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Re: What would you do or how would you feel
Posted by JennZ
one thing has nothing to do with the other. id let him see the kid.
Part of me thinks this, part thinks you should speak to your SIL, the fact that you stated he and your DS love each other. That speaks volumes.
I (we) dont know what happened in their relationship that lead him to cheat. My guess is they were both involved on some level with the demise of their marriage. It always takes two to make a relationship work. I watched someone close to me go through a cheating situation.
How will your DS feel if you cut this person out of his life? Remember he is innocent.
adding: I dont think you should worry about your SIL future and possble marriage, when/if that time comes around deal with it then, if your x BIL is still in your life
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mami49
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What would you do or how would you feel
I agree with previous poster. I think he will cut himself out on his own.
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| Posted 1/11/17 9:44 PM |
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MC09
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Re: What would you do or how would you feel
How old is your son and what is their relationship like? If your son is young he won't even remember the guy and will not be effected by this guy's departure. If he's older and has a solid bond with his Godfather it's a more difficult situation.
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| Posted 1/11/17 10:22 PM |
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2BadSoSad
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Re: What would you do or how would you feel
speaking from experience, my life long Aunt and biological uncle eventually divorced. This woman was my aunt my entire life. The divorce was nasty and Im a firm believer in blood is thicker than water. Did it suck to cut her out, especially someone in my 20s....ABSOLUTELY.
When I was little my other Aunt divorced her husband when I was about 4 or 5. I was close with him then but obviously, he was no longer in my life after the divorce. As a small child, I honestly didnt even think much of it. Maybe I asked a time or two but Im almost 40 now, and I have lived to tell about it and I dont yearn for "what could have been" bc I was SO young.
The first Aunt I mentioned was actually WAY harder bc she had been my Aunt until I was well into my 20s. Every now and then my cousins will post a pic on FB of them with her and I miss her, but I never even think of my other Aunts exDH bc I was so young.
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