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Redhead
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THANK YOU VENT

Sorry but i have to....

It really gets on my nerves when you go out of your way to help someone and they DO NOT have the decency to say..."THANK YOU"

WHY EXACTLY IS THAT SOOOOOOO HARD?

And yes i know...we don't help people just to get a thank you. But it is just common courtesy to WRITE TWO FRIGGIN WORDS WHENS SOMEONE GIVES YOU GOOD ADVICE....



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Posted 10/20/05 3:06 PM
 
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baghag
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

its only happened to me once on LIW actually. very discouraging though.

Posted 10/20/05 3:08 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Re: THANK YOU VENT

WORD WORD WORRRRRRD!

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Posted 10/20/05 3:08 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

it isn't hard at all.

it just boils down to the mere fact that some people are so self-absorbed, they just don't know how to say two simple words.!!! Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/05 3:09 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by baghag

its only happened to me once on LIW actually. very discouraging though.


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Posted 10/20/05 3:10 PM
 

Tany
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Yeah I agree, I always try to say thank you no matter what.

Posted 10/20/05 3:11 PM
 

preciouslove
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Some People are just plain airheads...they don't get it that that is the right thing to do.

DH gives one of his co-workers a ride every morning, saving her time and money and she never once said has said thank you or that she appreciates the big favor he does for her everyday...

Posted 10/20/05 3:11 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

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Posted 10/20/05 3:11 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by Redhead

It has happened to me more than once! Chat Icon




D I T T O!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted 10/20/05 3:12 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by Redhead

Posted by baghag

its only happened to me once on LIW actually. very discouraging though.


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Same here. Very recently too.

Posted 10/20/05 3:12 PM
 

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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

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Posted 10/20/05 3:12 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

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Posted 10/20/05 3:12 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by Aliasmom

Yeah I agree, I always try to say thank you no matter what.

i can even see how sometimes people get a lot of responses and all...that you can't stop to thank every single person...

BUT when you are the ONLY ONE who tries to go out of their way to help and you GET NOTHING AT ALL...

THAT IS JUST FRIGGIN RUDE...

Pretty pathetic IMO

Posted 10/20/05 3:13 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

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Posted 10/20/05 3:13 PM
 

DonnaJoe708
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

I hear ya! This has happened to me on LIW and it makes me very reluctant to offer any advice.

Posted 10/20/05 3:13 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by BabyAvocado

Posted by Redhead

Posted by baghag

its only happened to me once on LIW actually. very discouraging though.


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Same here. Very recently too.



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And sadly it makes me not want to help anyone anymore.
And that is sad!

Posted 10/20/05 3:14 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by MrsERod

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Posted 10/20/05 3:14 PM
 

KaRiSsA
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

I always say thanks like 10x. I know what you mean others not saying anything.

Posted 10/20/05 3:17 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by KaRiSsA

I always say thanks like 10x. I know what you mean others not saying anything.



omg..i'm the same way.,..sometimes i think i sound like a total whack job saying thank you so much!! Chat Icon

is that how i sounded when i fm'd you karissa!?? Chat Icon Chat Icon

if so, then i'm sorry!! and thanks again!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/05 3:19 PM
 

FeliciaDP

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Re: THANK YOU VENT

I will say it used to happen to me SO OFTEN on LIWs that my blood would boil. In particular because I would give DETAILED replies to newbies about my vendors or wedding experience, with links and eveyrthing.. and not even TWO FRIGGIN WORDS saying THANK YOU!!

I am a very hepful person (or so I think) and it totally turned me off to helping ANYMORE. Its also part of the reason I basically stopped posting on any of the brides boards in general...

I only now refer people to my review if they need anything..

HERE .. its not happened AS MUCH .. but sometimes it still does, and it STILL makes my blood boil!!

COMMON COURTESY PEOPLE !Chat Icon


DISCLAIMER: there are many fabulous people here who are wonderful and always appreiciate and also helpful to ME .. so this is not the majority, its the select few that p*ss me off!

Posted 10/20/05 3:21 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by KaRiSsA

I always say thanks like 10x. I know what you mean others not saying anything.


i just don't get it....
If someone spends their time helping or explaining something to a fellow poster....they shold say THANK YOU or some sort of appreciative FM...

I mean come on....

if you can post up the wazooo about your issues your planning and your BS....then you sohuld be able to quickly say Thanks (hey no need to add the YOU)...

Posted 10/20/05 3:21 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by FeliciaDP

DISCLAIMER: there are many fabulous people here who are wonderful and always appreiciate and also helpful to ME .. so this is not the majority, its the select few that p*ss me off!



DITTO!!

Posted 10/20/05 3:22 PM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

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Jennifer

Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by FeliciaDP

I will say it used to happen to me SO OFTEN on LIWs that my blood would boil. In particular because I would give DETAILED replies to newbies about my vendors or wedding experience, with links and eveyrthing.. and not even TWO FRIGGIN WORDS saying THANK YOU!!

I am a very hepful person (or so I think) and it totally turned me off to helping ANYMORE. Its also part of the reason I basically stopped posting on any of the brides boards in general...

I only now refer people to my review if they need anything..

HERE .. its not happened AS MUCH .. but sometimes it still does, and it STILL makes my blood boil!!

COMMON COURTESY PEOPLE !Chat Icon


DISCLAIMER: there are many fabulous people here who are wonderful and always appreiciate and also helpful to ME .. so this is not the majority, its the select few that p*ss me off!


YES i saw this happen on LIW often...and i can excuse some of it...because sometimes you get a gazillion FMs ...

BUT HERE....PUHLEEZE...Chat Icon
Here you shold be able to send a thanks

Posted 10/20/05 3:22 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

how about thx? Chat Icon

Posted 10/20/05 3:22 PM
 

MrsERod
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Re: THANK YOU VENT

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

how about thx? Chat Icon



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Posted 10/20/05 3:23 PM
 
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