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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: this journey is over
Best of luck to you
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PhyllisNJoe
My Box Is Broken
Member since 6/11 9145 total posts
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Phyllis
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Re: this journey is over
There is nothing more true.
I just wanted to come on here and offer you hope on the other end of Infertility. The ending that doesn't include a child. It's not an easy road, but as each day passes, you will find yourself again. Will that hole in your heart ever be filled, I can't answer that. For me, it's not as deep anymore.
I still have my moments. Like with any mourning, it's never "ok", but you get by.
I'm here if you need me
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MaeDe
LIF Adult
Member since 4/11 1169 total posts
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Re: this journey is over
I'm so sorry 
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Peainapod
Peanuts are here!
Member since 1/09 13591 total posts
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Diana
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Re: this journey is over
im so sorry. sending hugs!
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Re: this journey is over
Posted by PhyllisNJoe
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There is nothing more true.
I just wanted to come on here and offer you hope on the other end of Infertility. The ending that doesn't include a child. It's not an easy road, but as each day passes, you will find yourself again. Will that hole in your heart ever be filled, I can't answer that. For me, it's not as deep anymore.
I still have my moments. Like with any mourning, it's never "ok", but you get by.
I'm here if you need me
That is so true. I agree with everything you wrote!
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hoping2013
LIF Toddler
Member since 1/13 435 total posts
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Re: this journey is over
THANK YOU so much for your kind words and support. I am doing ok in the big picture...struggling with the grief and enormity of it all.
Infertility is awful.
I don't like the words "give up". There are no guarantees in life or with anything we do...I could keep going, do more rounds with NO guarantee, only the hope that a miracle could happen. I know for some on here your miracle did. For me, that was supposed to happen these past few months and years. It didn't.
Everyone has their end limit- this is mine. Not everyone gets a miracle...and is the way of the world.
It takes tremendous strength to "keep going" and it takes tremendous strength to stop.
Thanks again and my best wishes to you all. I am grateful for all the support I got over the years and wish it were a different outcome.
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Ballet46
LIF Infant
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Re: this journey is over
So sorry to hear this. Sadly, what you wrote is true. There are some people who do not get their miracle and are truly infertile. On boards like these everyone has hope, but sometimes hope is not realistic. I hope you find peace and things in your life that make you truly fulfilled. 
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JAPH23
LIF Adolescent
Member since 10/13 769 total posts
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Re: this journey is over
I am so sorry 
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PurpleC
Miracles Do Come True
Member since 8/10 2287 total posts
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Caren
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Re: this journey is over
Im so sorry! I can't even imagine the strength it took to make this decision.
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DaisyGirl
LIF Adult
Member since 2/08 1650 total posts
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Re: this journey is over
I'm so sorry. Infertility is so cruel.
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babyfever24
LIF Adult
Member since 1/11 3340 total posts
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Re: this journey is over
Posted by PhyllisNJoe
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There is nothing more true.
I just wanted to come on here and offer you hope on the other end of Infertility. The ending that doesn't include a child. It's not an easy road, but as each day passes, you will find yourself again. Will that hole in your heart ever be filled, I can't answer that. For me, it's not as deep anymore.
I still have my moments. Like with any mourning, it's never "ok", but you get by.
I'm here if you need me
I can't agree more....i have a friend, who although her intentions are good told me "she would've done IVE ten times until it worked and not to give up" of course IVF worked for her so it was easy for her to say this. For me i just couldn't anymore....its not giving up its moving on.
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