spinoff to DC not getting you card, ... i feel Horrible..

I feel like Cr@p.. i didnt even think to get my DD a card.. I got her something to give to her daddy, and i got a her a toy.. but no card!!! Dh asked me this morning if i had gotten her one, Im so absent minded these days. Her Baptism was last sunday and i was trying to get everything for that. Dh is going to try and pick up a card after work.. I hope hes able to find one.. and i feel sh!tty about that, b/c its going to be a card that was left over, not one that was specially picked out for her..

I know this stuff is silly to be upset about, but i truley feel Sh!tty mommy right now.

Re: spinoff to DC not getting you card, ... i feel Horrible..

i didn't buy my DD a card either... she can't read at 4 months anyway...she got a V Day bib and pajamas

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Don't make your self crazy about it Tina. You are a great mom. You gave her a great christening and you are all she needs for Valentines Day. She wants you not a card. You are her valentine and she is yours just remember that.

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I did not buy a card either, Leo shocked me this morning when he slipped my josh's card to sign...

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Don't feel bad, I was so worried of forgetting to get my DH a card from my Julia, that I forgot to get her a card myself.... ThankGod there to little to remember--lol

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DS is two years old and I didn't get him a card. I haven't gotten him a card for anything yet. Maybe this year I'll get him a birthday card.

Don't feel bad. Have you DH stop off and buy one for DC if you really feel bad.

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Hello did you see my response? I feel like crap

Here is my response:
I did get a card but I didnt get DS anything
I only bought DH a card. My nanny walked in the house with doll, balloon and a backyardigans card for my DS.
Dont feel so bad!! I am the worst mother

Too boot DS never prefers my nanny over me. Today he went right to her and waved bye-bye to me as to tell me get lost and go to work.

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I didnt by DS a card either. He wont really understand it right now anyway. I will just give him plenty of love, hugs and kisses when I get home from work.

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Thanks everyone. Im not the only one who didnt, that makes me feel bettter.

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Ok Am I the only one who doesnt feel guilty?

I didnt get my son anything nor a card. HEs only 8 months old and I think its just a waste of money...for us anyway.

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I felt pressured to buy my DD a small gift from co workers but I think getting babies a gift/card for V-day is so carried away

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I didn't get DS anything either. He's only 2.5 months, so too little to appreciate any of this at all.

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I didn't get him anything - and don't feel guilty about it either. The kid is 7 months old - and gets presents every day of the year.

I did shower him with some extra Valentine's kisses this morning though!

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Uhm...am I missing something here? I mean this is Valentine's Day and not a Birthday or a major life milestone...my son is also 4.5 months and I didn't even think about getting him a card...for what? So he look at it for a fraction of a second and look away? I'd rather kiss him up and tell him how much I love him. So don't feel horrible, there is nothing to feel horrible about.

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I did not get DS a card. I got one for DH from DS. I doubt I will even get a card from DH!

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I know shes only 5m old and cant read or remember it, but i would like a card to put in her scrapbook. I have all the tags from her xmas gifts that i plan on using. But now that i think about it, i didnt get her a halloween or thanksgiving card, so i guess valentines day isnt a big deal.. I do have the cards my sister gave her.

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Well, I must be the worst mother in the world. I didn't even thnk about getting anything for my DS!!

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Last year when DD was 10 months, I didn't get her anything.

This year, i got her a card ONLY because when I walked into the store, the first thing I saw was a Dora card. I don't feel like I need to give her gift. Heck, DH and I don't usually exchange gifts on Valentines day. I figure the best gift I give her is my unending love.

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I got DD a stuffed animal yesterday in CVS while waiting for her antibiotics to get filled but that was only because she slobbered all over it. Otherwise she would have gotten the same thing I got her for her 1st Christmas and 1st B-day=squat. Now who's the bad mommy here?