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Tell me this was totally uncalled for(UPDATE in orig.post)

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Phyl
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Tell me this was totally uncalled for(UPDATE in orig.post)

UPDATE
My DD got a message from the oldest sister today saying that she was sorry how she reacted and realized how out of line she was and
didn't realize she sounded like such a bytch. (right)
I think a little angel called my mom had something to do with her sudden guilt. My DD hasn't decided if she is even going to call her back and talk to her or not. I'm still glad I don't have to deal with that crap at the wedding. Thankfully she didn't try to come to the wedding after all that.

Thanks to everyone for such support.
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My XH has 5 kids from 2 previous marrages. The oldest girl is his X's and his step daughter. My youngest DD texed her if she knew yet if her family was going to be able to come to the wedding. The RSVP deadlie was 6/1. She texted back that she wasn't sure yet because her son might have a soccor game. Jackie said ok is it possible to let us know by Friday. The sister replies that if she has to decide that soon than the answer is no. Jackie texts back. OK I'm so sorry. The sister then texts back "whatever" and we are now not comming to the bachlotette party and have a nice life.
W T H ???????? Chat Icon

This woman is 40 years old and my kids are 20 and 23. I can't for the life of me figure out why she responded that way.Chat Icon

My Dd'S are very hurt and upset by this.
They totally didn't deserve this.

My DD's other 1/2 sister,who has the same mom as the other one rsvp'd yes and then told them they now aren't comming because they decided to make other plans. This was done before
the other sister did what she did.:

Message edited 6/5/2009 12:43:47 AM.

Posted 6/2/09 11:14 PM
 
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LSP2005
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

Chat Icon Chat Icon I am sorry. Family can be really awful sometimes. Your DD is much better off without them. As hard as it is now, please don't ever give them a second thought. Don't let their not coming mar her special day. These words are unfortunately spoken from experience and heart ache.

Posted 6/2/09 11:21 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

Posted by LSP2005

Chat Icon Chat Icon I am sorry. Family can be really awful sometimes. Your DD is much better off without them. As hard as it is now, please don't ever give them a second thought. Don't let their not coming mar her special day. These words are unfortunately spoken from experience and heart ache.


I promised my DD's that I would not say anything about it to anyone. My heart aches for my sweetie pies over this.Chat Icon

Posted 6/2/09 11:25 PM
 

LSP2005
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

Posted by Phyl

Posted by LSP2005

Chat Icon Chat Icon I am sorry. Family can be really awful sometimes. Your DD is much better off without them. As hard as it is now, please don't ever give them a second thought. Don't let their not coming mar her special day. These words are unfortunately spoken from experience and heart ache.


I promised my DD's that I would not say anything about it to anyone. My heart aches for my sweetie pies over this.Chat Icon


Chat Icon My lips are sealed.

Posted 6/2/09 11:29 PM
 

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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

TOTALLY uncalled for! Chat Icon what a *****!

sorry hunChat Icon

Posted 6/2/09 11:39 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

Posted by LSP2005

Posted by Phyl

Posted by LSP2005

Chat Icon Chat Icon I am sorry. Family can be really awful sometimes. Your DD is much better off without them. As hard as it is now, please don't ever give them a second thought. Don't let their not coming mar her special day. These words are unfortunately spoken from experience and heart ache.


I promised my DD's that I would not say anything about it to anyone. My heart aches for my sweetie pies over this.Chat Icon


Chat Icon My lips are sealed.


Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

I'm pretty sure LIF is exempt from my promise.Chat Icon

Message edited 6/2/2009 11:49:02 PM.

Posted 6/2/09 11:39 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

Posted by MrsERod

TOTALLY uncalled for! Chat Icon what a *****!

sorry hunChat Icon


Thank youChat Icon Chat Icon I am cying over this hurt this bytch caused my girls.Chat Icon

Message edited 6/2/2009 11:41:51 PM.

Posted 6/2/09 11:41 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

Posted by Phyl

Posted by MrsERod

TOTALLY uncalled for! Chat Icon what a *****!

sorry hunChat Icon


Thank youChat Icon Chat Icon I am cying over this hurt this bytch caused my girls.Chat Icon




**** her - she's totally NOT worth it! Chat Icon

the wedding will be that much better WITHOUT her there OR in any of the pics!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/2/09 11:46 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by Phyl

Posted by MrsERod

TOTALLY uncalled for! Chat Icon what a *****!

sorry hunChat Icon


Thank youChat Icon Chat Icon I am cying over this hurt this bytch caused my girls.Chat Icon




**** her - she's totally NOT worth it! Chat Icon

the wedding will be that much better WITHOUT her there OR in any of the pics!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon


WORD! It's just weird because my Son(step) that I raised since he was 8 months old has the same bio mom as she does. That will not be effected! My girls and him grew up in the same house FT and are close.Chat Icon

Message edited 6/2/2009 11:57:26 PM.

Posted 6/2/09 11:52 PM
 

4ForMe
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by Phyl

Posted by MrsERod

TOTALLY uncalled for! Chat Icon what a *****!

sorry hunChat Icon


Thank youChat Icon Chat Icon I am cying over this hurt this bytch caused my girls.Chat Icon




**** her - she's totally NOT worth it! Chat Icon

the wedding will be that much better WITHOUT her there OR in any of the pics!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon



ITA!!!!!!!!!

Sorry your daughter had to go through this Phyl. Chat Icon

Posted 6/2/09 11:54 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

Posted by 4ForMe

Posted by MrsERod

Posted by Phyl

Posted by MrsERod

TOTALLY uncalled for! Chat Icon what a *****!

sorry hunChat Icon


Thank youChat Icon Chat Icon I am cying over this hurt this bytch caused my girls.Chat Icon




**** her - she's totally NOT worth it! Chat Icon

the wedding will be that much better WITHOUT her there OR in any of the pics!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon



ITA!!!!!!!!!

Sorry your daughter had to go through this Phyl. Chat Icon


Thanks BarbaraChat Icon I'm wishing her into the cornfield.Chat Icon

I also unfriended her and blocked her on FB.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 6/3/2009 12:00:50 AM.

Posted 6/2/09 11:59 PM
 

CCMommy
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

That's terrible.

I'm sure everyone will still have a great time though. With or without them.

Posted 6/3/09 12:58 AM
 

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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

I am so sorry she had to go through that !I have learned that weddings bring out the true colors in people....it just sux when it is bad and hurtful Chat Icon I hope she can keep her head up and enjoy "her" time as a bride to be ,and don't let those beeeotches ruin it !!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/3/09 2:29 AM
 

Cpt2007
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

I'm so sorry that she had to go through this. It's hard to see it now but with time, she'll realize it is all for the best.

My wedding was similarly marred. I invited my "aunt", the xw of my uncle and godfather. She was really the only aunt we ever knew growing up. My uncle took the invitation as a personal insult and sent the most vile written letter insulting myself and my parents (this uncle is my father's only surviving sibling). He didn't come to the wedding (even though all of his kids from his first 2 marriages were there) and refuses to speak to us to this day.

It hurts that these things happen, but you don't want spoilers at your daughter's wedding. And the day of, she'll never even give them a second thought.

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for you and your dds.

Posted 6/3/09 6:36 AM
 

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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

What idiots! Chat Icon

Posted 6/3/09 7:07 AM
 

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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

It's probably a blessing in disguise, they sound like white trash and would possibly try and ruin her wedding!! Azzholes!!Chat Icon

Posted 6/3/09 7:55 AM
 

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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

You know, that is really odd. Why on Earth woudln't you miss a soccer game for a wedding in the first place?

Sorry, Hil and Phyl Chat Icon

Posted 6/3/09 7:55 AM
 

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Posted 6/3/09 9:03 AM
 

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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

WHAT???? That is bizarre behavior..many Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon for you and your DD. In the long run it sounds like your DD ill be better off without this person, although I am sure it must hurt a lotChat Icon

Posted 6/3/09 9:06 AM
 

Phyl
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

Thanks everyone. I totally think it will be less drama for my DD and even though it hurts now I think everyone sees it's for the best.Chat Icon

I just don't get people and their behavior sometimes.Chat Icon

Posted 6/3/09 9:11 AM
 

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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

what a complete and totally inappropriate way to handle things. sorry you and your dds are having to go through this.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/3/09 9:17 AM
 

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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I am so sorry Phyl...The wedding will be a lot better without obnoxious people there!

Posted 6/3/09 9:22 AM
 

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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

I totally agree that weddings bring out the best in some people and the absolute worst in others. I am so sorry they are acting in this horrible way towards your DD, but you know what? Better to have the drama now than on her wedding day! They sound like ****es anyway!!!! Chat Icon

Posted 6/3/09 10:25 AM
 

headoverheels
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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

wow... just wow. your poor DD. i am glad these people won't be there - good riddance to them!

Posted 6/3/09 10:29 AM
 

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Re: Tell me this was totally uncalled for

What a bunch of witches!!! Chat Icon

Sorry for the hurt that your daughters are feeling - Chat Icon

Posted 6/3/09 10:42 AM
 
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