HIV yes -- after I found out my ex had been cheating on me.

Posted 3/16/06 7:42 AM
 

leighla
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

I had a serious scare with this.

I broke up with a guy I had been seeing for a couple months - it ended badly. He was supposed to be moving to Las Vegas and I didn't want a long distance thing.

About 3 weeks after we broke up he called to tell me he had tested positive for HIV.

I immediately threw up. And then I procrastinated on getting tested. Chat Icon

It was one of those mental things where I felt like NOT knowing was better than knowing. I finally went and got tested and it was negative. Of course, then you have to go back 6 months later and it was still THANKFULLY negative.

But the kicker is that I saw him about a year later, working at a local bar. I went up to him and said - "You aren't in Vegas?" and he said, "No, and I never was going to - I was testing your loyalty."

Then I said "What about the HIV?" and he said "I don't have it...I wanted you to suffer."

And he WALKED AWAY FROM ME!! Into the back of the bar. I pushed my way into the employees only area and was SCREAMING at him and was promptly and physically removed from the bar.

Can you say PSYCHO??? Chat Icon

Posted 3/16/06 8:17 AM
 

capricorn75
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

Yes, both times I was pg

Posted 3/16/06 8:28 AM
 

baghag
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

Yes, I get tested every year.

Posted 3/16/06 8:29 AM
 

stayandjohn
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

Posted by leighla

I had a serious scare with this.

I broke up with a guy I had been seeing for a couple months - it ended badly. He was supposed to be moving to Las Vegas and I didn't want a long distance thing.

About 3 weeks after we broke up he called to tell me he had tested positive for HIV.

I immediately threw up. And then I procrastinated on getting tested. Chat Icon

It was one of those mental things where I felt like NOT knowing was better than knowing. I finally went and got tested and it was negative. Of course, then you have to go back 6 months later and it was still THANKFULLY negative.

But the kicker is that I saw him about a year later, working at a local bar. I went up to him and said - "You aren't in Vegas?" and he said, "No, and I never was going to - I was testing your loyalty."

Then I said "What about the HIV?" and he said "I don't have it...I wanted you to suffer."

And he WALKED AWAY FROM ME!! Into the back of the bar. I pushed my way into the employees only area and was SCREAMING at him and was promptly and physically removed from the bar.

Can you say PSYCHO??? Chat Icon



Holy crap!!!!!!!! That man was CRUEL!!!!
What a jerkChat Icon

Posted 3/16/06 8:39 AM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

Posted by leighla I pushed my way into the employees only area and was SCREAMING at him and was promptly and physically removed from the bar.

Can you say PSYCHO??? Chat Icon



What an azzhole!
I hope you were screaming "YOU'RE HIV POSTIVE?!"


Posted 3/16/06 9:07 AM
 

MrsSchwags
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

Yes.

Posted 3/16/06 9:24 AM
 

BaroqueMama
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

Yup. Once when I was dating JT, then again when I found out I was pregnant.

Posted 3/16/06 9:31 AM
 

Kirsten
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

yes
When I found out that my ex-fi was cheating on me. then again 2 years later when i got together with FH and asked him to get tested too.

Posted 3/16/06 9:46 AM
 

MrsJ
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

Yes I've been tested several times because I find it reassuring. Plus with all my visits to theRE trying to get pregnant Ive been tested several more times...and since I became PG, I've been tested again. My hospital wont let you leave with your baby unless you get tested!!

Posted 3/16/06 10:24 AM
 

Faithx2
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

Now it's a NYS manditory blood test while pregnant. They just passed this law a few months ago............

Posted 3/16/06 10:28 AM
 

Shanti
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

When she found out I had never had one, a few years ago (right before I met DH) my GYN gave me a full STD test and an HIV test.

Posted 3/16/06 3:17 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

I didn't even know I got tested when I was PG Chat Icon Chat Icon I didn't pay too much attention. So I guess I was tested.

Posted 3/16/06 3:34 PM
 

Moehick
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

Posted by rosaria

Yes...when I found I was pregnant
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Me too

Posted 3/16/06 3:34 PM
 

CowgirlChick97
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?

Posted by Jax430

No. DH and I were each other's firsts, so I never saw a reason.



Same here!

Posted 3/16/06 3:36 PM
 
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