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Diva
I am what I am
Member since 12/05 2825 total posts
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Jennifer
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Would it bother you
If you knew you husband was friends with a co-worker who obviously has a crush on him?
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Posted 7/14/06 11:27 AM  |
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LI2VA
Love my life!!
Member since 11/05 3125 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: Would it bother you
yes that would bother me, without a doubt.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:29 AM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
Member since 5/05 24460 total posts
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Tania
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Re: Would it bother you
definitely, but not because I didn't trust him but more because I don't trust a woman that already has a crush.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:29 AM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!
Member since 10/05 29450 total posts
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Diana
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Re: Would it bother you
It depends on how cute she is. 
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:29 AM |
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WoodIAm
My Boys!
Member since 5/05 5498 total posts
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JoAnne
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Re: Would it bother you
Oh Yes! I trust him, but some woman just don't care if a guy is married.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:30 AM |
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sunshinegirl
LIF Zygote
Member since 1/06 33 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: Would it bother you
It would definitely make me very uncomfortable.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:30 AM |
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MrsPorkChop
Twinning!!
Member since 5/05 9941 total posts
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Missy
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Re: Would it bother you
if i worked with my dh, or someone that looks like him, id have a big crush on him too LOL
the fact that you know about the crush is good- he probably told you
i guess it would bother me a twinge but id trust him , unless she was angelina jolie
eta - if they hung out without you, but outside of office things- then yes that would bother me.
Message edited 7/14/2006 11:33:58 AM.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:32 AM |
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Snozberry
I might steal your diamonds
Member since 2/06 4680 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: Would it bother you
If they were friends as in they talk at the office, it wouldn't bother me. If they hung out outside of work, I don't think I'd be too happy about that.
Message edited 7/14/2006 11:33:39 AM.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:32 AM |
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baghag
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Re: Would it bother you
That depends on a couple of things:
Does she act inappropriately towards DH? (making her feelings known, inviting him to lunch, etc)
Does Dh encourage her?
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:32 AM |
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Emily
Kasey & Me! Lurves it!
Member since 7/06 8703 total posts
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STBHC
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Re: Would it bother you
Yes! Although I trust DH, I would not trust the lady.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:33 AM |
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
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Re: Would it bother you
Yup. He could be friends with her but it would be a matter of how much aggravation he was willing to take at home. His choice.
I had this situation with my old boyfriend. I was living with him when she called the house. He explained in detail how it was only because she was having problems with her boyfriend, etc. He was giving her advice. I said "Ok you can be friends with her on one condition." He said "Fine." I said "If she NEVER said 'I wish my boyfriend was more like you." His face said it all.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:33 AM |
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Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!
Member since 5/05 20046 total posts
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Gerty ®
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Re: Would it bother you
Yeah....
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:34 AM |
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MsMBV
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Member since 5/05 28602 total posts
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Me
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by baghag
That depends on a couple of things:
Does she act inappropriately towards DH? (making her feelings known, inviting him to lunch, etc)
Does Dh encourage her?
I'd only be upset if she were making real advances toward him knowing he was married. not that I do not trust him, but everyone at DH job knows me, so I'd take it personally if she tried to act on it.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:34 AM |
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lululu
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Re: Would it bother you
Yes - it would bother me a lot. How does he know that she has a crush on him? Did she come out and tell him?
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:35 AM |
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jms100303
Luv my munchkins
Member since 5/05 4789 total posts
Name:
Jennifer
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by mrsv1015
yes that would bother me, without a doubt.
Me too. I wish it didn't, but it definately would.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:35 AM |
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Pumpkin
LIF Adult
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Re: Would it bother you
Idk is the person married or involved? Do they make advances? Are they just smitten by him?
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:36 AM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: Would it bother you
Yes it would bother me.
No good can come out of it. I've seen an instance of this first hand with a good friend of mine.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:37 AM |
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Diva
I am what I am
Member since 12/05 2825 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: Would it bother you
OK, lets expand the what ifs:
What if:
They (along with other coworkers) went to happy hour together often.
She occassionally calls him on his cell phone to say hi.
She is single
He is honest to you about the whole thing.
Message edited 7/14/2006 11:38:59 AM.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:38 AM |
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Re: Would it bother you
YES but not enough to do anything about it
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:38 AM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
OK, lets expand the what ifs:
What if:
They (along with other coworkers) went to happy hour together often.
She occassionally calls him on his cell phone to say hi.
She is single
He is honest to you about the whole thing.
Will FM you later...running to a meeting for the rest of the day.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:39 AM |
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randella
Love my little man
Member since 8/05 16290 total posts
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Randi
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Re: Would it bother you
yes
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:40 AM |
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Snozberry
I might steal your diamonds
Member since 2/06 4680 total posts
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Melissa
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Re: Would it bother you
Happy hour I can get over as long as it's a rare gathering. Calling him on his cell phone? Absolutely unacceptable.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:41 AM |
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MrsPorkChop
Twinning!!
Member since 5/05 9941 total posts
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Missy
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
OK, lets expand the what ifs:
What if:
They (along with other coworkers) went to happy hour together often.
She occassionally calls him on his cell phone to say hi.
He is honest to you about the whole thing.
is she single?
there is really not much you can do about it, but make sure she knows you and try to get included in these happy hours sometimes.
i have a reverse situation i guess.
i have a guy in my office who is like this with me- but hes engaged but hes always flirty in a joking sort of way- we always joke together - but my husband knows him and if this guy ever calls me for advice im not hiding the conversation. plus my husband knows this guy is sooooooo not a threat.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:41 AM |
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Pumpkin
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
OK, lets expand the what ifs:
What if:
They (along with other coworkers) went to happy hour together often.
Alcohol can complicate things
She occassionally calls him on his cell phone to say hi.
when does she call?
She is single
hmm
He is honest to you about the whole thing.
is it bad that he is honest about it? He is probably flattered I mean it is nice to have someone have a crush on you but...
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:41 AM |
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Tany
Becoming a different woman
Member since 5/05 24460 total posts
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Tania
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Re: Would it bother you
Posted by Diva
OK, lets expand the what ifs:
What if:
They (along with other coworkers) went to happy hour together often.
She occassionally calls him on his cell phone to say hi.
She is single
He is honest to you about the whole thing.
it would bother me even more because it seems it's not only an office relationship but she is also calling him outside of the office.
like I said you should trust your husband, but that's just a very sticky situation.
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| Posted 7/14/06 11:42 AM |
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