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Who are you hardest on?

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Redhead
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Jennifer

Who are you hardest on?

Most people say that we are hardest on our loved ones...

Who are you hardest on

Posted 12/7/05 10:45 AM
 

baghag
:P

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Re: Who are you hardest on?

All of the above. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/7/05 10:48 AM
 

Irishlass
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Lisa

Re: Who are you hardest on?

Def DH. If he was has hard on me I would tell him to take a long walk of a short pier. I trying to work on that.

Posted 12/7/05 10:48 AM
 

Redhead
You Live, You Learn

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Jennifer

Re: Who are you hardest on?

i think i am hardest on my sister probably because i think she needs it the most

Posted 12/7/05 10:48 AM
 

DonnaJoe708
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Re: Who are you hardest on?

My DH. Chat Icon

Posted 12/7/05 10:48 AM
 

nov04libride
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Me

Re: Who are you hardest on?

myself Chat Icon I expect more of myself than I would of anyone else, and push myself harder than I ever would someone else.

Posted 12/7/05 10:49 AM
 

Redhead
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Re: Who are you hardest on?

Posted by nov04libride

myself Chat Icon I expect more of myself than I would of anyone else, and push myself harder than I ever would someone else.


yea of course....which is why i didn't put that on the poll

i think we are all hardest on ourselves Chat Icon

Posted 12/7/05 10:49 AM
 

nov04libride
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Re: Who are you hardest on?

Posted by Redhead

Posted by nov04libride

myself Chat Icon I expect more of myself than I would of anyone else, and push myself harder than I ever would someone else.


yea of course....which is why i didn't put that on the poll

i think we are all hardest on ourselves Chat Icon



I always thought everyone was as well, but the more people I meet, the more I learn how many slackers there are in this world. Someone I recently met is pregnant and is doing all she can to not work (no complications barring her from working)...Lying to go on welfare and medicaid...I hold myself to a higher standard, but it boggles my mind how low some people are and how hard people work at getting out of working and supporting themselves.

I'm not that hard on my husband. He's the only one in his family to graduate college, and has a decent career, but I know my family was much harder on my brother and me because so much more was expected of us always. I know I push myself more than he does in and outside of work, but I knew that wasn't him when I married him. His family always stressed having fun more, and so we kind of make a good pair in that sense, so while I am getting my doctorate full time while working full time and doing freelance writing, he pushes me to make time for fun. I'm hard on my brother, but only because I was always envious of how easily everything came to him, and I feel like he should be doing so much because he can.

Message edited 12/7/2005 10:59:02 AM.

Posted 12/7/05 10:54 AM
 

mskimmy98
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Kimberly

Re: Who are you hardest on?

my parents by far.. i just feel like I can take everything out on them!

Posted 12/7/05 11:07 AM
 

kathleeng

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Kathleen

Re: Who are you hardest on?

Myself, no question.Chat Icon

Posted 12/7/05 11:10 AM
 

FeliciaDP

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Mommy

Re: Who are you hardest on?

Hm... I am probably hardest on my Mom actually. She is so set in her ways, and I have no patience with her sometimes. I can be so nasty towards her and give her so much attitude, when really she is nothing but good to me on a whole. I am trying to chance how I act and react towards her, becuase I never want to one day look back and regret how I treated her

I also take a lot of things out on DH, but I dont feel that I am necessarily "hard" on him.. I'm just difficult , slight difference Chat Icon

Posted 12/7/05 11:15 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: Who are you hardest on?

DH!!

Posted 12/7/05 11:16 AM
 

leighla
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Lauren

Re: Who are you hardest on?

My in-laws. I hold them to standards I would probably never hold my own parents to.

We've had a increasingly difficult relationship since DH and I got married.

Which translates into be being hardest on DH. He has to run interferrance an awful lot.

Posted 12/7/05 11:16 AM
 

LadyMaravilla
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Sonia

Re: Who are you hardest on?

Posted by leighla

My in-laws. I hold them to standards I would probably never hold my own parents to.

We've had a increasingly difficult relationship since DH and I got married.

Which translates into be being hardest on DH. He has to run interferrance an awful lot.



Oh yeah me too. How could I have forgotten. My monster-in-law!

Posted 12/7/05 11:17 AM
 

MsMa
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Meri

Re: Who are you hardest on?

Posted by kathleeng

Myself, no question.Chat Icon



Me too Chat Icon

Posted 12/7/05 11:25 AM
 

Bri
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Brianne

Re: Who are you hardest on?

oohh a toughy- I think I tend to be hard on everyone at times . . .

Posted 12/7/05 11:53 AM
 

Moehick
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Properly perfect™

Re: Who are you hardest on?

I would have to say my mother...throughout my life I have fought with her the most, we just don't see eye to eye

Message edited 12/7/2005 12:28:28 PM.

Posted 12/7/05 11:55 AM
 

SoinLove
Making big changes

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Kristin

Re: Who are you hardest on?

I'm the hardest on DH and my parents. I guess the saying's true on my part.

Posted 12/7/05 12:26 PM
 

saraH
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: Who are you hardest on?

FH

Posted 12/7/05 12:29 PM
 

dooodles
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Because 2 people fell in love

Re: Who are you hardest on?

If it's in regards to arguing or not seeing eye to eye - my MIL

But I am hard on my Mother at times. Mostly out of worry for her health and well being and I do tend to go overboards once in awhile.

Posted 12/7/05 1:23 PM
 

CaseyGirl
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Jen - counting my blessings...

Re: Who are you hardest on?

My younger sister...only bc I try to guide her etc.

Posted 12/7/05 1:38 PM
 

monkeybride
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Re: Who are you hardest on?

Definitely DH and my mom. Not really on my friends and I have siblings.

Posted 12/7/05 1:41 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle

Re: Who are you hardest on?

boosh, hands down

Posted 12/7/05 1:46 PM
 

05mommy09
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<3 Mommy <3

Re: Who are you hardest on?

DH....

Posted 12/7/05 2:36 PM
 

Jax430
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Jackie

Re: Who are you hardest on?

My DH, definitely.

Posted 12/7/05 2:43 PM
 
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