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karacg
Babygirl is 4!
Member since 5/05 17076 total posts
Name: Kara®
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
Specifically for HIV yes -- after I found out my ex had been cheating on me.
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Posted 3/16/06 7:42 AM |
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leighla
Support Cancer Research
Member since 5/05 16353 total posts
Name: Lauren
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
I had a serious scare with this.
I broke up with a guy I had been seeing for a couple months - it ended badly. He was supposed to be moving to Las Vegas and I didn't want a long distance thing.
About 3 weeks after we broke up he called to tell me he had tested positive for HIV.
I immediately threw up. And then I procrastinated on getting tested.
It was one of those mental things where I felt like NOT knowing was better than knowing. I finally went and got tested and it was negative. Of course, then you have to go back 6 months later and it was still THANKFULLY negative.
But the kicker is that I saw him about a year later, working at a local bar. I went up to him and said - "You aren't in Vegas?" and he said, "No, and I never was going to - I was testing your loyalty."
Then I said "What about the HIV?" and he said "I don't have it...I wanted you to suffer."
And he WALKED AWAY FROM ME!! Into the back of the bar. I pushed my way into the employees only area and was SCREAMING at him and was promptly and physically removed from the bar.
Can you say PSYCHO???
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Posted 3/16/06 8:17 AM |
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capricorn75
J-E-T-S
Member since 5/05 1645 total posts
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
Yes, both times I was pg
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Posted 3/16/06 8:28 AM |
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baghag
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Member since 5/05 10278 total posts
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
Yes, I get tested every year.
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Posted 3/16/06 8:29 AM |
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stayandjohn
Our life is complete
Member since 5/05 5909 total posts
Name: Stacey
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
Posted by leighla
I had a serious scare with this.
I broke up with a guy I had been seeing for a couple months - it ended badly. He was supposed to be moving to Las Vegas and I didn't want a long distance thing.
About 3 weeks after we broke up he called to tell me he had tested positive for HIV.
I immediately threw up. And then I procrastinated on getting tested.
It was one of those mental things where I felt like NOT knowing was better than knowing. I finally went and got tested and it was negative. Of course, then you have to go back 6 months later and it was still THANKFULLY negative.
But the kicker is that I saw him about a year later, working at a local bar. I went up to him and said - "You aren't in Vegas?" and he said, "No, and I never was going to - I was testing your loyalty."
Then I said "What about the HIV?" and he said "I don't have it...I wanted you to suffer."
And he WALKED AWAY FROM ME!! Into the back of the bar. I pushed my way into the employees only area and was SCREAMING at him and was promptly and physically removed from the bar.
Can you say PSYCHO???
Holy crap!!!!!!!! That man was CRUEL!!!! What a jerk
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Posted 3/16/06 8:39 AM |
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
Member since 7/05 57538 total posts
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
Posted by leighla I pushed my way into the employees only area and was SCREAMING at him and was promptly and physically removed from the bar.
Can you say PSYCHO???
What an azzhole! I hope you were screaming "YOU'RE HIV POSTIVE?!"
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Posted 3/16/06 9:07 AM |
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MrsSchwags
Soccer Baseball Lax Mom
Member since 10/05 11240 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
Yes.
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Posted 3/16/06 9:24 AM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
Member since 5/05 27530 total posts
Name: me
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
Yup. Once when I was dating JT, then again when I found out I was pregnant.
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Posted 3/16/06 9:31 AM |
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Kirsten
LIF Toddler
Member since 5/05 485 total posts
Name: Kirsten
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
yes When I found out that my ex-fi was cheating on me. then again 2 years later when i got together with FH and asked him to get tested too.
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Posted 3/16/06 9:46 AM |
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MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug
Member since 5/05 11357 total posts
Name: Kathy
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
Yes I've been tested several times because I find it reassuring. Plus with all my visits to theRE trying to get pregnant Ive been tested several more times...and since I became PG, I've been tested again. My hospital wont let you leave with your baby unless you get tested!!
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Posted 3/16/06 10:24 AM |
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Faithx2
All good things in 2016!!
Member since 8/05 20181 total posts
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
Now it's a NYS manditory blood test while pregnant. They just passed this law a few months ago............
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Posted 3/16/06 10:28 AM |
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Shanti
True love
Member since 6/05 12653 total posts
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
When she found out I had never had one, a few years ago (right before I met DH) my GYN gave me a full STD test and an HIV test.
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Posted 3/16/06 3:17 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
Member since 5/05 12023 total posts
Name: Sonia
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
I didn't even know I got tested when I was PG I didn't pay too much attention. So I guess I was tested.
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Posted 3/16/06 3:34 PM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
Name: Properly perfect™
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
Posted by rosaria
Yes...when I found I was pregnant
Me too
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Posted 3/16/06 3:34 PM |
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CowgirlChick97
Nike. Just do it.
Member since 5/05 3303 total posts
Name: Brianna
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Re: Spinoff: Have you ever been tested?
Posted by Jax430
No. DH and I were each other's firsts, so I never saw a reason.
Same here!
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Posted 3/16/06 3:36 PM |
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