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Redhead
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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

thats incredibly sad

yes it is

and frightening

TRUST ME...I understand that most people do not know what it is like to see someone faking a seizure..

i understand that most people have very little experience with seizures at all..

YES it can be scary

BUT It can be funny, as i have said NUMEROUS times when done poorly...

POOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORLY

POORLY

it usually has the person looking at you and watching to see what you are doing..

then they shake a little....when you look away they stop and look at you and wait for you to turn around to face them..

then they shake a hip...then a arm..

sometimes they will say...i am having a seizure...

YET the min you turn around...they stop...

again...people relly have no clue what it is like to see such a thing

but funny it is

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

you know someone who has died during a seizure?

thats a pretty rare case. it usually NEVER happens. like ever...

it was an extremely rare occurance for Laura.... it involved electricity.


dead baby jokes are totally different. i dont deny i have amorbid sense of humor.

if you find it funny, fine, but like i said, i am speaking for myself and saying that I could never find humor in it.



Had to jump in just to say I found it odd you were upset with Jen b/c of just this....That you think dead baby jokes are funny but not faking a seizure?

Why is it different ?

I have a dead baby, I dont think they are funny....Same reasoning you gave to the seizure jokes( faking) not being funny right?

I guess everyones idea of funny is different and not easily judged.

JMO

Posted 11/28/06 7:56 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by cookben

I bet it is funny AS a kid. But when you are an ADULT in a classroom, as the op was, and responsible for 30 kids, I bet it's not funny.

no...and i have actually never seen a whild do it..

ONLY ADULTS...as an ADULT it was funny

Posted 11/28/06 7:56 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by cookben

Posted by Redhead

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

red, im kind of shocked that you find it funny.

its a serious matter and shouldnt be taken lightly.


because jess...

i see it done all the time.

it isn't sooo serious

And if you saw it..I WOULD BET you would laugh yourself..

some are in fact extremely comical.

People do it as i said for one of two reasons...
1. attention
2. escape..

Kids used to fake illness all the time when i was a kid to get out of school crap..

Sure this is taking it a step further..and kinda dangerous...well can be dangerous because this kids arse would be sent straight to a Er and possibly a neurologist to have medication increased unnecessarily

BUT....LIKE I SAID....if you see it..some are very funny.

I am sure this was the first time the OP has ever seen it...So i understand that shock and fear of it..

BUT..that doesn't take away from how funny they can be



I bet it is funny AS a kid. But when you are an ADULT in a classroom, as the op was, and responsible for 30 kids, I bet it's not funny.



In a school setting, with a classroom full of students, I don't see how one could find it funny. Your other students must have totally freaked out.

Jen, maybe one on one or if you know the person's history, it may be silly I am sure you can see how if you were in charge of a room full of impressionable students, it would not be funny. A teacher cannot condone that kind of behavior, whatever the attention the student was looking for.

Posted 11/28/06 7:56 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by dm24angel


Had to jump in just to say I found it odd you were upset with Jen b/c of just this....That you think dead baby jokes are funny but not faking a seizure?

Why is it different ?

I have a dead baby, I dont think they are funny....Same reasoning you gave to the seizure jokes( faking) not being funny right?

I guess everyones idea of funny is different and not easily judged.

JMO




great, here we go again.....

because one is a joke. one is someone immitating something completely scary and possible.
one is a JOKE. jokes are offensive to different people.
someone faking a seizure is very different. its very real and scary.

because i find a joke funny i guess it just means that i should find THIS funny too? please!

eta: i agreed to disagree with Red... if you notice i said that i PERSONALYL cant find any humor in it.

Message edited 11/28/2006 8:01:50 PM.

Posted 11/28/06 7:59 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Imagine being a kid with a siezure disorder and someone in your class FAKES a seizure because they find it funny. Now how funny are fake seizures?

Is tonight going to be LIF drama over fake seizures?

If my kid ever faked a seizure in front of other kids, he/ she would be in some severe trouble with me. And I am very laid back about most kid behaviors.

Message edited 11/28/2006 8:05:49 PM.

Posted 11/28/06 7:59 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

I guess this thread just goes to show how different people's sense of humors can be.....

Posted 11/28/06 8:00 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by DMcK

Posted by cookben

Posted by Redhead

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

red, im kind of shocked that you find it funny.

its a serious matter and shouldnt be taken lightly.


because jess...

i see it done all the time.

it isn't sooo serious

And if you saw it..I WOULD BET you would laugh yourself..

some are in fact extremely comical.

People do it as i said for one of two reasons...
1. attention
2. escape..

Kids used to fake illness all the time when i was a kid to get out of school crap..

Sure this is taking it a step further..and kinda dangerous...well can be dangerous because this kids arse would be sent straight to a Er and possibly a neurologist to have medication increased unnecessarily

BUT....LIKE I SAID....if you see it..some are very funny.

I am sure this was the first time the OP has ever seen it...So i understand that shock and fear of it..

BUT..that doesn't take away from how funny they can be



I bet it is funny AS a kid. But when you are an ADULT in a classroom, as the op was, and responsible for 30 kids, I bet it's not funny.



In a school setting, with a classroom full of students, I don't see how one could find it funny. Your other students must have totally freaked out.

Jen, maybe one on one or if you know the person's history, it may be silly I am sure you can see how if you were in charge of a room full of impressionable students, it would not be funny. A teacher cannot condone that kind of behavior, whatever the attention the student was looking for.

i know...

i never said they weren't scary either

nor did i think or say every faked one is funny..
I am sure as a teacher it can be scary and make some impression on the kids..

but to be honest...i have heard a HELL OF A LOT of crazy crap from the so called "normal" kids in schools these days

i made it a point to say the BADLY acted ones are funny..

Posted 11/28/06 8:01 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by johnsae

I guess this thread just goes to show how different people's sense of humors can be.....

as well as peoples DIFFERENT experiences

Posted 11/28/06 8:01 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

you know someone who has died during a seizure?

thats a pretty rare case. it usually NEVER happens. like ever...

it was an extremely rare occurance for Laura.... it involved electricity.


dead baby jokes are totally different. i dont deny i have amorbid sense of humor.

if you find it funny, fine, but like i said, i am speaking for myself and saying that I could never find humor in it.



Had to jump in just to say I found it odd you were upset with Jen b/c of just this....That you think dead baby jokes are funny but not faking a seizure?

Why is it different ?

I have a dead baby, I dont think they are funny....Same reasoning you gave to the seizure jokes( faking) not being funny right?

I guess everyones idea of funny is different and not easily judged.

JMO




great, here we go again.....

because one is a joke. one is someone immitating something completely scary and possible.
one is a JOKE. jokes are offensive to different people.
someone faking a seizure is very different. its very real and scary.



You are just inviting it...

Different? HOW?

Faking a seizure is real and scary....

A dead baby is real and scary

A dead baby is as possible as a seizure.

You just dont see the point do you?

I dont think IMO that the seziure faking is funny, but Im OPEN MINDED enough to say well if Jenn does, so be it..thats her....Who am I to Judge her.

So you dont like it when your humor is questioned...you may want to rethink questioning someone elses.

Thats it from me on this ridiculous thread...

Message edited 11/28/2006 8:03:33 PM.

Posted 11/28/06 8:02 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

Posted by dm24angel


Had to jump in just to say I found it odd you were upset with Jen b/c of just this....That you think dead baby jokes are funny but not faking a seizure?

Why is it different ?

I have a dead baby, I dont think they are funny....Same reasoning you gave to the seizure jokes( faking) not being funny right?

I guess everyones idea of funny is different and not easily judged.

JMO




great, here we go again.....

because one is a joke. one is someone immitating something completely scary and possible.
one is a JOKE. jokes are offensive to different people.
someone faking a seizure is very different. its very real and scary.

because i find a joke funny i guess it just means that i should find THIS funny too? please!

eta: i agreed to disagree with Red... if you notice i said that i PERSONALYL cant find any humor in it.

no that isn't want she is saying

what she is saying and what i meant as well is that what one person find funny another person might not

I OBVIOUSLY have more experience in this area and in a different context

what i guess i find weird is that you can't understand that there are actually
DIFFERENT CONTEXTS to this that could render it funny

Posted 11/28/06 8:03 PM
 

Jesaroo
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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

you know someone who has died during a seizure?

thats a pretty rare case. it usually NEVER happens. like ever...

it was an extremely rare occurance for Laura.... it involved electricity.


dead baby jokes are totally different. i dont deny i have amorbid sense of humor.

if you find it funny, fine, but like i said, i am speaking for myself and saying that I could never find humor in it.



Had to jump in just to say I found it odd you were upset with Jen b/c of just this....That you think dead baby jokes are funny but not faking a seizure?

Why is it different ?

I have a dead baby, I dont think they are funny....Same reasoning you gave to the seizure jokes( faking) not being funny right?

I guess everyones idea of funny is different and not easily judged.

JMO




great, here we go again.....

because one is a joke. one is someone immitating something completely scary and possible.
one is a JOKE. jokes are offensive to different people.
someone faking a seizure is very different. its very real and scary.



You are just inviting it...

Different? HOW?

Faking a seizure is real and scary....

A dead baby is real and scary

A dead baby is as possible as a seizure.

You just dont see the point do you?

I dont think IMO that the seziure faking is funny, but Im OPEN MINDED enough to say well if Jenn does, so be it..thats her....Who am I to Judge her.

So you dont like it when your humor is questioned...you may want to rethink questioning someone elses.

Thats it from me on this ridiculous thread...



HELLO!?!??!! i just said that if Red finds it funny so be it but I do NOT.

Posted 11/28/06 8:04 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by Redhead

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

Posted by dm24angel


Had to jump in just to say I found it odd you were upset with Jen b/c of just this....That you think dead baby jokes are funny but not faking a seizure?

Why is it different ?

I have a dead baby, I dont think they are funny....Same reasoning you gave to the seizure jokes( faking) not being funny right?

I guess everyones idea of funny is different and not easily judged.

JMO




great, here we go again.....

because one is a joke. one is someone immitating something completely scary and possible.
one is a JOKE. jokes are offensive to different people.
someone faking a seizure is very different. its very real and scary.

because i find a joke funny i guess it just means that i should find THIS funny too? please!

eta: i agreed to disagree with Red... if you notice i said that i PERSONALYL cant find any humor in it.

no that isn't want she is saying

what she is saying and what i meant as well is that what one person find funny another person might not

I OBVIOUSLY have more experience in this area and in a different context

what i guess i find weird is that you can't understand that there are actually
DIFFERENT CONTEXTS to this that could render it funny



Sorry, but even if a comedian was faking a seizure and it was a comedian I really liked (like Jim Carrey), I still would not find it funny. It's just not a funny subject to me.

Posted 11/28/06 8:05 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

i love how i am being flamed because i said i cant find humor in it.


and somehting i said like ayear ago is being brought up and held against meChat Icon


Posted 11/28/06 8:06 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

Posted by dm24angel

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

you know someone who has died during a seizure?

thats a pretty rare case. it usually NEVER happens. like ever...

it was an extremely rare occurance for Laura.... it involved electricity.


dead baby jokes are totally different. i dont deny i have amorbid sense of humor.

if you find it funny, fine, but like i said, i am speaking for myself and saying that I could never find humor in it.



Had to jump in just to say I found it odd you were upset with Jen b/c of just this....That you think dead baby jokes are funny but not faking a seizure?

Why is it different ?

I have a dead baby, I dont think they are funny....Same reasoning you gave to the seizure jokes( faking) not being funny right?

I guess everyones idea of funny is different and not easily judged.

JMO




great, here we go again.....

because one is a joke. one is someone immitating something completely scary and possible.
one is a JOKE. jokes are offensive to different people.
someone faking a seizure is very different. its very real and scary.



You are just inviting it...

Different? HOW?

Faking a seizure is real and scary....

A dead baby is real and scary

A dead baby is as possible as a seizure.

You just dont see the point do you?

I dont think IMO that the seziure faking is funny, but Im OPEN MINDED enough to say well if Jenn does, so be it..thats her....Who am I to Judge her.

So you dont like it when your humor is questioned...you may want to rethink questioning someone elses.

Thats it from me on this ridiculous thread...



HELLO!?!??!! i just said that if Red finds it funny so be it but I do NOT.




your right, you did...my bad.

I was just pointing it out because of how heated you were in showing her why she was wrong.

And Im not flaming you, I happen to agree with you..

I just like to point out how its odd peoples perceptions change when its something close to them.....

Message edited 11/28/2006 8:07:48 PM.

Posted 11/28/06 8:06 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by johnsae

Posted by Redhead

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

Posted by dm24angel


Had to jump in just to say I found it odd you were upset with Jen b/c of just this....That you think dead baby jokes are funny but not faking a seizure?

Why is it different ?

I have a dead baby, I dont think they are funny....Same reasoning you gave to the seizure jokes( faking) not being funny right?

I guess everyones idea of funny is different and not easily judged.

JMO




great, here we go again.....

because one is a joke. one is someone immitating something completely scary and possible.
one is a JOKE. jokes are offensive to different people.
someone faking a seizure is very different. its very real and scary.

because i find a joke funny i guess it just means that i should find THIS funny too? please!

eta: i agreed to disagree with Red... if you notice i said that i PERSONALYL cant find any humor in it.

no that isn't want she is saying

what she is saying and what i meant as well is that what one person find funny another person might not

I OBVIOUSLY have more experience in this area and in a different context

what i guess i find weird is that you can't understand that there are actually
DIFFERENT CONTEXTS to this that could render it funny



Sorry, but even if a comedian was faking a seizure and it was a comedian I really liked (like Jim Carrey), I still would not find it funny. It's just not a funny subject to me.



so be it...

i am sure to some it isn't funny..

but i think that people should be able to see that they do NOT KNOW everything ....

again...i get that people do not have the experiences that i have..

so i understand...

but i am not a morbid person by any means...

i take illness seriously...

but when a seizure is faked...some are funny
funny to many

i guess only people in my feild can understand

Posted 11/28/06 8:07 PM
 

Jesaroo
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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by dm24angel



your right, you did...my bad.

I was just pointing it out because of how heated you were in showing her why she was wrong.



but thats the thing, im not heated at all!!!!! i am just sharing MY point of view on why i dont find it funny.

she thought that i could find it funny and i said why i dont.

im not heated over it at all.

to each their own.

eta: i just noticed that you added to your post and wanted to reply... i would NEVER EVER EVER tell a dead baby joke to someone who had a baby or lost a baby or had a miscarraige or anything like that. i'm not cruel.

and the jokes are in all honestly pretty tame, i would never say one that was REALLY bad.

Message edited 11/28/2006 8:10:29 PM.

Posted 11/28/06 8:08 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

i love how i am being flamed because i said i cant find humor in it.


and somehting i said like ayear ago is being brought up and held against meChat Icon




you aren't being flamed? Chat Icon

I AM BEING FLAMED...

i am just trying to show you how people and their experiences are DIFFERNT..

which in different contexts it is a whole other experience

to no avail

Posted 11/28/06 8:09 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

I really don't see any humor in it. I have witnesses siezures before and even gave my parents a good scare 2 years ago, driving in the car down to Florida.
My situation may be different. Mine were caused by an allergic reaction to medication (simple meds like advil)..the only thing I can take the rest of my life is Tylenol. Nothing else.
I compleltley blacked out and was out for a good 2-3 minutes. I had a siezure where (my family says) my eyes rolled back, I was kind of gasping for air and was biting my tongue. My body did not shake. The scariest thing is, I don't remember any of it (only the EMTs on the scene).
For a kid to this is down right disgusting! What is the school doing about it? Not funny at all!

Posted 11/28/06 8:09 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

*** is going on with people lately?


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Posted 11/28/06 8:10 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by ThusSpokeLaLolita

Posted by dm24angel



your right, you did...my bad.

I was just pointing it out because of how heated you were in showing her why she was wrong.



but thats the thing, im not heated at all!!!!! i am just sharing MY point of view on why i dont find it funny.

she thought that i could find it funny and i said why i dont.

im not heated over it at all.

to each their own.



jess...i think both of us are just expressing our thoughts

same with donna...

nobody is being flamed Chat Icon

Posted 11/28/06 8:10 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

I do see both sides here.

From the OP's perspective, it is completely scary for a child in her class to fake a seizure.

There is nothing funny about the child's motivation to fake a seizure. As others have said, it is a cry for attention or escape, and the child needs to find more appropriate means for getting his/her needs met.

However, I can understand what Jenn is saying. As someone who has the training and experience to know the difference between a real and feigned seizure, I could see it being somewhat amusing for Jenn to watch someone do a really bad job at faking a seizure - FULLY KNOWING that the person is faking and not at risk.

I think that it is a terrible behavior for the child to display, but that is symptomatic of underlying issues, which is what would really concern me.

Posted 11/28/06 8:10 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by cookben

*** is going on with people lately?


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what do you mean?

Posted 11/28/06 8:10 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by Jax430

I do see both sides here.

From the OP's perspective, it is completely scary for a child in her class to fake a seizure.

There is nothing funny about the child's motivation to fake a seizure. As others have said, it is a cry for attention or escape, and the child needs to find more appropriate means for getting his/her needs met.

However, I can understand what Jenn is saying. As someone who has the training and experience to know the difference between a real and feigned seizure, I could see it being somewhat amusing for Jenn to watch someone do a really bad job at faking a seizure - FULLY KNOWING that the person is faking and not at risk.

I think that it is a terrible behavior for the child to display, but that is symptomatic of underlying issues, which is what would really concern me.



i guess you have to know the field to see the humor..

oh well ....

Posted 11/28/06 8:11 PM
 

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Re: This girl faked a seizure today in my class.....

Posted by Redhead

Posted by Jax430

I do see both sides here.

From the OP's perspective, it is completely scary for a child in her class to fake a seizure.

There is nothing funny about the child's motivation to fake a seizure. As others have said, it is a cry for attention or escape, and the child needs to find more appropriate means for getting his/her needs met.

However, I can understand what Jenn is saying. As someone who has the training and experience to know the difference between a real and feigned seizure, I could see it being somewhat amusing for Jenn to watch someone do a really bad job at faking a seizure - FULLY KNOWING that the person is faking and not at risk.

I think that it is a terrible behavior for the child to display, but that is symptomatic of underlying issues, which is what would really concern me.



i guess you have to know the field to see the humor..

oh well ....



I think that psychologists develop strange sense of humor b/c of everything we see...you just have to laugh at certain things. If I didn't, I would be crying all the time.

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