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yankinmanc
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
Posted by Moehick
Posted by racheeeee
I usually give hiim the sharing talk, and find him another toy to play with, and then give the toy back to the kid.
But if a kid grabs something out of Noahs hand how does he respond?
He cries, and I usually speak to the other childs mother (if they are around) and they usually find their kid another toy to distract them. I always get my kids toy back!
Reading comprehension was never my strong point.
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
goes after it and then cries if she does not get it back
If I am there, I try to explain to the child that it is not nice to snatch things away from people
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
DS does not like when another kid touches him or his toys. He will push the hand of the child as a sign to go away. Then he will get grumpy and hit (kind of "tap" actually) which is the step up after the pushing and if they other child continues to go for the toy DS has.
If a kid is just friendly to DS as "touching" him, I reprimend him by saying "no" and "no hitting". He knows that he is not allowed to do that just because a kid is near him. And I have done that quite a few times.
If I kid wants to take DS' toy that's a different story. It's harder to explain. I mean I cannot teach DS NOT to take a toy from another kid and not be expected to tell him not to do that. So if a kid want to take DS' toy how do I explain to him to "share" since I reprimend him NOT to take other kids' toys? KWIM? I still don't allow hitting regardless. BUT I do take the toy from the child taking the toy from DS and give it back to DS and tell the other child that they have to wait for their turn.
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HillW9608
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
It depends. Sometimes she'll just move onto something else, but lately she'll get upset and come find me to tell me that so and so isnt sharing lol
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| Posted 10/24/08 3:51 PM |
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leighla
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
I have a bully too.
He'll grab it back and may resort to biting if he doesn't get it back right away.
I usually just try to distract him and give him something similar or try to get them both to play with whatever it is together.
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Luv2bAmom
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
Posted by KateDevine
He goes after it. He isn't good at sharing, we need to work on that.
Same here, he just grabs it back.
I must say though he is also usually the culprit, I step in and give it back tothe child that had it first.
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headoverheels
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
Posted by MsMBV
He gets another toy. He is pretty non-confrontational so far. The only time he had a reaction (as far as we know) was when one of his classmates hit him to get the toy. He went up to them and stuck out his finger and said "no" then walked away.
OMG 
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| Posted 10/24/08 4:11 PM |
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angelbear217
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
Depends on her mood and situation. Most of the time she just lets it go and goes off to play with something else. But I have seen her battle with a child at daycare over something and she cries and doesn't give it up. But it's only with that child which I think is because the kid does it all the time and she's fed up.
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nymommy2be
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
Posted by Moehick
Kerri is taking more of a passive role and just lets the other child take the toy then gets upset. She will never grab a toy out of anothers childs hand though. Just hoping she becomes a little more assertive
My son is the same way, but he doesn't get upset, he just moves on. I figure he is just easy going.
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FeliciaDP
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
Posted by Mikismom
goes after it and then cries if she does not get it back
If I am there, I try to explain to the child that it is not nice to snatch things away from people
pretty much the same situation here -
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Kidsaplenty
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
If the other kid isn't running away, DS tries to beat them down. We're working on that.
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| Posted 10/24/08 5:25 PM |
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SuzyQ
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
She usually gets the most perplexed look on her face and USUALLY she'll just move on to something else. Sometimes a tug of war starts. 
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Janice
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
Posted by nferrandi
DS will go after the toy, and if he can't get it back, he'll try to scratch.  Now in fairness, I don't think it's fair for something to ripped out of his hands, but I certainly don't promote his aggresive attitude to get it back. We're working on it. 
this is me...if a kid takes something from Josh, I know to JUMP out of my seat, not to get the toy back but to make sure Josh gets it back before he pushes the kid down.
If someone takes something from one of Josh's friends, he will also go after them.
He is a starch rule follower. Its good and bad, there is no gray area with him. He won't take a toy, but don't touch the one he's holding
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CrankyPants
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
DD will hunt you down if you take her toy.
She will also cry.
She also takes the toys of others.
We are working on sharing a lot these days.
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Lucky
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Re: What does your DC do when another kid takes a toy out of their hand?
She used to do nothing but this weekend I saw her really go at a child to get a toy back. While I don't want her to just give into that, I didn't like to see the aggressiveness either. She actually went to hit the child---and she's not a hitter. Frustration, I guess.
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