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pmpkn087
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Stephanie

The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

So, for those who asked and for those who don't know, I lost 82.8 lbs since August 4, 2007.

Instead of getting all sappy (which I usually do when I talk about this) I will stick to my original agenda: to share my secrets with other mommiies and answer any questions anyone might have. Also, to show people that it IS possible. Whether you have 10 lbs or 80 lbs to lose, it is all about being healthy and the best you that you can be.

I apologize if this is all over the place, but I don't always remember exactly what works or worked at a certain point, so I'll just go on as I remember things. I'm happy to answer any specific questions that anyone may have.

I first started when I saw this picture of myself from vacation. I was flooded with emotion. Mortified. Embarassed. Sad. Helpless. I felt like I had let myself go so far that there was no turning back. I had no more excuses. My son was 9 months old and I had about 20 lbs of pregnancy weight left. Not to mention I had weight to lose even before I got pregnant. I was a size 18 (which I squeezed into since I lost some weight in the 9 months since having DS). Here is the picture:
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After I saw that picture, the next weekend I began Weight Watchers. I started by making little changes. Lean Cusine for lunch. That wasn't enough to fill me up so I would add a bag or box of microwavable steamed veggies. Measuring my meals. Trying to make healthier snack choices, etc.

Af I lost about 30 lbs, I started working out. Then I started to really focus on what I was eating. Not just for weight loss but for an overall healthier lifestyle. But I did it in small increments until I had a plan that I knew I could stick with for the long-run and not just a crash diet. If I wanted Ice cream, I could only have it 3 days a week and it had to be weight watchers. No cookies, cakes, chips, etc., which wasn't a huge deal for me. I wasn't fat because I ate loads of junk. I just made bad meal choices. And I ate a LOT. So learning about my comfort zone and breaking the snacking habits were key for me.

I never let myself get too hungry. Even if I'm not hungry, every day at 11/11:30 I have my snack. A yogurt, an apple with peanut butter, a low fat bran muffin, something. And at 4:00/5:00 I make sure to have another snack. This prevents you from getting so hungry that you over eat during your meals.

I exercise 4/5 times a week. Cardio is key in weightloss. do whatever you can for however long you can...but get that heartrate UP! And keep track of what you are doing this way you can push yourself to go further as you progress. You shouldn't stay in 'one spot' so to speak for too long or you won't see any results. Always push to the next limit.

I still measure every single thing I eat. While I am a little more lenient on myself than in the past, I still have to measure what I eat. I eat as much veggies as I want. But I eat about 5 oz of protein for lunch and 4 or 5 oz for dinner. If I have rice (always brown) or bread (the darker the bread the better for you it is) or potato, then I only have it once a day.

Cookies/cake: My rule is simple. I have to make it worth my while. So, it must be homemade. And the cake can only be for a special occasion like a birthday or something. And that occasion has to be for an immediate family member. So, I didn't want to make any excuse for 'special' events to have cake. I lost 10 lbs, give me a piece of cake. Things like that weren't going to help me at all. Now, I am a little more forgiving but I still try to save those things for times when it will be worth it for me.

Snacks: make them healthy. fruit. yogurt. nuts. things that won't make you crash 1 hour after eating them. Things that won't make you say 'I shouldn't have done that.' The purpose of snacking is to speed up your metabolism and to curb your hunger until your next meal. Make it count.

Late-night snacking: For me, it was more important to kill the habit than to find snacks that were better for me. Sometimes I would have 94% fat free popcorn or a weight watchers piece of chocolate. But I would again make it worth it. If I had it one night and the next night I find myself looking for something, I didn't do it. Drink a glass of water. Have a cup of FF milk. Go outside and walk the dog Chat Icon

OK, that's all I can think of for right now. Here is a now picture. Size 6. And so much happier than I have ever been in my life. This is the real me! (sound familiar, Kim Chat Icon ) I can't imagine ever going back to that 'old me.' This is who I really am!

Here I am from July 08. What a difference one year makes!
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And here I am more recently.
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So, if I can do it. Anyone can do it. Chat Icon You just need to be determined and you need support. I'm happy to be someones support if they need it Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 5:16 PM
 
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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

Good for you!!!!!! Congrats!!!! I will F you shortly. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon You look fantastic!!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 5:20 PM
 

partyof6
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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

you hooooooooooooooooooooooot mama!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! congrats to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Posted 11/4/08 5:21 PM
 

Mommy2Boys
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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

Wow...great story...thanks for sharing! You look AMAZING!!!

Posted 11/4/08 5:21 PM
 

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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

Good for you for sticking with it! You look fantastic Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 5:23 PM
 

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Posted 11/4/08 5:25 PM
 

JenandMikey
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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

ok this made me tear up...i know some ppl would say what the heck to me bc i was never extremely overweight but i also tossed around 15-20lbs throughout my life and weight watchers always got me back on track
i gained 50lbs during my pregnancy...i lost 32lbs so far but i know i have to get back to weight watchers to get myself back on track again bc my eating is getting out of hand since im home with kaylie...my portion size is ridiculous and my snacking is constant and im just down a road where i could possibly gain some of what i lost and that is the last thing i want to do....i told myself after halloween i was going back to ww bc im a sucker for chocolate/candy but havent yet..... after hearing your story....im signing up asap!....u r awesome! congrats!Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 5:26 PM
 

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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

what an awesome journey you have gone through! you worked so hard....you look AMAZING!!! a huge congrats to you!!1 Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 5:31 PM
 

smdl
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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

Congrats on your accomplishment! You look nto only fantastic but you look healthy and have changed your eating habits to make healthier choices.

Good for you!

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Message edited 11/4/2008 5:38:13 PM.

Posted 11/4/08 5:32 PM
 

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You are an inspiration!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon


I am working on losing my last 10 lbs and you have really inspired me to work harder to achieve my goal!!!

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Posted 11/4/08 5:33 PM
 

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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

I am just speechless!! You have come so far in such short time and by what you wrote it is clear you have made a complete lifestyle change. You are an inspiration at the least! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 5:35 PM
 

jea128
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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

Thanks for all the tips. You look absolutely amazing!!!!

Posted 11/4/08 5:40 PM
 

MelToddJulia
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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

Like I said before, your one hot mama!!! Good for you!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon You look great!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 5:40 PM
 

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You really are an inspiration to others! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 5:43 PM
 

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon you are an amazing inspiration and a hot mamaChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon well done.

Posted 11/4/08 5:43 PM
 

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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

you look AMAZING and you look like you feel it too Chat Icon

I recently lost weight due to my diet restrictions and it really gives you a new look on things. I *hope* I can keep it off Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 5:44 PM
 

Nicole728
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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

OMG, you look FANTASTIC!!!

Good for you!! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 5:44 PM
 

stayandjohn
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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

AMAZING!!!!!

You look fantastic

Posted 11/4/08 5:49 PM
 

CathyB

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Congrats! That's awesome! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 5:52 PM
 

IrishTracy
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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

You look fantastic!! Well done!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Your rules you made seem so easy & make so much sense. Now I just have to kick my own arse to do the same!!

Posted 11/4/08 5:58 PM
 

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Re: The New Me...My Weightloss Secrets

You really look amazing!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 6:08 PM
 

Reese1106
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You look AMAZING!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Thank you for sharing your story and congrats on reaching your goals! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 6:13 PM
 

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Posted 11/4/08 6:16 PM
 

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You look amazing!!! You worked so hard and it shows! You should be very proud of yourself

Posted 11/4/08 6:30 PM
 

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I think you are incredible!

you look so great!!!!

your DH must be dying over this hotness!Chat Icon

Posted 11/4/08 6:34 PM
 
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