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sj-girl
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Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
my sister's neighbor has insurance with us, so she comes in and says ooo I hear there in a congrats in order, so I go on to say thank you.
Then she asks when i am due and I tell her November, and she want on a rant of how I should of thought about that, bc I am going to be preggo during all those hot summer months, and that I am going to be sweating like a dog  ,
So I respond, that's ok as long as I have a healthy baby, I don't care about sweating in the summer.
So THEN, she asks if we are going to find out and I tell her YEs, we want to know, and I got a whole other Rant, about how we should be surprised and she totally dislike when people find out .
So I nicely told her this is my baby and DH and I will do what's best for us and not her.
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
OMG Jill - i got that last night at a wedding too.....
'oh, you already know it's a girl? that's a shame, you should've waited.'
Really - this is your body???? I simply said, it's not going to take away one OUNCE of surprise on that day, she's still going to be MINE and then Dave chimed in with, 'and maybe mine too'...
people just FLAT OUT STINK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 3/30/09 10:03 AM |
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babyfever08
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
People are so rude... We found out we are having a boy, and so many people are telling us not to buy only boy stuff because they could've made a mistake. Or I have been told that girls are so much cuter!
Honestly, we didn't have a preference and you really don't have a choice. You get what God gives you, and as long as the baby's healthy- I don't care. People are just right out rude!
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| Posted 3/30/09 10:07 AM |
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pinkandblue
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
Posted by davenjess
I simply said, it's not going to take away one OUNCE of surprise on that day, she's still going to be MINE and then Dave chimed in with, 'and maybe mine too'...
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OMG, your DH's response, PRICELESS 
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| Posted 3/30/09 10:15 AM |
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dooodles
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
Posted by davenjess
I simply said, it's not going to take away one OUNCE of surprise on that day, she's still going to be MINE and then Dave chimed in with, 'and maybe mine too'...
I hope his response shut her up
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| Posted 3/30/09 10:16 AM |
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maiden
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
Wow.  Nothing to say except wow. The complete ridiculousness of the comments speak for themselves.
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| Posted 3/30/09 10:18 AM |
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Peainapod
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
tell her to go eff herself...and see what says.
like everyone's an expert..
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| Posted 3/30/09 10:19 AM |
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Shelleybean11
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
People are so ridiculous sometimes. I hate when people can't help but give us their opinion on the names we have chosen. IT'S NOT YOUR BABY IDIOTS! I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU THINK!
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| Posted 3/30/09 10:23 AM |
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bellaluna
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
it is SO annoying! I now answer that I take my pregnancy as a blessing, so I do not care what time of year it is.
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| Posted 3/30/09 10:26 AM |
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lucyloo
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
People are so rude! 
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| Posted 3/30/09 11:19 AM |
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shapla79
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
So sorry! People can be rude! Your baby your business!
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| Posted 3/30/09 11:22 AM |
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Myababy
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
ughh i hate poeple!! You can't win either way. I am constantly getting a hard time b/c we're not finding out the sex. I'm due in 8.5 weeks and my family is still bugging me to find out its so annoying.
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| Posted 3/30/09 12:18 PM |
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hannahsmom
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
People really are unbelievable. People will ask me if I know what I am having, once I say  , they ask if I picked a name, which we have, and I say yes, Ryan Gary (Gary is after my DH's late brother who died at a very early age) and of course we get the.... well I kinda like Ryan, but Gary??? what is that?
UM HELLO!!! Is it ANY of your business??? Guess I should just start telling people that we don't have a name picked out.
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| Posted 3/30/09 1:32 PM |
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FLaCaTaCa
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
Good for you for standing up for yourself!! I am a total witch when people butt into our baby decisions! What works for you doesn't necessarily work for me is usually how I tell them! I am pretty nasty about it but the convo ends then and there...that's how I like it!
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| Posted 3/30/09 1:33 PM |
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vwebb85
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
Good for you!! When people told us we shpouldn't find out.. I told them DH and I will do whats best for us too!!
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| Posted 3/30/09 1:47 PM |
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ckone
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Re: Well i ran into my 1st negative person today
Unreal isn't it. It used to bother me but now I laugh because why do my life decisions bother people so much. If it's not her hot and pregnant through the summer what the h^^^ does he care.
I get eyes rolled at me too because we like to find out beforehand. I always get the comment "there aren't that many suprises in life, that should be a surprise." Then my husband always says "chilbirth is enough of a suprise and seeing a baby come out of (me) is an even bigger surprise".
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| Posted 3/30/09 1:50 PM |
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People are so obnoxious!
You should just HEAR the comments people make when we tell them we're having twins. Don't get me wrong, some are awesome and congratulate us on the double blessing and double delight... but there are some crazy people out there who like to make the most negative comments... I feel bad for them with such a negative outlook on something so beautiful.
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| Posted 3/30/09 1:54 PM |
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